No respect

So my wife and I have been doing the cuckold thing for a few years now... I knew she'd been with a few black men so I basically used the playbook presented here, stopped fucking her completely and put on interracial porn and licked her as out sex life, left open cuckold pages on the computer etc.. eventually she brought up if it was my fantasy and it all came out. We started meeting men, mostly black but not exclusively and I watched or listened from the other room (if the guy was shy). Eventually it became less of a unique thing and more of the way of things and as her confidence grew I became more and more submissive. She didn't like all the random guys so got herself a steady boyfriend and now they do things alone both sexual and not. she says she still loves me but don't respect me at all. did I make a big mistake starting this all?
 
You knew that she'd been with black men in the past but she still married you. Probably because she loved you and felt that you would provide everything she needed-sexually, emotionally, financially. That's why most women marry a man.

Then you decided you'd rather not provide for her sexually because you have a Cuckold fantasy. You admit to withholding sex from her and drop hints that you want her to fuck black guys. Eventually she does and after a period of time you became submissive and she found what she needed from someone else- both sexually and emotionally. But at least you still get to provide for her financially- at least until she decides to leave you.

Contrary to what the people on here will tell you, most women don't want this kind of relationship. They want the man they married. You're not that man anymore. You decided to subcontract the most intimate, personal, loving aspect of your marriage to satisfy your sexual kink. I wouldn't respect you either.
 
It seemed to be going ok when it was random guys but things started to change when she started getting long term boyfriends. There have been 3 but this last guy has been around for over a year and he spends the night while I sleep on the couch. I'd like to return to it just being playing but i'm scared pushing will make her end things with me instead.
 
My Friend, time for you reclaim what's yours, i don't think there is nothing wrong with your fantasies but Man up get involve dictate the situations sometimes, that's just my opinion.
 
I'd like to return to it just being playing but i'm scared pushing will make her end things with me instead.

If you don't push things you're going to lose her anyway so what other choice for you have? You need to act like a man- stop being a submissive cuck boy and be the man she married. And know this- it might be too late to do anything about it anyway.
 
My Friend, time for you reclaim what's yours, i don't think there is nothing wrong with your fantasies but Man up get involve dictate the situations sometimes, that's just my opinion.
Any playing should have been an extension if the couples sexual relationship ,To enhance the sexual relationship. It should never be a replacement.

Stop listening to all the bullshit cuck wannabes.
They only play fantasy or are gay, and have not figured it out and accepted it. As for the others, who try to ******* it on thier partner , they only find out it leads to resentment and Hate
 
Any playing should have been an extension if the couples sexual relationship ,To enhance the sexual relationship. It should never be a replacement.

Stop listening to all the bullshit cuck wannabes.
They only play fantasy or are gay I have not figured it out accepted yet. As for the other who try to ******* it on thier partner , they only find out it leads to resentment and Hate
Preach on Preacha
 
Stop listening to all the bullshit cuck wannabes.
They only play fantasy or are gay, and have not figured it out and accepted it. As for the others, who try to ******* it on thier partner , they only find out it leads to resentment and Hate

When I say that my inbox gets filled with messages from angry cucks telling me to mind my own business. Apparently, when a guy is having trouble with his woman the opinion of a woman is unwanted.
 
When I say that my inbox gets filled with messages from angry cucks telling me to mind my own business. Apparently, when a guy is having trouble with his woman the opinion of a woman is unwanted.
Jersey girl, a true man will always respect the opinion of a woman. Epecially one with experience. Ignore the those wannabes or those that try to ******* thier own fantasies.
 
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