Folks, these are (likely) real people with real feelings, not part of our fantasies. Going into this lifestyle is not easy, it requires a lot of trust. The question is, does the husband feel enough trust to let her do this alone? Is part of the excitement getting to watch it for him? Has she considered his feelings? Is she willing to give "after care" as needed? Maybe she comes home, gets into bed with him, and tells him everything, while he goes down on her? So much depends on what both are willing to agree to.
I think it's possible that he may not be ready to let go enough to let her do this solo yet.
I think it's possible that he may not be ready to let go enough to let her do this solo yet.