Ok, Austin Girl (I am female too) - if you want to read, laugh, get involved, and/or just have some fun ... do so. All these guys will love ya ...but probably not a good idea to come in and trash them or refer to their posts as worse than other sites. Collectively, this is a pretty smart, but very diverse group. They have been sparring, jabbing at one another and have been having testy fun for a couple years, but they will get nasty with you if you are condescending or negative out of the chute. Newbies are always welcome, but a thick skin will help.
Anyway, welcome aboard ... get yourself a drinkie, relax, read forward or back and enjoy.