As I have said in previous posts I don't have high expectations and come for the chat and pictures. If it happens... it happens.
I am not new to this game and can tell you there are real people on here including ladies. I have had one date with a member on here. She has an active account but does not even have a post up in the "Couples and Women Seeking" and told me she usually has her "show online status" set to off because just like others have said she gets plenty of attention without making a huge announcement. She is also not the super model type that are so prevalent around here.
I am a member of a few other sites and I can usually arrange about 2 dates a year and it takes a few weeks to a few months of back and forth before that even happens.
After a while you learn to spot the real ones. The photoshopped or stolen super model pictures are obvious. The ladies looking hard are obvious and the ones with no pictures or just one or two pictures are obvious as well. Not that I mind looking at guys wives
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I find the real ones are usually the ones that just lurk, maybe post pictures of themselves or participate in threads, but never really say "looking for BBC to fuck". I have never found a supermodel or anybody under 30 on these sites. Just your average ordinary persons. I have also noticed the real ones may want to see a picture of me, but thats it. They send multiple pictures looking for praise but never ask to see any of mine. I mean... what real woman wants a tribute. (again guys send me pictures of your wife.. I don't mind).
There may be some real couples on here but I find craigslist is a better place to find them.