Trying to get things started. Could use some advice

[AnonymousRob]

I’ve been trying to get my wife to open up to the lifestyle, and especially a BBC. She was initially completely opposed to it but as the months have progressed, the roleplay yes’s gotten more and more intense. She still says it’s just a fantasy but I’m not so sure.

New Years Eve we had the most amazing sex. She wanted tied up, and I blindfolded her and put new sucking nipple clamps on her. Then, I made her tied hand stroke me while she told me about a recent sex dream she had where we were fucking but a room of people were watching. I asked her if it was hot and she said that I did but that she also started to like it. As I did this, I got out our large Black dildo, about 9 and somewhat girthy. I slowly slid it into her and licked her clit while she squirmed. Then I told her if she wanted it she had to imagine it was someone else.

Before, she never would have done this, but tonight she was all about it. She kept referring to the Dildo as him and telling me she wanted him to fuck her with his big cock while she stroked me. I stopped, made sure she was okay, and then told her that this was all about her. I wanted her to let go and really enjoy herself and the roleplay. Then she said, and I quote, “I want you to lick me while he fucks me slow and deep.” Ughhh so hot. So I did and she kept getting close. Then I would make her tell me how he felt while she stroked my cock. Also, I would alternate fucking her with my cock and with the dildo which she loved.

Eventually, after she had cum a few times, smaller orgasms, I broke out Thor, her greedy girl rabbit vibe. I told her she could only have Thor if she jerked me off as well as the dildo and she was ALL about it. I kept asking her how many cocks she had and she kept screaming three cocks, three cocks have fucked me, and she squirted huge, twice. Then, I pulled out Thor, and slid the dildo back in to fuck her to another orgasm. As she came down, she begged me to fuck her myself which I gladly did and she was moaning and screaming the entire time.

When it was over, she couldn’t stop saying how amazing it was and how great it was, and how she hadn’t cum that hard or often in a long time. Then she apologized for it just being a fantasy, and I just snuggled her close and told her that if that’s all it stays, that was great for me. Then she commented on how hot the roleplay was and we snuggled until she dozed off.

Sorry for the long post, but what do you guys think? Are we moving forward at all, based on what you’ve seen and experienced? Thanks!

 

[Caligulaxxx]

You're in the right direction for sure.

My wife initially was saying she's not the type to sleep around, or that she just doesn't do that sort of thing.

Now she's the one instigating the role play and she's talking about going back to New Orleans (we love it there), but next time she wants to fuck a nice thick dick (I'm a decent size lengthwise, but she craves a good 5.75-6"+ cock in her.

My suggestion would be to start introducing some porn, but maybe not make it obvious, meaning don't go get something from Blacked.com as full-on IR porn. I'd suggest something that has one or two scenes with a well hung black guy to get her thinking about it and then eventually migrate to the Black.com stuff. I like a lot of the 80's and 90's stuff as that usually has plot and that's what women really like as opposed to the gonza stuff.

 

[AnonymousRob]

Thanks. That’s a good idea.

 

[AnonymousRob]

You're in the right direction for sure.

My wife initially was saying she's not the type to sleep around, or that she just doesn't do that sort of thing.

Now she's the one instigating the role play and she's talking about going back to New Orleans (we love it there), but next time she wants to fuck a nice thick dick (I'm a decent size lengthwise, but she craves a good 5.75-6"+ cock in her.

My suggestion would be to start introducing some porn, but maybe not make it obvious, meaning don't go get something from Blacked.com as full-on IR porn. I'd suggest something that has one or two scenes with a well hung black guy to get her thinking about it and then eventually migrate to the Black.com stuff. I like a lot of the 80's and 90's stuff as that usually has plot and that's what women really like as opposed to the gonza stuff.

We have done some porn watching and it seems as though that destroys the fantasy for her. She likes the roleplaying a lot more. Do you think that she wants it or is she just trying to appease me?

 

[blond for black]

I’ve been trying to get my wife to open up to the lifestyle, and especially a BBC. She was initially completely opposed to it but as the months have progressed, the roleplay yes’s gotten more and more intense. She still says it’s just a fantasy but I’m not so sure.

New Years Eve we had the most amazing sex. She wanted tied up, and I blindfolded her and put new sucking nipple clamps on her. Then, I made her tied hand stroke me while she told me about a recent sex dream she had where we were fucking but a room of people were watching. I asked her if it was hot and she said that I did but that she also started to like it. As I did this, I got out our large Black dildo, about 9 and somewhat girthy. I slowly slid it into her and licked her clit while she squirmed. Then I told her if she wanted it she had to imagine it was someone else.

Before, she never would have done this, but tonight she was all about it. She kept referring to the Dildo as him and telling me she wanted him to fuck her with his big cock while she stroked me. I stopped, made sure she was okay, and then told her that this was all about her. I wanted her to let go and really enjoy herself and the roleplay. Then she said, and I quote, “I want you to lick me while he fucks me slow and deep.” Ughhh so hot. So I did and she kept getting close. Then I would make her tell me how he felt while she stroked my cock. Also, I would alternate fucking her with my cock and with the dildo which she loved.

Eventually, after she had cum a few times, smaller orgasms, I broke out Thor, her greedy girl rabbit vibe. I told her she could only have Thor if she jerked me off as well as the dildo and she was ALL about it. I kept asking her how many cocks she had and she kept screaming three cocks, three cocks have fucked me, and she squirted huge, twice. Then, I pulled out Thor, and slid the dildo back in to fuck her to another orgasm. As she came down, she begged me to fuck her myself which I gladly did and she was moaning and screaming the entire time.

When it was over, she couldn’t stop saying how amazing it was and how great it was, and how she hadn’t cum that hard or often in a long time. Then she apologized for it just being a fantasy, and I just snuggled her close and told her that if that’s all it stays, that was great for me. Then she commented on how hot the roleplay was and we snuggled until she dozed off.

Sorry for the long post, but what do you guys think? Are we moving forward at all, based on what you’ve seen and experienced? Thanks!

As a woman I can tell you I did not want anything to do with other men fucking me. My husband was very persistent and told me that I could fuck anyone I wanted as long as he was black. I ask him if wanted the same, he said no, I just want to fuck you. So I thought I would call his bluff and told him if I am allowed to fuck anyone I could also fuck any number , But the catch is he could only fuck me after I was full of black cock cum. He thought about it for a long while and then said yes we will do that. Still not ready to believe that this is something that could be anything but disaster I told him if I did the black man I would fuck would be in front of him and he would be the largest blackest cock I could find. He again said yes. When I told him if I do this that I may seek an all black gang bang and again he said okay. Well I did my first black cock, he was a true monster and I had never had so muck cock stuffed in me before. He fucked me for what seemed like an hour or more. I was in almost constant orgasm from the size and the length of this monster in me. After he came in me I remembered that my husband was watching all of this and I looked at him only to see that he had shot off already, just watching. I asked him when he came, he said after the 3 or 4 stroke of the black cock ramming into his wife was too much. So from that time on it has remained that I get to fuck anyone and he gets to fuck me, but only when his wife is full of black cock cum. I love the huge cocks and the orgasms and he loves watching his wife be his own porno star. So it can work , just need to have rules that give each what they want from the event. Good luck , my breaking point was after he fucked me and used a condom, He told after he had fucked me that he had arranged for a group of black guys to fill a condom with their cum, then he used the condom on me, it broke of course so I WAS FULL of black cock cum, in essence I had just been gang banged and they all came in me. Fact was it was true, he had collected cum from 5 black guys and paid them for it, and then came home tossed me on the bed and fucked me with that condom, he broke the condom in me soon after we started and while fucking me told me I was full of cum from black men. I came anyway and when we were done I realized that it was true, I had way too much cum in me for just him. So if I was full of cum I may as well get it from the source and get the pleasure as well.

 

[AnonymousRob]

As a woman I can tell you I did not want anything to do with other men fucking me. My husband was very persistent and told me that I could fuck anyone I wanted as long as he was black. I ask him if wanted the same, he said no, I just want to fuck you. So I thought I would call his bluff and told him if I am allowed to fuck anyone I could also fuck any number , But the catch is he could only fuck me after I was full of black cock cum. He thought about it for a long while and then said yes we will do that. Still not ready to believe that this is something that could be anything but disaster I told him if I did the black man I would fuck would be in front of him and he would be the largest blackest cock I could find. He again said yes. When I told him if I do this that I may seek an all black gang bang and again he said okay. Well I did my first black cock, he was a true monster and I had never had so muck cock stuffed in me before. He fucked me for what seemed like an hour or more. I was in almost constant orgasm from the size and the length of this monster in me. After he came in me I remembered that my husband was watching all of this and I looked at him only to see that he had shot off already, just watching. I asked him when he came, he said after the 3 or 4 stroke of the black cock ramming into his wife was too much. So from that time on it has remained that I get to fuck anyone and he gets to fuck me, but only when his wife is full of black cock cum. I love the huge cocks and the orgasms and he loves watching his wife be his own porno star. So it can work , just need to have rules that give each what they want from the event. Good luck , my breaking point was after he fucked me and used a condom, He told after he had fucked me that he had arranged for a group of black guys to fill a condom with their cum, then he used the condom on me, it broke of course so I WAS FULL of black cock cum, in essence I had just been gang banged and they all came in me. Fact was it was true, he had collected cum from 5 black guys and paid them for it, and then came home tossed me on the bed and fucked me with that condom, he broke the condom in me soon after we started and while fucking me told me I was full of cum from black men. I came anyway and when we were done I realized that it was true, I had way too much cum in me for just him. So if I was full of cum I may as well get it from the source and get the pleasure as well.

That is amazingly hot. Do you think, based on what we have done so far, that she seems interested, maybe even just subconsciously? This is really uncharted territory for me so I want to know if it seems like she is maybe interested and just isn’t quite ready to try it yet.

Also, she has never even been close to trying bbc so I am curious exactly how to breach that subject, especially if she is so conservative.

 

[redcup]

Buy a 12-inch black dildo and stick it in her ass and mouth then slap her in the face with it.

 

[jrdestiny54]

Buy a 12-inch black dildo and stick it in her ass and mouth then slap her in the face with it.

My advice would be to not take this advice.

 

[AnonymousRob]

My advice would be to not take this advice.

I would have to agree with your advice to not take that advice lol

 

[redcup]

My advice would be to not take this advice.

It was a joke

 

[AnonymousRob]

It was a joke

I know lol

 

[blond for black]

That is amazingly hot. Do you think, based on what we have done so far, that she seems interested, maybe even just subconsciously? This is really uncharted territory for me so I want to know if it seems like she is maybe interested and just isn’t quite ready to try it yet.

Also, she has never even been close to trying bbc so I am curious exactly how to breach that subject, especially if she is so conservative.

So was I, but sex is sex, even conservative woman want it , it is just a matter of allowing her to realize what she can have and how much fun it can be for both. I think my hubby enjoys watching me take really big black cocks and hearing us while being fucked, he shoots off before the men in me almost always, gets hard thinking about it and if I tease him by sending him pics of me as I was fucked while at work he can't stand it until he gets home. I sent a pic to him and told him don't be late getting home or you will miss the action he said he had a hard on all day just thinking about me getting fucked. So you can have fun, but it takes two. He was very persistent

 

[JohnEE]

I’ve been trying to get my wife to open up to the lifestyle, and especially a BBC. She was initially completely opposed to it but as the months have progressed, the roleplay yes’s gotten more and more intense. She still says it’s just a fantasy but I’m not so sure.

New Years Eve we had the most amazing sex. She wanted tied up, and I blindfolded her and put new sucking nipple clamps on her. Then, I made her tied hand stroke me while she told me about a recent sex dream she had where we were fucking but a room of people were watching. I asked her if it was hot and she said that I did but that she also started to like it. As I did this, I got out our large Black dildo, about 9 and somewhat girthy. I slowly slid it into her and licked her clit while she squirmed. Then I told her if she wanted it she had to imagine it was someone else.

Before, she never would have done this, but tonight she was all about it. She kept referring to the Dildo as him and telling me she wanted him to fuck her with his big cock while she stroked me. I stopped, made sure she was okay, and then told her that this was all about her. I wanted her to let go and really enjoy herself and the roleplay. Then she said, and I quote, “I want you to lick me while he fucks me slow and deep.” Ughhh so hot. So I did and she kept getting close. Then I would make her tell me how he felt while she stroked my cock. Also, I would alternate fucking her with my cock and with the dildo which she loved.

Eventually, after she had cum a few times, smaller orgasms, I broke out Thor, her greedy girl rabbit vibe. I told her she could only have Thor if she jerked me off as well as the dildo and she was ALL about it. I kept asking her how many cocks she had and she kept screaming three cocks, three cocks have fucked me, and she squirted huge, twice. Then, I pulled out Thor, and slid the dildo back in to fuck her to another orgasm. As she came down, she begged me to fuck her myself which I gladly did and she was moaning and screaming the entire time.

When it was over, she couldn’t stop saying how amazing it was and how great it was, and how she hadn’t cum that hard or often in a long time. Then she apologized for it just being a fantasy, and I just snuggled her close and told her that if that’s all it stays, that was great for me. Then she commented on how hot the roleplay was and we snuggled until she dozed off.

Sorry for the long post, but what do you guys think? Are we moving forward at all, based on what you’ve seen and experienced? Thanks!

Sounds like you are moving in the right direction … take it noce and easy .... but looks like you will get there.

 

[AnonymousRob]

Sounds like you are moving in the right direction … take it noce and easy .... but looks like you will get there.

I certainly hope so. I’m just in uncharted territory with this. I know what I want but I also love my wife, you know?

 

[blond for black]

I certainly hope so. I’m just in uncharted territory with this. I know what I want but I also love my wife, you know?

Move to a new bar for drinks and hanging out, make sure there are potential men in that bar. Nice revealing clothes, make her feel wanted by telling her how attractive she is, let her know when other men are checking her out. Then sit back and let her have fun

 

[AnonymousRob]

Move to a new bar for drinks and hanging out, make sure there are potential men in that bar. Nice revealing clothes, make her feel wanted by telling her how attractive she is, let her know when other men are checking her out. Then sit back and let her have fun

I’ve started doing that. She is very conservative, and has some self esteem issues so she won’t put herself out there like that just yet. I’m working on that aspect first.

 

[blond for black]

I’ve started doing that. She is very conservative, and has some self esteem issues so she won’t put herself out there like that just yet. I’m working on that aspect first.

Dress her in sexy outfits, if she feels sexy and looks sexy she will turn a few heads, when she does point it out EVERYTIME. Don't miss it even if you think they are checking her out make sure she knows. Encourage her to show a little more titty, tell her you are proud of how she looks and ask her to do it for you. Because you married this sexy woman that you like to show off. Tell her you love the fact that she may be giving some dude a hard on. If she lowers her top get her to show you more tell her it makes you want her even more. Let her know it is how you want it, more open more wild, sexier and revealing. Take her picture often , show her she is your focus and let her know every chance that every guy would love to stick his dick in you because you are so sexy. Then get her to see herself as a woman who gets men to notice her. Tell her you often picture her with a well hung man making her moan with pleasure. Tell her that you had a dream where she was being fucked by this huge black cock and just wanted to stare as he pounded her with that huge black cock and that she was open and very vocal . Tell her that in your dream you actually shot off during the dream it was so powerful. Her response will tell you how far you are away from getting her to fuck black men. It takes time to change her, it takes a good plan like what I laid out for you, don't try to do this in a day or just her first time. Patients is key

 

[AnonymousRob]

Dress her in sexy outfits, if she feels sexy and looks sexy she will turn a few heads, when she does point it out EVERYTIME. Don't miss it even if you think they are checking her out make sure she knows. Encourage her to show a little more titty, tell her you are proud of how she looks and ask her to do it for you. Because you married this sexy woman that you like to show off. Tell her you love the fact that she may be giving some dude a hard on. If she lowers her top get her to show you more tell her it makes you want her even more. Let her know it is how you want it, more open more wild, sexier and revealing. Take her picture often , show her she is your focus and let her know every chance that every guy would love to stick his dick in you because you are so sexy. Then get her to see herself as a woman who gets men to notice her. Tell her you often picture her with a well hung man making her moan with pleasure. Tell her that you had a dream where she was being fucked by this huge black cock and just wanted to stare as he pounded her with that huge black cock and that she was open and very vocal . Tell her that in your dream you actually shot off during the dream it was so powerful. Her response will tell you how far you are away from getting her to fuck black men. It takes time to change her, it takes a good plan like what I laid out for you, don't try to do this in a day or just her first time. Patients is key

Thanks for all of that. I have done the dream thing before, even telling her that it made me cum while I was asleep. She used to get mad about it but now she listens and gets a small, wry smile, so I think we are making progress. I’m playing the long game for sure with this. I want it to be her choice, not mine. I know she has never had a black cock but I’m going to work to get her to try one.

 

[blond for black]

Thanks for all of that. I have done the dream thing before, even telling her that it made me cum while I was asleep. She used to get mad about it but now she listens and gets a small, wry smile, so I think we are making progress. I’m playing the long game for sure with this. I want it to be her choice, not mine. I know she has never had a black cock but I’m going to work to get her to try one.

Let her know that you want her to have the real thing during a role play event, tell her it is a very power reoccurring fantasy that you have to actually watch her being taken by a big black cock and watch as the cum runs out of her pussy when they finish. She can make your biggest fantasy come true for you, and you get to lover her even more for doing it for you.

 

[Caligulaxxx]

I would have to agree with your advice to not take that advice lol

While I would not take that advice or recommend it, it would be a good idea for you and the wife to pick out a BBC dildo. My wife never thought she'd be interested in dildos or vibrators till we got a cheap little $5 or $10 bullet. From there we just kept moving up. He favourite is a black Colors 8" x 6" dildo. I make sure to go down on her first to get her juices flowing, then I'll use the dildo with the Hitachi wand and she's over the moon multiple times.

We just ordered a new toy, but she's not sure she can take it, but wants to try. It's Vixen Creations "Randy" and it's not for the faint of heart. Only size queens for sure. The main reason she wants to try it, is there's a guy on this site she's interested in and he's bigger than her Colors dildo, so she wants to see if she can take the Randy and if so, then the guy on this site will be no problem once she's warmed up.

But I'd strongly recommend adding a black or chocolate dildo to the mix, but it should be something either she picks out or you pick out together and then make sure you use it right.