what is aff...curiousWe have been on SLS since the very beginning of our "adventure".... we started in 2005. SLS has been very good for us and we are lifetime members. It has been good mainly for reaching other couples when we are in that mood. Not so good for reaching single Black guys, although we have.
We have found that AFF if much better for finding the single Black guys that we want. But we pay for that site too. Being a free member on any site truly has its limitations.
Just our opinion
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oh tu!
Free members had limited access to a lot of the features on the site. Now it’s almost nothing.
There are plenty of women on that site that love bbc. Two groups in the NY/NJ area host monthly parties. Dark Cavern and Chocolate Rendezvous. I’m sure there are similar groups in various parts of the US
What kind of parties are they?
Mostly single black men and white couples attend. I think some single white women attend as well. They usually take over an entire floor of a hotel.
Do I have to join in order to know more about it?
I think anyone can attend, but they offer discounts to SLS members. The next party is on May 5th.
https://www.swinglifestyle.com/swingersclubevents/chocolate-rendezvous-gb_events-267154.cfm
Thanks
I’m aware of those groups and have been to one of their parties a few years ago when I was in Jersey.
I just got around to checking our account.. yep it sucks. been a free member there for many years and have meet a few good and not so good guys on there. I'm going to give some time to see where all this leads before I start paying , Besides we are getting older and need to consider that as well
Each site that we have joined, we always paid for at least one month to "check it out". We have left several, but SLS & AFF are the two we don't mind paying for at all. And the disclaimer: No, we don't work for them, lol.
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We're lifetime members on SLS and our account has free gold on AFF. AFF has a lot of cock hounds so easy as hell to just fuck. SLS has more couples than singles but they are still looking to just jump in bed, so both are as easy as you'd let yourself be.
We're on other sites as well, but not enough "attached" Black males on other sites. As we all know, males are easy to find, the unicorn even more rare, and then there is the interracial BBC couple. Who can blame a QoS wife for not wanting to swing with a guy half her own mans size 
After such a ringing endorsement, I think you do....lol
We have used SLS for many years. Never paid a dime. If you are a couple, people will find you so let them pay. Fetlife is another good site that's free
We have been both paid and free members of SLS over the years. We seem to have had reasonable success in finding playmates.
We promise, LOL
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