Women who are BBC only but have a white BF/Hubby…

Sharing my perspective.

Looking just on your profile you’re pretty much a perfect partner for an ultimate cuckold relationship. What gathers my attention is ‚Mistress’ included, so seems like you’re also pretty dominant and could enjoy that part. Going this way the partnership with the potential white guy would make your life easier, it doesnt need to be connected with super romantic life and bedroom activities.

It’s like gathering a slave who supports you in your QOS lifestyle, assist you the days you’re not teasing the BBCs, but both of you are having fun of this glued to the strict borders. You crave physical BBC dominance, I crave more like mental humiliation. It just works sometimes.

@DarkMystrexxx, let’s do this as a bit of Trivia for you so you can simply get along with your visual part of this topic. Please answer just yes/no and the questions are:
WOULD THAT BE EASIER IF A WHITE GUY LIVING WITH/PARTNERING YOU (knowing it’s fine for you)

Is not allowed to sleep with you in the same bed? YES/NO

Supports her QOS lifestyle and help her to be a Goddess for BBC including doing chores/keeping your sexy lingerie fresh all the time/helping you with preparing on dates?

Becomes a quiet servant maid when you invite your boyfriends at home, so you can focus just on playing and all of other stuff is covered by your white partner?

Having a personal chaffeur driving you for fun?

Demanding your white boy to go and buy you new slutty lingerie set ‚just because’ for the evening with your new lover?

Being adored all the time and thanked for showing someone how attractive are you and why you play just with BBC?


All of that are turn ons for us as a white obedient guys. :)
 
I am married to a white guy When my hubby brought up the idea wanting to watch me being fucked by another man. I very much like the idea being able to have another man's cock inside of my pussy I have always enjoyed fucking and now my husband was going to let me have the pleasure of having sex with other men. at that particular time I was working in a massage parlor where was the first time I had ever seen or touched a black cock. I had one guy that was a regular customer I found myself sexually attracted to him it was very good looking with a really big thick black cock. I told him my husband wanted to watch another man fucking my pussy and I told him I wanted to fuck him. I told my husband that I was ready to fuck another guy while he was watching. I told him it was one of my customers since I have seen his cock and they've jacked him off I really want to feel his cock in my pussy. My husband agreed to letting him fuck me we invited him over. I really enjoyed fucking his black cock he was much bigger than my husband I've never had a cock that big in my pussy before and I would have to admit I enjoyed his cock more than my husband's cock. After that my husband found a few white guys one of which was my husband's best friend. Don't get me wrong I did enjoy fucking them but not as much as I enjoyed my first black cock. I consider myself very lucky cause my husband would rather watch me fucking another man's cock then him fucking another woman's pussy. We took a break from the swinging lifestyle I was becoming horny why another man's cock in my pussy again, my husband and I went out onto the swinger sites but all the guys are kept looking at we're all black guys. I told my husband how much I enjoyed the first time and if we were going to get back into swinging i only wanted black cock going in my pussy. That was about three years ago since then I've had about four or five black guys that we have hooked up with And I'm currently having sex with a black guy named David he has a huge cock but he's probably the first guy that I really enjoy sucking his cock there are times I catch myself making love to his cock with my mouth. I always look forward to David coming over so we can fuck David is also the first black guy that I'm actually wanting to Make Love to him. so far as far as I'm concerned I only want to be with black men
 
So I’m asking this question because I am a single bisexual female who has dated black men only since I was 20. People ask me all the time, “well what if you dated a white guy who was completely ok with you dating all the black guys you wanted, would you do it?” My answer would be no. If I’m sexually attracted to only black men I’m not going to want to have sex with the white guy or to be honest wake up to looking at them.

I hear all the time from Hotwives & Queen of Spades that say, “they will only fuck black guys.” I know a lot of this is fantasy play for them… But for the ones who love black dick so much and say you only F*ck black guys then why why are you dating or married to a white guy and your CLEARLY fuck a white guy behind closed doors? 🤷🏻‍♀️ Just curious… I love learning about others and this has always been on my mind.
Your right makes no sense lol I guess maybe cuz Black men only want to fuck and white hubby's and boy friends take care of them lol
 
Your right makes no sense lol I guess maybe cuz Black men only want to fuck and white hubby's and boy friends take care of them lol
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So I’m asking this question because I am a single bisexual female who has dated black men only since I was 20. People ask me all the time, “well what if you dated a white guy who was completely ok with you dating all the black guys you wanted, would you do it?” My answer would be no. If I’m sexually attracted to only black men I’m not going to want to have sex with the white guy or to be honest wake up to looking at them.

I hear all the time from Hotwives & Queen of Spades that say, “they will only fuck black guys.” I know a lot of this is fantasy play for them… But for the ones who love black dick so much and say you only F*ck black guys then why why are you dating or married to a white guy and your CLEARLY fuck a white guy behind closed doors? 🤷🏻‍♀️ Just curious… I love learning about others and this has always been on my mind.
Your question is very interesting. It boils down to the observation that many white women live with a white man but sleep only or mainly with black people. Right?
You know better than anyone that very often blacks are '1000 times' more efficient in a bed than a white.
I'm white, sexually underperforming, but I'm trying to organize myself to live with a 38 yo black woman who wants to live with me, but who only likes to sleep with 1 or more bbcs in our martital bed... The idea is that I take care of her libido and the tenderness she needs and that our future(s) bbc(s) take care of our respective sexes. We are bisexual, which has nothing to do with homosexuality, which we find boring...like heterosexuality...
 
So I’m asking this question because I am a single bisexual female who has dated black men only since I was 20. People ask me all the time, “well what if you dated a white guy who was completely ok with you dating all the black guys you wanted, would you do it?” My answer would be no. If I’m sexually attracted to only black men I’m not going to want to have sex with the white guy or to be honest wake up to looking at them.

I hear all the time from Hotwives & Queen of Spades that say, “they will only fuck black guys.” I know a lot of this is fantasy play for them… But for the ones who love black dick so much and say you only F*ck black guys then why why are you dating or married to a white guy and your CLEARLY fuck a white guy behind closed doors? 🤷🏻‍♀️ Just curious… I love learning about others and this has always been on my mind.
 
I think there’s a big difference between being sexually attracted to some men and romantically attracted to some men. Romantic attraction has very little to do with sexual attraction as far as I’m concerned. A nice body and big cock make me want to have sex with a guy but that doesn’t mean I’m compatible with that person on a personal level. Quite often I’m not compatible with my playmates on a personal/social level. Very few of my playmates end up becoming actual friends with my husband and I outside of sexual play sessions because of that. That doesn’t keep me from wanting them to fuck me or them from wanting to bury their seed in me as often as possible. That being said, I don’t understand the dynamic of being with a boyfriend or husband that does absolutely nothing for you sexually. I think there needs to be some level of sexual gratification between significant others in order for that relationship to be high functioning and rewarding for both. I’ve been blessed with marrying a man that is handsome, funny, intelligent, caring, athletic, and hung enough to make me orgasm on his cock. The fact that he enjoys my being a cum dump slut for black men is just icing on the cake! He’s the one that introduced me to swinging and encouraged me to try black men over a decade ago. He has been nothing but supportive of my decision to only have extramarital sex with black men ever since. It wouldn’t matter what race my husband was because I love the person. I just also happen to love having sex with lots of black men and get enjoyment from increasing my body count. So it’s good for everyone involved! 🤩🖤 :qos:
Definitely agree. Sexual attraction and romantic attraction are different things and sometimes they simply don't correlate. I think the cultural insistence that we must be sexually and romantically monoamorous has been a disservice to many people.
 
I trhink most women like myself got married young and really didnt understand who we were yet or what we were maybe better discription either way we found our desires and sexual wants changing as we aged but find that we are married to the wrong race of man but that in no way chnages why we married him in the first place. NOt sure I am saying this right in simple terms i love my husbadn for a thousand little things but dont find him sexually derirable anymore I do find black men sexually desirable and fuck them exclusively outside of my marriage. Do I still ******* with my husband yes i do but its never satisfing and i dont really make any effort with him sexually. I dont/wont dress up for him I certainly wont do anal with him and i rarley if ever give him head. when we have sex i lay there and just kinda take it. Even thats pretty rare nowadays most men get the hint sex isnt working for you sooner or later.
No your family told you not to,heard this more than once from widowed and divorced white women
 
So I’m asking this question because I am a single bisexual female who has dated black men only since I was 20. People ask me all the time, “well what if you dated a white guy who was completely ok with you dating all the black guys you wanted, would you do it?” My answer would be no. If I’m sexually attracted to only black men I’m not going to want to have sex with the white guy or to be honest wake up to looking at them.

I hear all the time from Hotwives & Queen of Spades that say, “they will only fuck black guys.” I know a lot of this is fantasy play for them… But for the ones who love black dick so much and say you only F*ck black guys then why why are you dating or married to a white guy and your CLEARLY fuck a white guy behind closed doors? 🤷🏻‍♀️ Just curious… I love learning about others and this has always been on my mind.
I think the first thing you need to remember is that everyone is different and what doesn't make sense to you could make perfect sense to someone else.

For example, I have noticed a lot of Spanish and Latin American women want the 'best of both worlds", in that they want a white guy from UK/USA/Canada but they also like going home with black men.

I actually had the most interesting conversation with my Venezuelan ex-girlfriend after we had broken up, about one year later. She said that she separates emotional sex (or "making love") and hardcore sex. She wants a loving husband etc and she wants babies with a gringo (American/ British) but she also loves being pumped and used like a slut by multiple black men. In one situation she often misses the other one, but she refused to go cuckold (she's a hot wife in denial haha).

Another thing to consider is that "cheating" is exciting to some women; and is part of the appeal.

So I think it is possible to be "black only" and have a white boyfriend to an extent, but nonetheless your post was interesting.
 
Great reply. My wife finally sat me down one day for the ‘you are too small for sex’ conversation as her lack of interest was straining our marriage. I eventually came to terms with being sex-free and we’ve embraced the exclusive use of a large BBC strap-on. She is intrigued by black men -says they’ve always shown her a lot of attention and two of her best friends are mixed race couples that sing the praises of their husbands’ sexual prowess. I’d love to have a real Bull/Boyfriend for her but she is resistant. Loved your reply.
Have patience, keep subtly talking about it, show her lots of Interracial Pictures and Porn. Pick out the Best ones, focusing on Large BBC, and talk to her about how much the women are enjoying themselves ♠️💗
 
I’m not compatible on a social or personal level with most men, black or white or otherwise. Keep in mind that my response was not only directed at your comments and I still stand behind it. Either way, I don’t appreciate undue criticism given that I’m one of the few genuine QOSes on this site that keeps it real. It would be really easy for me to just walk away from this site and not contribute as a real woman that is living my life as a legit QOS. Speaking of, I’m really sick and tired of people trying to act like a woman can be having sex with equal amounts of black and white men and still be considered a QOS. I’m sorry but the agreed upon definition today is that a QOS does not seek to have sex with anyone but black men. That’s the whole point of being a QOS. The comment about being a slut plain and simple still would hold true in those cases. Why would me saying that somehow be misogynistic or hypocritical? There’s nothing wrong with being a slut. I love being called a slut and take it as a compliment. I think maybe projection is the problem here.
Our Dynamic is very much aligned with your Lifestyle.. We truly respect your honesty ♠️💗
 
So I’m asking this question because I am a single bisexual female who has dated black men only since I was 20. People ask me all the time, “well what if you dated a white guy who was completely ok with you dating all the black guys you wanted, would you do it?” My answer would be no. If I’m sexually attracted to only black men I’m not going to want to have sex with the white guy or to be honest wake up to looking at them.

I hear all the time from Hotwives & Queen of Spades that say, “they will only fuck black guys.” I know a lot of this is fantasy play for them… But for the ones who love black dick so much and say you only F*ck black guys then why why are you dating or married to a white guy and your CLEARLY fuck a white guy behind closed doors? 🤷🏻‍♀️ Just curious… I love learning about others and this has always been on my mind.
I've never thought to ask myself that question. Now that I'm thinking about it, marrying a white man is on average going to be bringing home hellas more on average, income. And financial security is a high on the lists of a good number of women. Nothing new it's in the nature of women to seek and find. And if the same husband allows you to be who you are and do whatever you'd desire that's a win-win for any housewife. Racism and income inequality are tied together. Same with sexism. That's why I think white career driven hubby=Hotwife, soccer mom, cum slut, pornstar.
 
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