Long, great thread topic
This quote you made is very powerful
“I see who she really is sexually!”
You will definitely see that....
For some men this is an amazing turn on and they love it. For some men, it makes them feel inadequate and jealous and it usually begins a process of not having sex with your wife because you know you are not good enough.
If you have no problem with your wife showing immense pleasure, thrill, excitement for another man, then there will be no regrets
If your relationship and sex life is already good and you both still yearn for each other....there won’t any regrets.
But if you don’t have these fundamental things in place....the “fire of this lifestyle” might burn your house down (relationship and sex life)