Agreed. It needs to be more mainstream and acceptable, but it'll never be the "norm" in our society.
What does cuckoldry mean in modern life
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Agreed. It needs to be more mainstream and acceptable, but it'll never be the "norm" in our society.
i don't think cuckoldry will or should ever become "the norm".
But it would be nice to think that it could become considered an acceptable choice for a couple to make, and not have to neccessarily have it be hidden in the shadows.
Society and societal attitudes have shown the ability to shift abd change rapidly in recent times.
It would be good i think if it could be considered as acceptable and normal as gay marriage is now - not for everyone, but no one really cares if they know you are a cuck couple, and are supportive of your choice.
But it would be nice to think that it could become considered an acceptable choice for a couple to make, and not have to neccessarily have it be hidden in the shadows.
Society and societal attitudes have shown the ability to shift abd change rapidly in recent times.
It would be good i think if it could be considered as acceptable and normal as gay marriage is now - not for everyone, but no one really cares if they know you are a cuck couple, and are supportive of your choice.
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In my first marriage, sex with me and my wife quickly went down to once a week, and then once every other week. After a friend seduced my wife, (she told me he was flirting with her, so I said go ahead), I think my wife was feeling guilty, so she'd give me sloppy seconds, and our sex life went to a couple times a week. After the first guy moved away, we went back to a couple times a month. About three years later, we found her another lover, and sex picked up again. It may be pity sex, but I'll take it.
similar to what happened to me. When we were first married, Id get head every day once or twice, and sex at least every other day. Then it went to no head, and sex twice a week, then it went to no sex for many days at a time. She said I stopped imitating but she forgot that she seduced me with her good head every day. fast forward 5 years, and we opened up our marriage to motivate her a bit. now she discovered rough sex. She likes it really rough, and I'm am more vanilla. She as of 3 years ago, she no longer gets wet with me. I have to buy lube. Granted, I don't get hard any more and my sissy clit has shrunk significantly. She now has 2 b/f that she see's many times a month each (varies on work and family schedules for everyone) and I only get to cum once a week, or when she gives me a Cialis. she doesn't like to touch my clit unless with a wand or ifs t's really hard "like a man". lol so when she has a b/f I get a lot more action. I tell her to think she's with one of them and she immediately gets soaked. lol.
Since the mid-2000s, someone psychologists have begun to encounter families that practice the cuckoldry lifestyle. It was around this time that there was an increased interest in this type of porn, and the cuckoldry section began to expand and is still one of the most viewed.
What do science say about this, biology in common, and what does cuckoldry mean in modern life?
Cuckoldry has always been
There is a long and rich human history of these forms of wife sharing and female infidelity in common. It was a dirty and shameful secret, and maybe for someone was not quite a secret. Shakespeare's plays are filled with humiliation and shame because wives cucked their husbands. And this theme has been preserved in all social attitudes for a long time.
Cuckoldry has always been considered shameful for someone husband who was found to have a too sexually free woman. But this phenomenon, meanwhile, has always existed in the ******* world, so that one can say that biology takes place everywhere.
But what does cuckoldry mean in porn? Someone enjoys watching such videos.
The very definition of cuckold can be found in old dictionaries. And what popularity it has gained now cannot be disputed. So what does cuckoldry mean in our society, and what is the common biology of this phenomenon?
View attachment 5801170Men and porn
Can we say that porn in most cases affects men? To some extent, yes, of course. This genre began its history specifically for men and the satisfaction of their biology.
We can also say that the adult industry responds to popular desires in the minds of the common population. What does cuckoldry mean for adult content? Since someone has been actively interested in this topic in the last decades, the industry provides a huge amount of such content now. And men are already the guides of this whole cuckold to their families.
Men have always enjoyed imagining their woman with someone, and Justin Lemiller's research shows 45% of common men. This data is consistent with the fact that every year porn-related research shows that cuckold videos are becoming extremely popular and getting more popular.
What about the female half?
What does cuckoldry mean on the female side? After all, all this biology for the first time touched not only men, but most women and their sexual desires.
Our culture in common is based on religious principles and strict prohibitions on such freedom of women. However, now it is changing rapidly. As the focus on cuckolding has increased, there has been a shift from focusing on male sexual fantasies to emphasizing female ones, which is what does cuckoldry mean in this main female spotlight.
Why are alternative lifestyles like cuckoldry, polyamory growing so fast right now? With in common over 50% of monogamous marriages ending in divorce and another 28% cheating, many people begin to question monogamy. Even special dating sites and forums have begun to be created, where people get to know each other, informing in advance that they are not monogamous.
What does cuckoldry mean in today's society is that the boundaries are expanding. People try not to limit themselves to their biology, prejudices and listen to themselves. In addition, the amount of information has its effect.
View attachment 5801171No one has a clear answer: why
If you look at various sources, then what does cuckoldry mean in a relationship and why this happens, there are several main reasons. On the male side it will be:
It's all interesting biology in common, but it may have questions about why someone is simply discouraged by the fact that it is necessary to recognize that there are non-monogamous people. And it doesn't depend on gender at all.
- weak sexual constitution and such common biology as a small penis, impotence or physical defects;
- masochistic tendencies;
- bisexuality or hidden homosexual fantasies. On the general feminine side, these are:
- also masochistic tendencies;
- strict upbringing;
- the desire to take revenge on men due to some kind of psychological trauma suffered.
Psychology are already studying the issues of the cuckoldry lifestyle and this is becoming more and more relevant
Recently, there has been a growing body of research on what does cuckoldry mean to modern life and couples. The shame of infidelity and the mystery surrounding sexuality are reduced. Therefore, what does cuckoldry mean in the modern world can be determined by the ever-increasing free couples, women and representatives of sexual minorities who have discovered their sexuality.
At the same time, someone psychologists, along with these positive aspects, note a radical change in the male role itself in relationships, because before this was considered unacceptable, but now it is served as the norm. All this speaks of a certain crisis of the male personality in the modern world and the fashion for all sorts of pathologies, fetishes. And the most radically traditional point of view says that cuckoldry mean the destruction of the traditional institution of the family and legalize treason.
Many people believe in what is natural, others in their instincts, even some chose to go with the flow instead of swimming against it. What do all these motives have in common? The answer is logic.
Yes, math is logical, so is everything natural. Unfortunately, as things get more complex and structures start building up, the pure and simple logic becomes twisted, until it is no longer easily recognizable. Take all the injustices we have witnessed over the past few millenniums. They are riddled with illogical, unjust and unfair practices. That might be one of the reasons, why the Bible told the Hebrews not to move to the cities.
But how is cuckolding fit into all of this? If it does exist, is it just an outgrowth or is there a much deeper logic to it? In nature we see something similar to cuckolding amongst many species. I remember studying Bio-Anthropology back at college and here are some of the cuckolding type relationships:
Polyamory: In principle, the term expresses that some people have a love relationship with more than one person at the same time. All parties involved know about the multiple love and agree with it. This is also a very typical type of relationship amongst our closest cousins, the Bonobo in Africa.
The second type of social structure or relationship is called Harem. In this type of structure, one male that is the Alpha, gets multiple females and the other males act as a supporting element. Gorillas are social animals that live in groups. A gorilla group usually has a harem structure of one adult male, or silverback, living together with several adult females (three to six) and their offspring. The task of the silverback is to lead and protect the group. If his leadership is successful, the females will stay in the group. If not, the females will switch to another silverback which better suits their needs.
You might ask yourself, how do humans fit into this? Simple, we not only inherit physical traits from our parents, but also behavioral traits as well. Many instincts, stress level, interests and even personality are all said to be genetic. Deductively, it is logical to assume, that even cuckolding, as a type of survival instinct might have survived over hundreds or even millions of years in our DNA.
Secondly, it is natural for all animals, including humans to have the urge and instinct to enrich their DNA with an out-group type of tribe. In this case, many humans are more attracted to men and women that look completely different than themselves.
Louis Farrakhan once said in a sermon, that after one tribe conquered another, the conquering males always took and incorporated the females of the other tribe into their harem. The conquered males were either killed off or enslaved. DNA studies has unfortunately shown, that there is a lot of truth to this. This can be seen through archeo-anthropology and DNA studies done in central Asia, East-Asia, Europe, all over Africa, just basically everywhere.
Now imagine that one tribe has decided to become self defeating, perhaps because of guilt feelings from the past or because they want harmony in society to evolve. This tribe has altered their culture in order for another tribe or perhaps a specific tribe to conquer them. The ancient cuckolding DNA has been activated in them and in the other tribe, that has now been elevated into conquering mode, their DNA has become activated in genetic conquest mode. How would this scenario look like? How would it play out?
I believe, it would be exactly what you are seeing on this site. You wouldn’t understand it, you wouldn’t be able to explain it, but you would feel it. You would feel the urge to become a willing vehicle of your tribes demise. You would think, that the only way to save it is by merging with the conquering tribe and becoming one with them. Even if you were to think that it were on occasion wrong, there would be absolutely nothing you could do against it and fighting against it would be futile to your own survival. You would realize, that you can’t swim against the tidal current of woke-culture or its many out-growths that you probably don’t even know about. The only way to hope to enjoy life is to join it full swing and to become what your cuckolding or hotwife instinct are telling you to do. If you are a black bull, then you can sit back and think about how to conquer your next target.
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