Couldn't have said it any better.
i just like to add one thing. There's a too tight and too loose too. Of course those depend on the size of the penis too.
Too tight ... if it's a struggle to even get inside; too loose ... if the penis keeps falling out.
Anything in between is just fine.
my ex's was kinda medium sized, i guess. i would feel her grip and friction, however she was also enabled to take much girthier dicks or objects without a problem. She was awesome!
my first LTR's pussy was quite wide; my dick didn't fall out of her though, just less friction, but also it meant good ******* supply for my penis, and the feeling was amazing too. ?
i vote for both.