Hi, I'm Mike
- well I'll start off by saying welcome and hope you two have an enjoyable time!
So assuming '
the BBC' will be a regular, hard-working person just like you and hubby lol - simple communication is a perfect start. Making sure all parties are on the same page and compatible.
Different people want different things. You and hubby need to decide what you both want, and why you want it.
My personal experiences have varied from:
- hubby called the shots and always present
- swingers, played together with wife/gf
-Wife only played, hubby watched
-Wife played and I never even MET the guy (hubby only texted/emailed)
and my current and favorite -
- hubby shares his hotwife as my 'BBC girlfriend' She and I spent a few days together solo and it was incredibly
hot (see my media)
communication, be open to have dialogues, and be honest. The RIGHT person will be the Right person.
good luck!
- M.