I have known him for most of my life. I have always been attracted to older men. Guys my age back then were too boyish. I always thought he was handsome, but never really thought about him sexually. Once I started to fantasize about it, he was kind of the main focus as it was his bbc. When I started to explore IR porn and wanted to try it, he was the most reasonable choice. So I took a shot.
What was your reason to get into the lifestyle.
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She finds that black men have been more respectful as some of the white guys we have met have been arrogant and think that just because we agree to a meet and greet it's a sure thing. Plus, she finds the contrast in skin color during sex a turn on.
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I was very cruel to my step-sister because she had gone exclusively Black. She was instrumental in me taking two beatings from Black Men. I begged her for no more beatdowns, so she made me her slave. She then introduced me to being a cuckhold.
Thanks for your very interesting reply. It is interesting because it is not as shallow as so many things we usually get to read in here. But also it is not very telling. It makes me wonder if any part of it overweighs... Your sexual attraction to Black men which seems to have triggered your move to "seduce" him, or the fact that you have known him for most of your life as a handsome man, as you put it. But you also said, you never really thought about him sexually.
And you still haven't answered the second part of my previous question: What type of relationship do you have? Now learning he is an older man raises the question: Is he perhaps married or in another relationship already, and are you his "affair"? - Not that i would assume that.
Are you planning to stay with him and have a serious long-term relationship and eventually perhaps marriage? And what is the age gap between the two of you, if i may ask? Thank you.
Skin color contrast is a big turn on for me too and one, even not the only one thing that had triggered my sexual voyeuristic inclination of seeing/watching Women with Black men, so i can relate.
It's interesting to read that Black men have been more respectful than at least some white guys from her/your experience. i wonder in which part of the world and in which events you made those experiences. Please tell. Thank you.
I got involved with a group of black guys when my fiance was gone to desert storm while I was in college. I spent most every weekend for almost two years at their house. They knew my fiance through having been at the same base, but didn't really know him personally. When he got home, I graduated, he left the army to come to the air f0rce, and we moved away. We were only married for a couple years before we divorced.
In the 30 years since then, I have been married, divorced, and married again, with nothing related to 'this lifestyle.' My current husband was in Kuwait for a year and a half, and during that time, a complicated assortment of events led me to become involved in 'this lifestyle' again. He got home the end of July, and since then I have been sort of in limbo as we try to figure out many aspects of life going forward now that we are both retired and our k!ds are grown.
In the 30 years since then, I have been married, divorced, and married again, with nothing related to 'this lifestyle.' My current husband was in Kuwait for a year and a half, and during that time, a complicated assortment of events led me to become involved in 'this lifestyle' again. He got home the end of July, and since then I have been sort of in limbo as we try to figure out many aspects of life going forward now that we are both retired and our k!ds are grown.
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My first bull experience said this is for me. The issue is finding the right couple. I struck gold once but Houston ain't DC. A lot of pump fakers here compared to DC
My first bull experience said this is for me. The issue is finding the right couple. I struck gold once but Houston ain't DC. A lot of pump fakers here compared to DC
You elaborating on those two fragments of your post alone would deserve an own thread if not an own forum.
Thanks for sharing your experiences.
What is it that got you hooked? Is it the NSA sex and increased discretion for you as a married man, or are there other aspects/factors that especially attract you to couples? TY
I had a similar situation, my husband wanted to try a three way with another woman but I was much more curious about another man. I was surprised that he agreed to it.
...and how did all of that lead you to your interest in Black men? ty
Porn wise, idk. It just clicked. Regular porn wasn't doing it for me no more. I started getting into weirdo German porn like pee/******* which was hard to find and after having trouble finding it, I looked at other categories, saw cuckold porn and it took 1st place. I like dominating and I love domination. Seeing it at first was strange. I kinda thought the white cucks were gay but after time I learn the psychology behind it and it made sense to me.
For me, it's the domination. I love dominating men just as much as women but I don't want my dick sucked by a dude. I just have no interest in fully gay stuff. Just not for me.
When I first had the real life experience. It just randomly happened. I was single. Staying in apartment. A couple who I would at times hoop with and workout with told me what they are into sexually. I told them I liked that type of porn. One thing lead to another, we hooked up and it was amazing. It ended when me and my girlfriend now wife got back together.
I still miss it, I never came so hard in my life. I just really value the hot wife and the cuckold. It takes someone in this kink for real to share their spouse and want the best for them. Most people are selfish. For me, that's why I love this ish.
I still exclusively watch this. I prefer brothas like myself with any race of women and the cuckold exclusively has to be white. That's just me. To me, I couldn't cuck another brotha even if he begged. There is a racial element that appeals like hell to me. Like one cuck said, white guilt, I am Black justice.
Thanks for your honesty. i think couples like that are hard to find. Not everybody is into a D/s dynamic and then with both hubby and wife being submissive. Also i believe the "white guilt"/"black justice" theme is even less a turn-on for most central Europeans as after WW2 and the downfall of the Nazi Reich people are braught-up based on the ideal of equality. And for me too, personally, that sort of "raceplay" would be a big turn-off to be honest. i see the world differently and cannot even understand/feel the logic behind it. But good luck finding what you are looking for.
Let's revive an old thread that focusses on the "Bulls" reasons for being in the "Hotwife" lifestyle.
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@FortBendTXBull, @BlackTherapist, @Ezzy, @thickandveiny1, @Justa_Blackman and other Black men...
Please participate, if you like! Thank you.
Short Survey For The Hotwifing "Bulls"
For "Bulls" only: What statement would describe you best? (Multiple choices are possible.) == Begin of Survey == I love fucking another man's wife simply because it means getting some pussy for free. [true/false] I love fucking another man's wife because I want to give her the pleasure...
www.blacktowhite.net
@FortBendTXBull, @BlackTherapist, @Ezzy, @thickandveiny1, @Justa_Blackman and other Black men...
Please participate, if you like! Thank you.
They benefit massively from colonialism and I was just in Europe and Blacks are treated like ish there. The dynamics aren't any different there honestly than in America. Maybe worse if we are talking common person and not law enforcement.Thanks for your honesty. i think couples like that are hard to find. Not everybody is into a D/s dynamic and then with both hubby and wife being submissive. Also i believe the "white guilt"/"black justice" theme is even less a turn-on for most central Europeans as after WW2 and the downfall of the Nazi Reich people are braught-up based on the ideal of equality. And for me too, personally, that sort of "raceplay" would be a big turn-off to be honest. i see the world differently and cannot even understand/feel the logic behind it. But good luck finding what you are looking for.
I had an interest in Black Men since I was a teenager and found a porn tape while babysitting at a neighbor's house.
Was this your boss? I may be wrong, but I thought your boss was the one who hit on you a few times, then once you took him up on his offer, you were hooked. Correct me if I'm wrong. And his name is Anthony, I think. No?A co-worker started hitting on me and I flirted back and before I knew it, I wanted him to cause my hubby at home really didn't seem interested in sex anymore. Once I was blackened, I couldn't stop
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Wow. Makes me wonder what that porn tape was about...
This is not my boss or Anthony this is years before that
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