What if She Doesn't Want To?

The majority of women prefer a monogamous relationship. QUOTE said:
How come we have high divorce and infidelity rates? There is no such thing as preference for monogamous relation. However, there are constrains: moral, financial, social, spatial, etc. Perhaps some women constrained one way that the other. The rest have fun with or without husband's knowledge. I think it is safe to assume these as facts and start from there.
 
These kind of discussions are best done with a few well prepared mixed drinks, like a well made margarita. That way, if the wife gets upset you can blame it on the alcohol. Tequila seems to embolden oneself to do/say things one might normally not do or say. However, it may also allow the lady to open up about sexual desires she has suppressed; this gets the wheels rolling and open up the relationship to new experiences. It opens up the conversations of sexual alternatives, but I wouldn't expect the wife to suddenly say she's had this desire for black men all her life. She might be more inclined to reveal her desire for another female. I can attest to FFM experiences being a lot of fun also. :)
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" There is no such thing as preference for monogamous relation. However, there are constrains: moral, financial, social, spatial, etc."

I think you've been buried in way too much cuckold porn. Who says that most marriages fail because of infidelity? Lots of reasons why a marriage fails. The fact that marriages have declined or that more marriages are failing is NOT directly tied to infidelity or a woman desiring multiple sexual relationships. Society has made getting OUT of a marriage easier, and singles to cohabitate, with less character damage. The majority of women aren't running around in secret screwing any man they wish to screw. Maybe our male sexual fantasies wish to believe that, but that is just not so, and there's no data that says otherwise.
 
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" There is no such thing as preference for monogamous relation. However, there are constrains: moral, financial, social, spatial, etc."

I think you've been buried in way too much cuckold porn. Who says that most marriages fail because of infidelity? Lots of reasons why a marriage fails. The fact that marriages have declined or that more marriages are failing is NOT directly tied to infidelity or a woman desiring multiple sexual relationships. Society has made getting OUT of a marriage easier, and singles to cohabitate, with less character damage. The majority of women aren't running around in secret screwing any man they wish to screw. Maybe our male sexual fantasies wish to believe that, but that is just not so, and there's no data that says otherwise.
Nowhere in my post it says that marriages fail due to infidelity rates. Infidelity is abundant (we can only guess how rampant that is) the marriages fail, indisputable. By your token - why the marriages fail if women have preference to monogamous relations? So we are getting divorced from one monogamy just to engage into another? : ))))) Who said majority does cheat? Infidelity is the game of a chance or intention. Given a chance most women will fall. Men will too. Summary: Women are not monogamous. Infidelity is not a cause of most divorces. Infidelity is a game of chance (most) and choice (least)
 
It is funny that you mention a concept of society that is probably at the most can be stretched to no more than 10 thousands years. We are anatomically modern about 150-200K now, it is doubtful that monogamy can be a rampant argument in the context of our evolution. Is it possible that in your original post you tried to say that majority women are heterosexual ? I would wholeheartedly agree : )))
 
Is it possible that in your original post you tried to say that majority women are heterosexual ?
Women tend to not have as much issue with their sexuality as men; having a fling with another female tends to be more common that males having flings with other males, although since homosexuality got its wings of freedom years ago, more and more are coming out of their closets to openly express their homosexuality tendencies. I was referring more to multiple hetrosexual relationships at one time.
 
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