I would be upset! Now if she said I knew this was your fantasy and wanted you to catch me I guess I would be fine with it! I don’t like cheating! My ex wife was cheating on me with 2 guys at the end of our marriage and I hooked up with a couple because I found out! One thing I learned 2 wrongs don’t make a right! The other thing is I should’ve tossed my ex wife out way before I did! Even though she had permission to have sex with other men as long as I knew about it doesn’t mean she should’ve had cheated behind my back with the 2 guys I didn’t know about! But now she’s married to one of them and she treats him like crap I heard so I guess he deserves it even though he still stands by that he didn’t know she was married! So I guess it’s different on every scenario and couple!
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I’d be in heaven
Every detail lol
I guess as long as you made that clear before marriage or even before the relationship turned serious then it's fine otherwise if my wife gave me that line and we didn't discuss anything beforehand I would say ok fine, I'll have a lawyer serve you with papers and we'll go our own separate ways.
I'm sure my reactions would be mixed.
Given her attitudes about marriage and sex I would be overjoyed that she was letting loose and experiencing pleasures that I could never provide but some part of me would be hurt that she was cheating.
This is, of course at odds with the fact that I would love to find someone to try and seduce her that is paitent enough to take it slowly and discrete enough to keep quiet about the situation. lol
Really? Why is that?
Straight in, how?
Because if my wife did that it’d be because she stumbled upon the porn I have been watching or something, and the hottest way to get into the lifestyle would be to jump in head first.
My wife knows about my fantasies and she and wants to find a nice well endowed black man to sleep with but so far we have not pulled the trigger. At first my my stipulation was I wanted to be there with her every time but as time went by I told her I wanted to be there the first few times but that if she decided she wanted to be alone with a black man that we knew I would be okay with that. She was not excited at all about the aspect of going over to a black man's house alone to have sex and said that would never happen. I told her never say never because she might find a black man who she is thrilled with in bed and just might want to be alone at times and that I was just leaving the door open in case she wanted that for herself. She said okay but did not commit.
Having said that I have seen how my wife has evolved over the course of time in this saying no to all of this initially, to a timid yes and now she admits she finds black men attractive and flirts with them at the casino where she works.
Things happen but I hope I would be there the first time to see her response as she gets undressed with a black man and see her get in bed with him and the moment he starts making love to her and she feels his size for the first time. The thing is I introduced her to all of this and she has been more than eager to be a part of this so if I came home and found her in bed with a black man I would have very mixed emotions. I would upset but could not really express it because I feel it would be unfair to her because I asked her to cuckold me and if she took it to the next level and was truly making me a cuckold then I guess I got what I wanted. On the other hand, after my initial feelings wore off I would be excited that it was now happening and would be eager to ask her how he made her feel and ask him what was she like with him.
The odd thing here is my wife said no to being alone with a black man but we never discussed her flirting with black men while I wasn't there and yet I vividly remember the first time she came home from work one night and said she needed to tell me something. She got into some PJs and we sat on the bed and she said she met this nice looking black man at her and that she flirted with him the entire time he was there and that she was touching forearm or bicep casually at times just to feel his skin so I am not going to be naive and think that her doing what you said is not all possible.
There is that 1% chance she meets some good looking black man at work she has gotten to know and wants to have sex with him but he does not want me around and she decides fuck it my husband can't always get what he wants and since it's my body and he planted all of this in my head I'm bringing this man home with me. Hell just talking about it gets me excited a tad because it would be wild to come home and hear my wife moaning in the bedroom because some well hung black man is with her and he is fucking her in ways she never imagined.
That's a pretty descriptive explanation of how you'd feel! Essentially you'd be ok, because you wanted it initially and she went through with it...if she's already touching forearms and biceps, it's only a matter of time
Only if im there. Don’t wana miss a thing.
I can respect that
I have expressed my interest and she is considering it. Still not there yet. But if she did it without me knowing we would be done. To me this is something we are doing together. If there is deception on one part it’s just plain cheating. Both parties must know or it will never work. if it’s been discussed and planned then it’s all good. As backward as this all sounds
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That pulls you like a magnet!
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The fantasy would overwhelm me
