you are correct,and this has been just one of the barriers for me why I haven't gone out and had sex with the 1st black man I could meet.
Me and my husband have spoken many times about this In a adult manor,I know everything has to be right for me and us both before I even consider having a sexual encounter with a black guy,I would guess there are lots of other married folk out there who have no barriers & jump in head 1st and it end ups going tits up for them,
It may never happen for us,I hope it does?.but if/when it does I know everything will be done to our liking & rules (if there are any rules in this lol)
I also find the thought scary. We are so afraid of it and yet it's incredibly arousing. It gets confusing.