How does a wife feel about her husband in a cuckold marriage?

I also love my hubby for letting me fuck with bbc in front of him. This is our lifestyle. If he had been against it, we would have divorced.
My future wife clearly informed me about her desires to continue being with black men after our marriage. She wouldn’t have married me if I had tried (unsuccessfully) to end her relationships with her black bulls.

As a naturally submissive man with a small white penis, I was more than happy to give my blessing to her promiscuous behavior. I wanted her to be happy and sexually satisfied and only black men could make that happen for her.
 
I am 38 years old hotwife, I am in an open marriage during 8 years. I believe that cuckold marriage is modern in the new realities. Open relationships are no longer something surprising, and female's history is no longer one-sided. Now female`s open to experiments is a real happy pledge of modern marriage.

My female philosophy of cuckold marriage​

I have always been open to experiments. I invited my husband to try this lifestyle. Our cuckold marriage was the contract of our open and modern life. We both understand that no one persuaded each other to try an open marriage.

My female point of view of cuckold marriage is based on real contract of respect. We are loving spouses. I will not accept any female humiliation of my husband in a cuckold marriage during my interracial sex. It was not our contract in life. My interracial sexual relations in front of he always brings him the highest pleasure.

He feels real significant to me. And I understand that my desires and female lusts do not affect his self-esteem. He remains happy and complete in an open cuckold marriage. I never look at him condescendingly, and do not consider him less important than I am. This is my female point of view, we are both equal in marriage, such is the modern life.

Relationships in our interracial cuckold marriage​

Cuckold marriage has become a contract for us, which we are both satisfied with. It is an open space for our real pleasures. We understood what we were going for, and our happiness was the key to the success of cuckold marriage.

I think everyone knows that a happy cuckold enjoys having his hotwife fucks with bbc, this is actually the realbasis of open marriage in the cuckold lifestyle.

I consider myself a good wife. I am happy to have interracial sex, from the fact that my husband looks at me and sees my real pleasure. I like to give these feelings to him. He is a happy man and proud of it.

I am happy hotwife in our cuckold marriage because from a female point of view it is the freedom that your husband allows you to have interracial sex in your marriage.

I think in modern lifestyle, a white hotwife should be proud to get interracial sex opportunities in a cuckold marriage. But she should not consider her husband a worthless man.

Different points of view on the Internet in an interracial lifestyle​

I can't talk about the feelings of other white hotwife in a cuckold marriage right now. Every modern family realenjoys in different ways, they also have their own contract. I read a lot of real interracial lifestyle stories, each interesting in its own way, in every cuckold marriage there are different hotwife`s role and pleasures.

Some couples lived for some time in a cuckold marriage, but then it ended in divorce. I can say for sure that it means that this lifestyle was not by mutual agreement, it means that the spouses did not respect each other's wishes.

I think that you can play different sexual roles in your bedroom, but both should real like it. Our little sexual contract with our husband is the backbone of our marriage. And my interracial sex in front of his eyes is a good proof of our happy and strong relationship.
Before marriage , most women perceive / view their husbands in a certain way. I'm assuming those couples had healthy relationship before starting hotwifing. So after this life-style starts , do the wives view their husbands the same way ?

  1. love for their husbands decrease
  2. shift of respect
  3. doesn't take husband's words seriously
  4. thinks as not manly
  5. emotional distance increases
Does the above 5 things occur even a little ? If so , how these feelings are handled ?
 
I believe that comunicación is very important to maintain a healthy sex life , sometimes the best way is to bring a third person in your private life , we prefer complete strangers that we interviewed in personal chat , no pictures o videos till we meet that makes it hot and interesting the only thing I request is only his penus size and lenth , if i want to see her fuck a stranger i want to make sure he is the right size , we already had one bad experience and i canceled in the hotel room , he was fat and short dick even erected soo we thrue him out our room
My wife is not after a lover just a big stud
 
Before marriage , most women perceive / view their husbands in a certain way. I'm assuming those couples had healthy relationship before starting hotwifing. So after this life-style starts , do the wives view their husbands the same way ?

  1. love for their husbands decrease
  2. shift of respect
  3. doesn't take husband's words seriously
  4. thinks as not manly
  5. emotional distance increases
Does the above 5 things occur even a little ? If so , how these feelings are handled ?
Neither of those 5 things happen to us,it's just that i like a lot fucking with black men,and will keep doing it without that meaning i dont love him
 
My husband and i aren't in a cuckold marriage,because from the start we were swingers and i've never fuck anybody with his consent and agreement,and when we are out at night and i go to dance with a group of BBC,and start making out with them,kissing them in the middle of the dance floor,and they start rubbing all my body,and after a while i leave with them until next day,my husband is happy for me
Your my kinda dream woman. 👌👌
 
Before marriage , most women perceive / view their husbands in a certain way. I'm assuming those couples had healthy relationship before starting hotwifing. So after this life-style starts , do the wives view their husbands the same way ?

  1. love for their husbands decrease
  2. shift of respect
  3. doesn't take husband's words seriously
  4. thinks as not manly
  5. emotional distance increases
Does the above 5 things occur even a little ? If so , how these feelings are handled ?
For us it shifted as the following:

  1. love for their husbands decrease: yes in the sexual aspect; my girlfriensd sees me more as a good (girl)friend and we have more a relationship as we would be brother and sister
  2. shift of respect: yes she is more dominant to me and takes my opinion less in acount then before (but I like this...)
  3. doesn't take husband's words seriously: that stayed quite the same
  4. thinks as not manly: yes definitely
  5. emotional distance increases: it shigts to another level
 
For us it shifted as the following:

  1. love for their husbands decrease: yes in the sexual aspect; my girlfriensd sees me more as a good (girl)friend and we have more a relationship as we would be brother and sister
  2. shift of respect: yes she is more dominant to me and takes my opinion less in acount then before (but I like this...)
  3. doesn't take husband's words seriously: that stayed quite the same
  4. thinks as not manly: yes definitely
  5. emotional distance increases: it shigts to another level
Wow ! I can definitely relate to your list. We weren't in a cuckold relationship, but while my wife was cheating behind my back with a black boyfriend I could definitely see her attitude toward me shifting as you indicate with your list. Eventually she confessed and then left me for her boyfriend.
 
Wow ! I can definitely relate to your list. We weren't in a cuckold relationship, but while my wife was cheating behind my back with a black boyfriend I could definitely see her attitude toward me shifting as you indicate with your list. Eventually she confessed and then left me for her boyfriend.
I’m sorry this happened to you. You were in a bad relationship and with time will realize you are better off without her. I hope you find someone who will love you for who you are. Good luck.
 
For us it shifted as the following:

  1. love for their husbands decrease: yes in the sexual aspect; my girlfriensd sees me more as a good (girl)friend and we have more a relationship as we would be brother and sister
  2. shift of respect: yes she is more dominant to me and takes my opinion less in acount then before (but I like this...)
  3. doesn't take husband's words seriously: that stayed quite the same
  4. thinks as not manly: yes definitely
  5. emotional distance increases: it shigts to another level
All of these things are becoming more common in our marriage as well.

1) Sexually she is no longer interested in making love with me. Virtually all of her insatiable desires are met by her lovers.

2) Ever since watching me being anally taken by one of her black bulls, her respect for me as a man has been greatly diminished. She calls me her Sissy Bitch now.

3) My opinions don’t matter as much as the opinions of her various bulls.

4) She has me wear pink panties and matching bra and nothing else when her black bulls come to visit. She no longer considers me to be a real man anymore.

5) The emotional connection has shifted from man/wife to Fem-Domme/submissive sissy.
 
I’m sorry this happened to you. You were in a bad relationship and with time will realize you are better off without her. I hope you find someone who will love you for who you are. Good luck.
Thank you for the kind words of support. I have moved on, but the memory is forever ingrained.
 
I think that there are really a lot of females that favor their bulls over their husbands any time of the day but they keep it to themselves since they don't want to damage the connection they have with the cuck since its an imperative for the lady to take care of her safety first. In the end it depends more on the cuck himself but most men end up letting the female go as far as she desires since the more she enjoys, the more he enjoys. For me the biggest downturn from this lifestyle is that bulls often lack respect for the cuck but I guess its just how it goes. Maybe the dynamic changes in the future.
 
For some reason part of the fantasy of this for many men is that the wife will somehow see them differently , as less than a man. To each their own. We have grown closer. But for us cuck play is just that. play. No matter what. It is possible to fit an 8 inch cock in a chastity cage when it is soft. So when I mock my husband's size it is all in fun for us. I have come to understand that no matter what we are in real life that people can have a sense of inadequacy and that is male or female. When it comes to my husband and I , we understand each other and love to push those buttons and boundaries. If a guy is lucky enough to be invited in for our play then we will have fun with that. We are also not selfish. If that guy has some wants or desires we can help make that happen. As long as he is not selfish towards us.
 
I think that this is an ideal family relationship that will prevail in the future. My wife values me because I let her enjoy black men, I value her because I get pleasure from black men fucking. I don't know any reason that could separate us. With every year of this lifestyle, our love only increases
 
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