Super nervous making this post. Because I could probably make it happen

You don't need to be a cuck or beta Male.
I'm similar to you.
Frisky has been playing with black guys for a few years now and it's something we both enjoy.
It's often called hotwife or stag and vixen.
Obviously everyone is different but we have had a lot of fun and meet lots of great people through this lifestyle.
All the best.
 
throwaway572 said:
I’m late/mid 30’s. Wife is 29. Been together ten years, married for three. I was never really into this until I met her. We clicked immediately. Great sex. I’m not small, about 7in/l 6in/w. She fucking loved it. I was the biggest she’d had.
I should say that she definitely has a bigger sex drive than me, but I’m pretty open about sex. I’m confident. Both in myself and her love for me.
About six years in she starts making joking comments about black guys. Joking, etc, but I immediately knew she liked the bbc fantasy. I love seeing her get off. It makes me get off. So I start watching IR porn. Not exclusively, but I’d start rotating in amateur IR stuff. Think of her getting fucked in place of the girls.
She’s definitely a size queen. We dirty talked while ******* and bought a black dildo. She liked it but it ended up being about my size. We wanted bigger because what’s the point if it’s not, right? We bought another one, longer and thicker than the first. More realistic. She liked that one better.
One day after fucking her with that thing, thought, fuck it, I’m going big. Bought a big ole thing. I think it’s called the king cock. 10 inches long. Probably 8 wide. Massive.
Next time we got ******* and fucking around I told her I had a surprise. Made her put on a blindfold because she’d probably balk at the look of this thing.
Went down on her, got lube and started slowly working it in. Might have been the hottest I’ve ever seen her, as far as her reaction (blindfold, surprises, etc). I made her wait until I worked it all the way in to take the blindfold off. When she did, she was kind of shocked. Surprised that she could take something that big.
She’s super cool. I think we’re pretty devoted to each other. She wants to make me happy. I want to make her happy.
The risks are so great to me. I’m not really into the cuck thing. I’m not beta at all.
I could probably make it happen though. My heart is pounding writing this post. Because in writing (and not lurking as I’ve done for years) it makes it real. I’m not even sure if I’m asking for anything. I just want to write it down. Finally
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Throwaway, seems like you have a great relationship and sex life with your wife. You respect and care for each other. What is your biggest hesitation with the lifestyle? What is your biggest fear?
 
I’m telling y’all. The kind of sex you are going to experience in this lifestyle is going to be the most intense sexual experience you will have. The lead up to the event, the sexiness of everything that will occur, the amazingness of your wife fucking another man who is probably giving her the best fuck of her life.....there is a lot of stimuli going on with this.......this ******* is intense and marvelous at the same time.

But you must take the necessary precautions to protect your sex life and relationship.

If you guys really want to know how you can succeed in this lifestyle, and use this lifestyle to bolster your relationship versus having it negatively impact your relationship....reach out to those who have been successful.

Please reach out to Dblinsey on this site to gain some advice. They have been so smart with creating boundaries that allow them to enjoy this lifestyle while increasing their love for each other and maintaining a great sexlife, where the foundation of their sex is still each other not the lifestyle.

If you are serious reach out......

This lifestyle is fire, in the right context it’s great but if you don’t know what you are doing - you will get burned.
 
Keep us posted, man.

Remember this doesn’t have to be as scary as you think. Reach out to those who have succeeded in the lifestyle unless the danger that she might leave you is part of the fantasy.

If you both love each other and have good sex already, if you make the right precautions and rules to safeguard the relationship....she can enjoy BBC and not leave you.

She’s not going to leave you anyway for BBC and she will enjoy sex with BBC but if your sex life and relationship are in a good place and you take the necessary precautions...you will be ok.
 
One bit of advice. You're worried that there is no turning back once you do. I think a lot of folks fear that. Set up ground rules. I would think one rule would be, if either party wants to end it, either during, or end it from happening in the future, either party has the veto power to do that. I've seen posters post about what happens when she wants to keep going, although I sometimes wonder how much is real, and how much is cuck fantasy. Still, make sure you both agree that if it gets too much, either can stop it.
 
throwaway572 said:
Biggest fear is ruining our marriage. I know once the door is opened, it can never go back to what it was. Another fear is family and friends finding out. Being exposed. I’m not into that at all.
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Well im getting 8 years may 9nth and i dont know you. But look at my media and see if she is able to like and yall agree
 
We have been married 22yrs and in the lifestyle for little over 10yrs. What ever you do... Make sure you guys are very happy and your marriage is stronger than ever.
My hubby is not what so ever a cuck.... We have lots of amazing sex and enjoy each other very much. But we needed a little splash of spice after a few years...
Make a few rules have a safe word for her... Never let her play alone.
Most of all have fun and enjoy it.... When the BBC is done then you take her home and reclaim what is yours......Always do this.
 
Wifelovesbbc10 said:
We have been married 22yrs and in the lifestyle for little over 10yrs. What ever you do... Make sure you guys are very happy and your marriage is stronger than ever.
My hubby is not what so ever a cuck.... We have lots of amazing sex and enjoy each other very much. But we needed a little splash of spice after a few years...
Make a few rules have a safe word for her... Never let her play alone.
Most of all have fun and enjoy it.... When the BBC is done then you take her home and reclaim what is yours......Always do this.
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Best Advice I’ve read in this thread. Thanks.
 
The site is called black to white. And that could mean many many things. There are many different relationships on this site. Not every white male here is small. Every black male is large and a dominant bull. Every women here is not submissive and wants to be treated like a slut. Every relationship is different. Explore and share yourself here. There will be others similar to you! Trust me.
 
throwaway572 said:
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Been some progress. Got permission to share pics
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shes hot
 
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