"What are the things you let your bull do, which you don't do with hubby"?
I'm not going to attempt to list everything. Looking over the early posts in this thread I readily identified with one activity after another that other women posted: anal, swallowing cum, pain, marks on my white skin from hard use by his black hands, etc. The fact is, their approaches are entirely different. When I used to have sex with my husband, he was respectful and romantic. With my black lover (or other blacks) I am used, fucked, and owned. That's the difference in a nutshell. To Tommy, I am a wife. To black men, I am a sex toy.