SanDiegoBlack
Male
Thanks for sharing....Look at it this way. They are the ones losing out, not you (now that you know they aren't what they claimed to be, you wouldn't want them anyway!).
Which do you prefer, one nighter's or deep friendships?
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We both prefer a long term relationship. The ideal situation would be for us to meet a black man to whom we both would grow close and who would grow close to us both as friends as well as sex partners. And we would all enjoy spending time together both in and out of the bedroom.
ChristyandJake
Couple
Oh my yes I do I don't mind married guys
SanDiegoBlack
Male
Long term is far out in front, but I also get a lot of responses like yours that say it's difficult to meet us. Seems like that would be the best type of relationship for both parties. I know that I have always been blown away when asked to be the "ongoing" lover! It's not like a marriage (forsaking all others) and generally you only see each other once, maybe twice a month. Can't figure that part of the equation out!
SanDiegoBlack
Male
That's my ultimate, too! Even if it's just kickin' back and enjoying an evening as a 3-some, 4-some or more. Hard to imagine it not turning into a hot session, but just kickin' it and getting to know each other (NOT as love interests, but as friends) would be fun, too!
Hotwifeybbc78
Male
Agreed
For me, I normally go with the flow. If we both desire to spend more time together after our initial meeting, I have no problem with it.
We are still new to the lifestyle but definitely want long-term friendship but not opposed to one nighters
Long term preference here but I’ll do a one niter too .
Where have you been all these years!!???! YES!!
ChristyandJake
Couple
We been in and around Columbus Ohio
Keep coming...Baltimore is almost within your (my) reach!
ChristyandJake
Couple
I'd love that haven't been able to vacation since baby was born
check your DMs
Lovegirl2002
Female
I'm kinda manipulative in that I try to land them in a relationship which almost never works because they just want one nighters or maybe even regular FWBs but nothing more. But then it's my fault for chasing and after married men. They can't risk it.
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