If you are white and proud to be white does that mean you're a racist? If you judge a man by the way he treats you are you a racist? I always judge a person by the way he acts and treats others. I try and treat people the way I want to be treated but at times it is hard. There are black women that I think are beautiful and would bed them in a minute. What I find interesting in this whole blog is the reference to old time Southern slave type language. You hear Master and Slave, you hear breading all this relates to attitudes of white gentry talk about the blacks they owned. Even if you have sex with a white woman or a chucks woman do you own her the way slaves were owned by their white masters. I do not think so. If you look at men and women as a whole there are some who get so hung up on one person that they will do anything to please them. Some will go so far as to commit crimes or take the blame for crimes committed because "I love them". Some are so hung up on sex and the chemical it releases that they will do what ever that person wants for the sex fix. If that person turns you on and you get off on them then get er done. Here are some facts that are easily proven. Not every man (white, black, native American, Asia, Hispanic or what ever ) has a little dick. Not every black man has a big dick. Not every white woman wants to have sex with a black man just because she thinks he has a big dick. Not every white woman sits around dreaming or thinking about sex with a black man daily. Does this make her racist. Heck she may not like a white man because she is not attracted to them this does not make her a racist. Would my wife have sex with a black man probably if he sparked a desire in her, is she going out to look for one (no). If she told me she found one interesting and she wanted to have sex with him would I say no (no). Her interest would be in sex only not love not support nor giving up a marriage for someone else. I think most women look at a man for what he can give her, security, home, love and companion ship, if you can give this to them then it doesn't matter you skin color she will be willing to stay with you. I do not think just because you have a big dick, treat her like *******, live off her, beat her she will want to stay with you. I don't think just because you have a big dick, and can give her nothing else she will want to stay with you. Yes a short fling till the newness wears off then good bye.