Yes that’s exactly what you need! Be honest to her and yourself. I guarantee she would be happy to hear it. You both start living your life finally, the way you should be
My better judgement said not to follow your advice but being aroused by your attention I opened up to my wife. Since she knows about & has encouraged my panty wearing I did not think this would be shocking news. Her first reaction was why would anyone want a smaller dick, I already struggled to give her any satisfaction with it. I pointed out she enjoyed teasing me & knew it excited me when she left me denied & frustrated. She countered that maybe that wasn't as satisfying for her. I brought up taking the next step in our black fantasy & she again told me she just did not think she was ready. She became a bit angry & said she thought maybe I was really gay. She thought maybe I just wanted to see her with a black man because he was what I really wanted. I tried to explain how the idea of cuckolding & submissiveness turned me on but it did not mean I was gay however she was not in a mood to discuss it. Maybe I feel some relief admitting some things I didn't realize I was covering up but it may take more time to see how my wife processes it.