Newbie BBC here, lot of questions. Any thoughts is much appreciated.

Dear All,

Hope you all are doing well. I have some questions and I would very much appreciate your thoughts.

* I'm a tall dark brown skinned guy with a dick as black as an African though I don't have any African roots. Since my dick is big and black can I call myself a BBC during posting? or Is it super-important to mention my race during the posting?

* When fully erect, my dick is 8 inches long and 5 inches in girth. Does that meet the physical criteria for me to post as a BBC or a bull?

* Are guys with not so much sexual experience welcome into this lifestyle? Are couple/mature women willing to accept guys like me if I can compensate lack of experience with honesty, confidence and enthusiasm?

* Can young guys learn better by sleeping with experienced women or is it just a myth to sell MILF porn?

* What are the things that I need to know before entering into a physical relationship where basically I'll be having sex with someone's wife?

* Here the community seems to consist of mature and real-life working professionals living out their fantasies. So it's more safer than an average hookup site/app in terms of catfishes/scammers, am I correct to get this feeling? or am I being naive here?

* What are the popular ways that new bulls get scammed? How can new guys get what they want out of this in a safer way?

If you need more data to answer any of my questions please feel free to ask.

Thanks in advance for your time and patience. Sorry, if any of my questions were plain annoying or just stupid.

P.S.: Some of you might wonder why my profile is unverified and basically empty. I promise, am not a troll and am not here to waste your time. I'm serious about this. However, at the moment, I'm trying to understand if this lifestyle is a right fit for me. Once I make up my mind, I'll get verified and also post pictures of my ... ;)
 
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I'm a little surprised nobody has said this yet but a big black dick is a big dick attached to a black man.. A big dark coloured dick attached to an Indian or Middle Eastern man is not a big black dick.

The distinction for me is important because physically I'm not really attracted to the above mentioned examples. I like black men for many physical reasons and dick size doesn't even make the list. I'm here because I date and love black men, not disembodied large dark shafts lol

That's just my personal opinion as a non size queen, for some the size is the most important factor but this is black to white, not the multi-racial big dick emporium.
I would like to know the reasons you want black men other than his dick size if you can point out all the features. Much rather appreciate.I am a man of indian origin which I understand you do not have preference for . Thank you
 
I would like to know the reasons you want black men other than his dick size if you can point out all the features. Much rather appreciate.I am a man of indian origin which I understand you do not have preference for . Thank you
It depends heavily on the man in question but painting with a broad stroke and making generalized sweeping statements a nice face is the absolute deal breaker for me and in my eyes, black men have much more appealing facial features than other races.

Furthermore, I'm attracted to power, strength and the physical embodiment of those things. Black men tend to have a more natural dominance in how they present. Stronger facial features, built taller, broader, big hands that can wrap around my neck easily. Even in partners who aren't so big in stature there is a calm confidence and control in how they carry themselves, it's a very distinct physical presence.

Not a physical aspect but there's also a lot less red tape when it comes to [most] black men that I've been with. Less bullshit, less pussy footing around. There's no games and no temper tantrums. I find all of that incredibly attractive.

Obviously that doesn't apply to every single black man on earth and I'm not attracted to all black men. Similarly it doesn't necessarily preclude other races entirely but it's very, very rare for me to have any attraction to or find all these features in other races though it has happened on a case by case basis.

All of the above things are far more important to me than the size of someone's dick.
 
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It depends heavily on the man in question but painting with a broad stroke and making generalized sweeping statements I'm attracted to power, strength and the physical embodiment of those things. Black men have a more natural dominance in how they present. Stronger facial features, built taller, broader, big hands that can wrap around my neck easily. Even in partners who aren't so big in stature there is a calm confidence and control in how they carry themselves.

There's also a lot less red tape when it comes to [most] black men that I've been with. Less bullshit, less pussy footing around. There's no games and no temper tantrums.

Obviously that doesn't apply to every single black man on earth and I'm not attracted to all black men. Similarly it doesn't necessarily preclude other races entirely but it's very, very rare for me to have any attraction to other races though it has happened on a case by case basis.

This is completely generalized attempt to analyze my own attraction based on my perception and experience in being attracted to and dating black men for the last 17 odd years.
I get what you're saying but you're confusing black men with more in trend and available self proclaimed Bulls who are into hotwifing.

If you research a little more you can trace your preference of black men to their country of origin. Bulls originate more from Somali,tanzania , Ethiopia, Algeria than Kenya, Nigeria Congo.
 
I get what you're saying but you're confusing black men with more in trend and available self proclaimed Bulls who are into hotwifing.

If you research a little more you can trace your preference of black men to their country of origin. Bulls originate more from Somali,tanzania , Ethiopia, Algeria than Kenya, Nigeria Congo.
No, I'm not seeing as I'm not a hotwife and don't seek bulls or casual sex and even if I was I would have zero physical attraction to an Indian/Asian/Middle Eastern bull regardless of what they fancy themselves to be.

I date black men and have done so since I was a teenager and there is zero difference physically between those who refer to themselves as bulls and those who don't.

I don't see a need to research why I'm attracted to someone, you asked for a reason and I gave it to the best of my ability, albeit after working and reworking what I was trying to say since explaining attraction isn't exactly simple. Obviously I confused you by trying to over analyze it so let me be even more simple.. What features attract me to black men aside from their dick? Literally every other feature and the way it's the opposite of people I'm not attracted to.

I see, I like. Simple as that.
 
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No, I'm not seeing as I'm not a hotwife and don't seek bulls or casual sex and even if I was I would have zero physical attraction to an Indian/Asian/Middle Eastern bull regardless of what they fancy themselves to be.

I date black men and have done so since I was a teenager and there is zero difference physically between those who refer to themselves as bulls and those who don't.

I don't see a need to research why I'm attracted to someone, you asked for a reason and I gave it to the best of my ability, albeit after working and reworking what I was trying to say since explaining attraction isn't exactly simple. Obviously I confused you by trying to over analyze it so let me be even more simple.. What features attract me to black men aside from their dick? Literally every other feature and the way it's the opposite of people I'm not attracted to.

I see, I like. Simple as that.
Ok..I never meant that you should be attracted towards Asian/Indian/middle Eastern men ...
 
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Ok..I never meant that you should have attractions towards Asian/Indian/middle Eastern men ...
No, but you point blank said that I'm "confusing" the physical attributes I'm attracted to in black men with the trend of them being bulls which makes no sense and has nothing to do with anything I said.. Hence why I used the example I did to try and illustrate why it's an irrelevant argument, not to mention incredibly condescending.
 
So true! For me it’s more the taboo aspect it’s not the same though the dark colour is a turn on for me as well.
I think it's the taboo behind which makes consummating a black bull more sexy for sub continent hotwife/cuck community To Imagine and actively breaking all sexual racial social taboos in one act becomes all the more dopamine kicking exercise for us all
 
I get what you're saying but you're confusing black men with more in trend and available self proclaimed Bulls who are into hotwifing.

If you research a little more you can trace your preference of black men to their country of origin. Bulls originate more from Somali,tanzania , Ethiopia, Algeria than Kenya, Nigeria Congo.
Welcome to algeria
 
Dear All,

Hope you all are doing well. I have some questions and I would very much appreciate your thoughts.

* I'm a tall dark brown skinned guy with a dick as black as an African though I don't have any African roots. Since my dick is big and black can I call myself a BBC during posting? or Is it super-important to mention my race during the posting?

* When fully erect, my dick is 8 inches long and 5 inches in girth. Does that meet the physical criteria for me to post as a BBC or a bull?

* Are guys with not so much sexual experience welcome into this lifestyle? Are couple/mature women willing to accept guys like me if I can compensate lack of experience with honesty, confidence and enthusiasm?

* Can young guys learn better by sleeping with experienced women or is it just a myth to sell MILF porn?

* What are the things that I need to know before entering into a physical relationship where basically I'll be having sex with someone's wife?

* Here the community seems to consist of mature and real-life working professionals living out their fantasies. So it's more safer than an average hookup site/app in terms of catfishes/scammers, am I correct to get this feeling? or am I being naive here?

* What are the popular ways that new bulls get scammed? How can new guys get what they want out of this in a safer way?

If you need more data to answer any of my questions please feel free to ask.

Thanks in advance for your time and patience. Sorry, if any of my questions were plain annoying or just stupid.

P.S.: Some of you might wonder why my profile is unverified and basically empty. I promise, am not a troll and am not here to waste your time. I'm serious about this. However, at the moment, I'm trying to understand if this lifestyle is a right fit for me. Once I make up my mind, I'll get verified and also post pictures of my ... ;)
 
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