She went black for first time

[dubbels]

Hi!

This is the husband speaking now.

Last summer we met up with a bull who was experienced and very sweet. My wife and I met him in a bar, had a couple of drinks and went back to our hotel.
Back at the hotel she changed to sexy lingerie and things started to heat up.
They couldn't keep their hands from eachother while at the hotel. She was so eager to go down and suck his massive cock. Everything was going well, he started fucking her and after about almost an hour he came on her face.

After everything was over, I had a bad feeling in my gut, like i was very anxious. I think she noticed my reaction and also started feeling bad about what we did. We talked it through and I told her that I did not enjoy it as much as i thought i would. I felt like I wanted to be more active and maybe join them.

I feel like my reaction ruined the experience for her, and If i would have been more supportive after, she would have been more confident and happy about her time with her bull.

Anyways, we decided to never do it again and only focus on our our selves.

Fast forward a year and we are back at it again and talking about maybe doing it again. We even got her an anklet with a spade which she will be wearing permanently. It feels like we are more confident this time and think we might know what went wrong. But who knows, maybe we are being naive again.

Can somoene share with us if they have had a similar experience and if it is a good idea to try it again?

Did we maybe go to fast and what should we think about next time?

 

[dubbels]

Yeah!

I want to make her happy of course. Just confused if it is normal to feel like that the first time. Although I can say i feel way more confident now.
But maybe thats my mind playing tricks on me.

 

[Justcrazyforit]

I don't recall having had those reactions but you might want to refocus on what you expected for her and you. I was always of the mind set if she was happy so was I. If I had issues it was mostly of my doing. You are not always welcome to join in. If you want to join in make sure from the very beginning everyone is aware. I was much more of a voyeur

 

[dubbels]

Now that I know how I felt afterwards, it is quite obvious I should have talked to her about it. But at the time I felt like a wanted to just watch and see her enjoy her the experience like a cuckold does.

I think most of my anxiety came from the fact that my ego was hurt. I felt insecure.

 

[DubbteeTX]

Here's the reality that you need to understand and accept: you can't make her stay with you if she doesn't want to. Your "bad feelings" are likely insecurity that she will leave you. Jealously and possiveness ******* many more relationships than any black (or white) cock. Show her support and affection...a sort of sexual pride....and let her know your love is unconditional. And I agree with idea of joining in...it is rare when I DON'T join in. Just enjoy...it is an ENHANCEMENT, not a replacement.

 

[dubbels]

Yes! Well put @DubbteeTX

 

[syscom3]

Do you want to be a cuckold or have a hotwife?

 

[Joey Davis]

You visited a bar with your wife in the middle of the pandemic?
You stayed at a hotel?

 

[AnnieS]

So why didn't you join in? A women loves that attention and their is nothing sexier than have two cocks servicing you. Have her suck you while she's being fucked or vice versa. Seduce her and both of you undress her and partake in the foreplay. It will be very erotic and most probably a huge turn on for you and a definite turn on for your wife. Just a side note on how hot it can be to have your husbands be part of your fantasies come to life.

My husband was taking some photos of a tryst I had. He an the bull had worked me over pretty good up to this point and I had already cum several times. My bull moved me to the bed and mounted me and was driving his dick into me from tip to balls methodically. I found myself with my legs up in a big V so he had full access to me and my eyes where closed. All of the sudden I feel my ankles being grabbed and open my eyes to look up and see my husband straddling my face with his cock hanging down in my face and he had grasped my ankles and pulled my legs back and open to give the bull full access to me. That angle with my hips rotated up makes me crazy and he just looked down and fed me his cock to suck and and said to the bull "pound it" which he absolutely did. I never came so hard. I was totally vulnerable (which oddly really turned me on) and at the same time felt so sexy with my husbands dick in my mouth and my bull fucking me for all he was worth. I felt absolutely and completely sexual. It just made the experience all that more a turn on to have him do that. They changed positions and I flipped over and gave my husband my pussy from behind and my bull my mouth for the next round. This went on for almost 2 hours until they both came- one on my tits and the other in my pussy. It was one of the most exciting nights I've had because it was one of the first being shared in a MMF and I still think about the erraticism of it years later.

 

[dubbels]

You visited a bar with your wife in the middle of the pandemic?
You stayed at a hotelno

You visited a bar with your wife in the middle of the pandemic?
You stayed at a hotel?

Actually it was last summer 2020 . In sweden, bars and hotels were open during the pandemic. We are not like the rest of the world hehe.we never really closed down like other countries. They did limit the opening hours though.

 

[dubbels]

So why didn't you join in? A women loves that attention and their is nothing sexier than have two cocks servicing you. Have her suck you while she's being fucked or vice versa. Seduce her and both of you undress her and partake in the foreplay. It will be very erotic and most probably a huge turn on for you and a definite turn on for your wife. Just a side note on how hot it can be to have your husbands be part of your fantasies come to life.

My husband was taking some photos of a tryst I had. He an the bull had worked me over pretty good up to this point and I had already cum several times. My bull moved me to the bed and mounted me and was driving his dick into me from tip to balls methodically. I found myself with my legs up in a big V so he had full access to me and my eyes where closed. All of the sudden I feel my ankles being grabbed and open my eyes to look up and see my husband straddling my face with his cock hanging down in my face and he had grasped my ankles and pulled my legs back and open to give the bull full access to me. That angle with my hips rotated up makes me crazy and he just looked down and fed me his cock to suck and and said to the bull "pound it" which he absolutely did. I never came so hard. I was totally vulnerable (which oddly really turned me on) and at the same time felt so sexy with my husbands dick in my mouth and my bull fucking me for all he was worth. I felt absolutely and completely sexual. It just made the experience all that more a turn on to have him do that. They changed positions and I flipped over and gave my husband my pussy from behind and my bull my mouth for the next round. This went on for almost 2 hours until they both came- one on my tits and the other in my pussy. It was one of the most exciting nights I've had because it was one of the first being shared in a MMF and I still think about the erraticism of it years later.

That actually sounds much more exciting to me than just observing. I love your experience by the way.❤❤❤

 

[Bbc4u2enjoy]

Now that I know how I felt afterwards, it is quite obvious I should have talked to her about it. But at the time I felt like a wanted to just watch and see her enjoy her the experience like a cuckold does.

I think most of my anxiety came from the fact that my ego was hurt. I felt insecure.

Listen that was your first time that was the buzz fault as the leader in the experience I continued the ex-husband in the wife if they like it and what they want. Your wife is hot I totally would have told her to suck your cock Jack your cock in my favorite is to have a husband kissing his wife while shem bounce up and down on my cock.

Now that I know how I felt afterwards, it is quite obvious I should have talked to her about it. But at the time I felt like a wanted to just watch and see her enjoy her the experience like a cuckold does.

I think most of my anxiety came from the fact that my ego was hurt. I felt insecure.

the boat should have let you kissed your wife and make love to her while he was inside of her you should have let you lick her p**** and let her suck your dick. The more you watch her take BBC the more you going to want to watch and want her to do it but a true bull like me is going to always incorporate you into it. So you just need to find the right bulland remember this when you give your wife to a real Bull he's going to take full advantage of you at the same time if he does the right job your wife will be at the sexual level that she needs to be in for the rest of her life.

 

[hw mass cpl]

Hi!

This is the husband speaking now.

Last summer we met up with a bull who was experienced and very sweet. My wife and I met him in a bar, had a couple of drinks and went back to our hotel.
Back at the hotel she changed to sexy lingerie and things started to heat up.
They couldn't keep their hands from eachother while at the hotel. She was so eager to go down and suck his massive cock. Everything was going well, he started fucking her and after about almost an hour he came on her face.

After everything was over, I had a bad feeling in my gut, like i was very anxious. I think she noticed my reaction and also started feeling bad about what we did. We talked it through and I told her that I did not enjoy it as much as i thought i would. I felt like I wanted to be more active and maybe join them.

I feel like my reaction ruined the experience for her, and If i would have been more supportive after, she would have been more confident and happy about her time with her bull.

Anyways, we decided to never do it again and only focus on our our selves.

Fast forward a year and we are back at it again and talking about maybe doing it again. We even got her an anklet with a spade which she will be wearing permanently. It feels like we are more confident this time and think we might know what went wrong. But who knows, maybe we are being naive again.

Can somoene share with us if they have had a similar experience and if it is a good idea to try it again?

Did we maybe go to fast and what should we think about next time?

Dub, just wondering how long you’ve been married? Your reaction seems quite normal.
If you didn’t experience a little guilt and concern after your first attempt it may be more of an issue. We didn’t try anything like this until we were well into our marriage.
Believe it or not if you go about this lifestyle the right way you develop a deeper trust and a more intimate relationship.
If you’d like to chat sometime hit us up.
For the record this is the hub speaking also.

 

[Jellycapone]

So why didn't you join in? A women loves that attention and their is nothing sexier than have two cocks servicing you. Have her suck you while she's being fucked or vice versa. Seduce her and both of you undress her and partake in the foreplay. It will be very erotic and most probably a huge turn on for you and a definite turn on for your wife. Just a side note on how hot it can be to have your husbands be part of your fantasies come to life.

My husband was taking some photos of a tryst I had. He an the bull had worked me over pretty good up to this point and I had already cum several times. My bull moved me to the bed and mounted me and was driving his dick into me from tip to balls methodically. I found myself with my legs up in a big V so he had full access to me and my eyes where closed. All of the sudden I feel my ankles being grabbed and open my eyes to look up and see my husband straddling my face with his cock hanging down in my face and he had grasped my ankles and pulled my legs back and open to give the bull full access to me. That angle with my hips rotated up makes me crazy and he just looked down and fed me his cock to suck and and said to the bull "pound it" which he absolutely did. I never came so hard. I was totally vulnerable (which oddly really turned me on) and at the same time felt so sexy with my husbands dick in my mouth and my bull fucking me for all he was worth. I felt absolutely and completely sexual. It just made the experience all that more a turn on to have him do that. They changed positions and I flipped over and gave my husband my pussy from behind and my bull my mouth for the next round. This went on for almost 2 hours until they both came- one on my tits and the other in my pussy. It was one of the most exciting nights I've had because it was one of the first being shared in a MMF and I still think about the erraticism of it years later.

This comment right here is what I'd like with my wife

 

[Jellycapone]

Dub, just wondering how long you’ve been married? Your reaction seems quite normal.
If you didn’t experience a little guilt and concern after your first attempt it may be more of an issue. We didn’t try anything like this until we were well into our marriage.
Believe it or not if you go about this lifestyle the right way you develop a deeper trust and a more intimate relationship.
If you’d like to chat sometime hit us up.
For the record this is the hub speaking also.

Hey man would like to chat

 

[curiouswmale]

For those who want to be a cuckold, that reaction is what is generally called “post nut clarity” and happens when the husband/BF gets off after watching his wife/GF with another guy. At the beginning, you’re so horny that you’re all for it and then afterwards, you have regrets or guilty feelings. Totally normal for those who come from a background where sex is a more private matter especially religious upbringings.
One thing I’ve noticed is, once you get interested in this lifestyle, the desire never fully goes away. You may have reservations and hesitations in the beginning, but over time, you will come to be more open and accepting to it. Just give it time and don’t rush things. Your mindset will gradually adapt and things will work out. Keep a good line of communication open with your wife and be absolutely sure your bond is strong and the best for each other is what matters the most to the both of you.
Lots of good advice has been given already, especially being included in the action, and that might be an ideal situation for you. Later on you may be more inclined to just watch or whatever. Main thing is don’t give up and be sure to seek out and find the best guys who the two of you are comfortable and compatible with. Good luck.

 

[tomtomjim]

you are a cuckold and she will fuck other men and hopefully you will come to enjoy it but do not expect her to stop

 

[Wife4Black77]

I have had the cold feet/feelings of regret at various times. Totally agree about post nut clarity. Ideally I want to not cum until he’s done and I get a chance to fuck her afterwards. It’s normal especially in the beginning so just learn to communicate better and it would probably help if you two just really connected afterwards and she reassured you of how much she loves you, and values you.

 

[Bbc4u2enjoy]

Here's the reality that you need to understand and accept: you can't make her stay with you if she doesn't want to. Your "bad feelings" are likely insecurity that she will leave you. Jealously and possiveness ******* many more relationships than any black (or white) cock. Show her support and affection...a sort of sexual pride....and let her know your love is unconditional. And I agree with idea of joining in...it is rare when I DON'T join in. Just enjoy...it is an ENHANCEMENT, not a replacement.

You are right. Sometimes I don't share so the hubby can experience having the control be in the hands of his wife and her bull.

 

[latino]

Best thing that has happened in our lifes bringing a third person in our lifes , a bull full of muscles 12 inch dick and unstoppable in bed