OneAboutLife
Male
Being up front like anything else is the best, agree with most others in here. That’s a fast turnaround so that’s good for you and her. My wife ordered a black dildo years ago while ******* “on accident”. Within a few weeks of using it repeatedly she opened up, almost like that was her feeling out process for me so it’s not just men that struggle with the development of such things. She was mum for the first half of our marriage and it went full blast after. Kicker is I didn’t even have that much of an interest in it. Within a month or two every Friday, Saturday, and Sunday night she was having me video her doing elaborate recreations with them, to include her having me drill holes in a 8’x6’ ply sheet and recreate a glory hole wall. Literally from 0 to one million mph like that. You made quite the impression though as it took a couple years of role playing for me to agree to her having sex with a BBC since we were completely monogamous till that point. Hope it works out like it has for us so far cause our sex together has been great since shes gone back black like she was for some time before we met (found that out after the cat was out of the bag). Funny part too is we’ve almost stopped watching porn since then as it’s really kinda taken it’s place.