You said it. I would also add that having a Black Stud getting a married white woman pregnant is the ultimate goal in the cuckold relationship. It break the last racial taboo which is what interracial cuckolding is all about. It starts with a white man letting a Black Stud fuck his wife. You see ads all the time from cuckolds looking or a Black Stud where the ad says "no condoms" or "bareback only." Black Studs WANT to impregnate white wives. husbands who think otherwise aren't being realistic. Black Studs are breeders and if you want your wife to fuck them be prepared to accept and ENJOY the responsibility that may follow 9 months later. Some men would give anything to have a Black Stud's baby to support and raise!
I agree with your sentiment that there is a desire to fulfill the desires of all three people involved by the wife and lover being joined in pregnancy. However, I do not think that it is always consciously known by all parties. It is obvious to me that
'the desire' is clearly an undercurrent in the relationship of the three. It is simply part of the biological urge, which is a real base psychological driver, is clearly part of all three participants; the lover insomuch as it is nature to desire to spread his seed and make many offspring, the wife insomuch as whenever a woman openly invites any man to place his cum in her open womb she is also open to the possibility of catching with this man, the husband insomuch as he is fully cognizant of the potential result of offering his fertile wife to a virile stud. So in the most basic sense, all three are participants in the dance . . .
I do think that a lot of people
do delude themselves regarding the possibility/probability of pregnancy in the cuckold lifestyle. While a lot of studs may enjoy knowing that they have assumed the role of overtaking the husband's sexual reproductive rights, and even totally enjoy the risk of impregnating the wife, I have to believe that there is a disconnect regarding what pregnancy in this situation would truly entail. While it would be a
huge ego boost to watch the white wife's belly grow, and watch the white husband's fearful anticipation of being completely outed, there simply
must be some sense of worry insomuch as the situation could easily backfire. There have been plenty of cuckold husbands that develop cold feet after the fact, and the legal reality is that the Bull would then probably be on the hook for the cost. It wouldn't be right, since the cuckold invited the situation. Just a reality that every Bull needs to be cognizant of . . .
I think that the white wife's can sometimes delude themselves to think that this is 'just sex'. In reality whenever a woman opens her sex to a man's potent cum, there is a desire to catch. I would be the first to agree that it might not be in the overt consciousness, that this desire for pregnancy is often part of the subconsciousness. But if a woman chooses to have unprotected sex with a man that she knows to be potent, then IMHO she desires his offspring (even if her desire is suppressed in her deeper consciousness).
I think
a lot, if not most, cuckolds and wannabes delude themselves regarding pregnancy. If you lobby your wife to open her sacred, creamy white thighs for a dominant, younger, virile, Black Bull and you deny that you were turned on at the thought of this man impregnating your wife then you are lying! If you didn't want the risk of pregnancy then you would have insisted on
both condoms and the pill as a backup.
Now, I am not trying to dissuade anyone from enjoying life and openly living in a Bull-wife-cuckold relationship. All I am saying is that we must not delude or fool ourselves regarding what we are doing. My point is that ultimately all three participants do want to see the wife and her lover fulfill their physical attraction through a permanent connection . . . and if the wife or her lover know that they do not want this then contraceptives are a must.
The above stated, it should be noted that I did not mention the cuckold regarding birth control.
Before the husband begs his wife to cuckold him, he ought to completely understand this fact; once you free your wife of her vow of sexual exclusivity to your marriage you lose
all control of her sexual choices. To set her free to date and have sex as a single woman, you
automatically give her the freedom not only to date whomever she chooses, but also what risks she decides to take regarding pregnancy. Think about it, when you dated single women there were times when the action got hot and heavy and in the heat of the moment risks were taken. Well, understand that the same situations will happen when she is out with other men! If your wife comes back to you pregnant, you need to understand that you
wanted this! Don't let the natural nervousness that is the root of cuckold cold feet allow you to lie to yourself.
