That is absolutely not true.Most of your time will be spent meeting friendly people from all over the world. We have friends that we met from parties like this 30 years ago. If you have an exhibitionist streak, you can enjoy showing off in very sexy slut wear that you could never wear at home.Just Googled it...Wow! Not for beginners!!!
Women are totally and completely in control I'm well aware that there are some people who submissive, but when a woman say no, the discussion is over. You will do only what you want to do. There is no pressure to do anything.
So why wouldn't this be for beginners? It's a fun cocktail party with lots of very sexy people. The rest is up to you. You have the option to push your boundaries. The decision to do so is yours. You don't need to be experienced. This is a chance to experience your fantasies. That's a experience few people get.