I've broke our limits over the years, it just kind of happens I think. Wasn't to do with condoms, my hubby and I agreed I'd take bareback right from the start. Or anal, because hubby knows that's my favourite.
Our limits were things like getting feelings for a guy- and I did fall for a guy big ways in our first year-, then not going with any guy that hubby didn't know about- but I did go with guys that hubby wasn't aware of- and finally not a white guy or ex bf- and my current lover is my first bf from years ago before I met hubby.
It's difficult to keep to limits, once the 'it's ok to fuck other men' door has been opened, it's difficult to stay in the same room!
Our limits were things like getting feelings for a guy- and I did fall for a guy big ways in our first year-, then not going with any guy that hubby didn't know about- but I did go with guys that hubby wasn't aware of- and finally not a white guy or ex bf- and my current lover is my first bf from years ago before I met hubby.
It's difficult to keep to limits, once the 'it's ok to fuck other men' door has been opened, it's difficult to stay in the same room!