We found a black guy on a swinger site and asked if he would bring a friend to a hotel meet. We had never met either of them. My lady enjoyed the date -- a lot -- but the original guy explained that the buddy wasn't really a friend, but a dude he met at swing parties. So there was no prior relationship of any sort going on and none of the jealousy issues that are mentioned in other posts.
Interesting thing is that both guys contacted us for another play date, but both wanted a solo one.
Interesting thing is that both guys contacted us for another play date, but both wanted a solo one.