WHY do some of yall women deal with out of shape Black men

Well, here's a real answer: attitude is more important than looks. Arrogance is not sexy...and many guys are too into themselves to give a woman (this one, anyway) what she wants. Yes, there are those who just want the hard body...but most women are less like men in that regard. If you are overly-macho, narcissistic, selfish...you won't be invited to our party. :mstickle:
I'm there to make you the Hotwife feel good. And all women have body and beauty insecurities. But all women have something attractive. I as a bull would rather have an out of shape but nice personality wise woman than a beauty queen. Goes back to Ginger and Maryanne most men prefer Maryanne. I do at least.

And most real woman are curvy not hard bodied and that's my go to women they are still Hotwife to me. The dynamic I feel that a good man bull should provide is making the Hotwife feel wanted and desirable by someone other that her husband. And to have fun in all of this. And to be a man take charge without being rude or arrogant.

And to respect the fact that she is giving me the gift of her body as the outsider in the dynamic and I try to get to know the hubby too won't treat him bad either no more than they want be thus far.
 
I know the answer already, Im curious to know why some of yall do.......And Im not talking to the average and below average looking women on the site, Im taking to all the Ladies who are 8's and better.........
What I want to know is why do I see so many in shape black men fucking out of shape white women in this lifestyle??? That's what I want to know. Seems to me that's far more common, with these women expecting that the black man be "Adonis", while their tits are slapping the floor. Why are black men in this lifestyle so thirsty to be fucking these out of shape white women???
Whether one condescends on another because of body build, race, gender, or sexual preference, condescendence is wrong, just fucking wrong. Nothing wrong with wanting or liking what you like; if it's not you, just be gone, leave it alone. Not one of your put downs defined those people to be unneeding or undeserving of being loved or getting some loving in their lives.
 
Whether one condescends on another because of body build, race, gender, or sexual preference, condescendence is wrong, just fucking wrong. Nothing wrong with wanting or liking what you like; if it's not you, just be gone, leave it alone. Not one of your put downs defined those people to be unneeding or undeserving of being loved or getting some loving in their lives.

And if you didn’t like my question (seems plenty did), then maybe you should have left it alone rather than coming into somebody else’s thread and going off topic just to be condescending yourself and start some *******. Take your moralizing preaching and shove it . . . all I got to say about it . . . here . . . .
 
I voiced my opinion like everyone else on the previous 18 pages and started with the OP. I said nothing about you or the OP, I only made reference to the folks referred to as "below average" and "out of shape".
And if you didn’t like my question (seems plenty did), then maybe you should have left it alone rather than coming into somebody else’s thread and going off topic just to be condescending yourself and start some *******. Take your moralizing preaching and shove it . . . all I got to say about it . . . here . . . .
I don't know what the "...here..." reference means. Initially I wanted to ask you about it privately, but that wasn't an option.
 
What I want to know is why do I see so many in shape black men fucking out of shape white women in this lifestyle??? That's what I want to know. Seems to me that's far more common, with these women expecting that the black man be "Adonis", while their tits are slapping the floor. Why are black men in this lifestyle so thirsty to be fucking these out of shape white women???
They're not thirsty by far.
They fulfilling a fantasy.
 
To me a vibe/personality and a nice face is far more important than a perfect body. I've had a great time with all sorts of body types as it just isn't something super important to me.

Attraction is subjective but I will say that I get far more "objectively attractive" men now when I'm out of shape and lower than an "8" than I ever did when I was tiny. I can only speculate as to why that is but it's not for a lack of options on their part.
Listen up because she is right ..beauty is in the eye of the beholder . I'm 6"3 205 llbs and I've been with dimes that just are boring af. Im trying to soul fuck every woman im with so I'm more into the connection and the chemistry and mental stimulation .. Thats what makes orgasms explosive ... Otherwise you could go buy a whore and get dimes everytime... I'm in my 40's. .. what is the Mr Atlas gonna do when looks fade and no more six pack ...cant be a 1 trick pony ... Your game better change and evolve ..
 
Better to fuck an out of shape man who is fun and respects what he is having than to fuck some hunk who thinks they are a gift to the world. It is the same for women, better to have sex with a woman who is fun to be with than one who looks a certain way
I like this answer a lot. I think men who think they are "too much" for women -- are annoying at best. I dont see why any woman would waste her time with a jerk -- this is about fun, not about "bragging rights"
 
There's so much more to what makes a man attractive to each woman....for me it's a certain confidence, assertiveness, and presence that I connect with and whether he's carrying a flat stomach or not isn't really as much of a factor.
I could not agree more .. Maybe in my twenties I was that shallow but even then I had enough depth to know I was shallow. 😆 😆
 
Apologies, but we didn't take the time to read all 20 pages, so just responding to the OP...

We like nice guys. And to be honest my wife loves "dad bods" over "hard bods", and a great personality is what wins the day regardless.

We certainly aren't models, at least in the classic stereotypical definition, and we don't expect that from anyone else.

...oh and a thick cock is of course high on her list! :giggle:
 
i think the best example of this phenomenon was BBCSlut4U2, did it make anybody else rage watching her media?

i would be sitting there watching her media like, babe, youve got the body of a fucking porn star, why the hell are you wasting it fucking all these slobby dudes, i want to see you taking some studs


You really don't understand women do you ? , I once talked to Ron Jeremy at adult convention.
I kid you not as we talked ... a 25 year old gorgeous blonde woman walked up and grabbed him by the grotch .
She was not a p-star but one of his hoes he fucked previously.

He of course yeld at her for being inappropriate .
But what I learned was if you break a woman back once and punish her pussy she's yours.
It don't matter if you look like shrek , she fucking you for life if possible .

Ive seen big large andre the giant looking dudes with gorgeous princesses.
Than I learned dudes packing a big ole stick and has a good job .
He aint brad pitt but 2out of 3 aint bad for chicks who are smart .
 
I know the answer already, Im curious to know why some of yall do.......And Im not talking to the average and below average looking women on the site, Im taking to all the Ladies who are 8's and better.........
Great question, awesome one. Then they’ll pass up a ripped dude who’s slaying. I’m guessing it makes them feel better about themselves, their own appearance
 
You really don't understand women do you ? , I once talked to Ron Jeremy at adult convention.
I kid you not as we talked ... a 25 year old gorgeous blonde woman walked up and grabbed him by the grotch .
She was not a p-star but one of his hoes he fucked previously.

He of course yeld at her for being inappropriate .
But what I learned was if you break a woman back once and punish her pussy she's yours.
It don't matter if you look like shrek , she fucking you for life if possible .

Ive seen big large andre the giant looking dudes with gorgeous princesses.
Than I learned dudes packing a big ole stick and has a good job .
He aint brad pitt but 2out of 3 aint bad for chicks who are smart .
These dudes are punishing nothing. You don’t understand
 
You sound immature as hell and should fuck only airheads and thotianas who can barely spell when texting .
Stay away from women who are sapiosexuals and sexual intellectuals .
Because you don't got proper level of game to close the deal .
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂. Hit dogs holler. Don’t take it personal fat bwoy.
 
These dudes are punishing nothing. You don’t understand

Lil dude you funny.

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂. Hit dogs holler. Don’t take it personal fat bwoy.

Why so many laughing emojies , is that something new with you ******* .
Also No sir , I'm not taking it personal ...because we are not equals in life .
Your not to bright but keep lifting those weights kid , atleast you look good and got that going for you especially being from ATL .
 
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