Newbie BBC here, lot of questions. Any thoughts is much appreciated.

[mrx2378910]

Dear All,

Hope you all are doing well. I have some questions and I would very much appreciate your thoughts.

* I'm a tall dark brown skinned guy with a dick as black as an African though I don't have any African roots. Since my dick is big and black can I call myself a BBC during posting? or Is it super-important to mention my race during the posting?

* When fully erect, my dick is 8 inches long and 5 inches in girth. Does that meet the physical criteria for me to post as a BBC or a bull?

* Are guys with not so much sexual experience welcome into this lifestyle? Are couple/mature women willing to accept guys like me if I can compensate lack of experience with honesty, confidence and enthusiasm?

* Can young guys learn better by sleeping with experienced women or is it just a myth to sell MILF porn?

* What are the things that I need to know before entering into a physical relationship where basically I'll be having sex with someone's wife?

* Here the community seems to consist of mature and real-life working professionals living out their fantasies. So it's more safer than an average hookup site/app in terms of catfishes/scammers, am I correct to get this feeling? or am I being naive here?

* What are the popular ways that new bulls get scammed? How can new guys get what they want out of this in a safer way?

If you need more data to answer any of my questions please feel free to ask.

Thanks in advance for your time and patience. Sorry, if any of my questions were plain annoying or just stupid.

P.S.: Some of you might wonder why my profile is unverified and basically empty. I promise, am not a troll and am not here to waste your time. I'm serious about this. However, at the moment, I'm trying to understand if this lifestyle is a right fit for me. Once I make up my mind, I'll get verified and also post pictures of my ...

 

[mrx2378910]

By any chance....

Do you work for Sydney University?

no, I don't.
I'm asking all this for myself to understand and decide if I want to get into this.

 

[mrx2378910]

By any chance....

Do you work for Sydney University?

Let me know, if you have any thoughts you would like to share. I would be happy to hear from people with some experience.

 

[MagicMikeATX]

By any chance....

Do you work for Sydney University?

 

[frankjudge]

BBC is purely descriptive. If your cock is big and black then you have a BBC.

 

[Somerset]

BBC is purely descriptive. If your cock is big and black then you have a BBC.

Let me rewrite.

BBC is purely imaginary. If you are black with a cock, then you have the ability to call yourself a BBC

 

[frankjudge]

Let me rewrite.

BBC is purely imaginary. If you are black with a cock, then you have the ability to call yourself a BBC

Thank goodness for imagination

 

[Thegoodtj]

Dear All,

Hope you all are doing well. I have some questions and I would very much appreciate your thoughts.

* I'm a tall dark brown skinned guy with a dick as black as an African though I don't have any African roots. Since my dick is big and black can I call myself a BBC during posting? or Is it super-important to mention my race during the posting?

* When fully erect, my dick is 8 inches long and 5 inches in girth. Does that meet the physical criteria for me to post as a BBC or a bull?

* Are guys with not so much sexual experience welcome into this lifestyle? Are couple/mature women willing to accept guys like me if I can compensate lack of experience with honesty, confidence and enthusiasm?

* Can young guys learn better by sleeping with experienced women or is it just a myth to sell MILF porn?

* What are the things that I need to know before entering into a physical relationship where basically I'll be having sex with someone's wife?

* Here the community seems to consist of mature and real-life working professionals living out their fantasies. So it's more safer than an average hookup site/app in terms of catfishes/scammers, am I correct to get this feeling? or am I being naive here?

* What are the popular ways that new bulls get scammed? How can new guys get what they want out of this in a safer way?

If you need more data to answer any of my questions please feel free to ask.

Thanks in advance for your time and patience. Sorry, if any of my questions were plain annoying or just stupid.

P.S.: Some of you might wonder why my profile is unverified and basically empty. I promise, am not a troll and am not here to waste your time. I'm serious about this. However, at the moment, I'm trying to understand if this lifestyle is a right fit for me. Once I make up my mind, I'll get verified and also post pictures of my ...

I believe that being honest with your questions is extremely important. The questions are written in the form of someone working on a thesis or as someone already asked "Sydney University". You will find that there are some here will entertain your questions as long as they are sincere. But as you asked in your 7th question, no one wants to waste their time on someone doing research or in your words "A Scammer". I will indulge you as I have a little bit of time to waste.

If you are calling yourself a BBC then you don't need to also reiterate the fact that you are black or of African descent. If you are meeting with other couples the size should atleast be larger than the females current partner or husband.
If you are dealing with experienced couples and mature woman she will let you know what you are doing wrong or right. Or pay attention to how her body responds to what you are doing.
You can perfect your sexual skills and techniques by reading books on female pleasure. There are tutorial books and videos or sex. Entering into a physical relationship in a Shared Wife situation would require communication and understanding boundaries (theirs and yours).
The safety net regarding this community or the next is being able to be verified, validated or confirmed as a real person. That is critical. Or at best maybe even being a paid member.
New Bulls and Couples get scammed by fake profiles or profiles created that aren't in line with the intended purpose of the site . Ex: This is a forum site and yes you can meet and hook up, but the conversations, stories and information is more important than just simply meeting to hook up.

TJ

 

[mrx2378910]

English is not my first language. Because I am bit insecure about my English, I put effort to have perfect grammar and well-formulate my questions.
Just because my language sounds formal and questions seem well articulated, doesn't mean am here to study people like lab rats.

I didn't even understand the context of "Sydney University" when someone asked me if I am from there. Last night I understood the context when I discovered the explanation on somebody's profile on AFF. If someone wants to cross check my claim, I welcome you to DM me to get my AFF profile name and also the AFF profile name where I discovered the context last night.

I'm just a young guy from a very conservative country who had to work hard to move abroad to enjoy simple freedoms which includes exploring my sexuality without judgement.

On AFF, I had to deal with too many fake profiles of my age group trying to catfish me. So I was sick and tired of AFF and I thought a community with married couples would be more safe as most of them are likely to be mature and real-life working professionals living out their fantasies.

Also, I was wondering if engaging with an experienced woman will help me to learn faster and catch up with other guys of my age in the dating pool. But, I wasn't sure if an experienced woman would give me a chance or entertain my interest.

Also, because I am very new to all this, I don't know if BBC is right term to use as non-African when I approach a couple coz is it the size and color of the dick or is it the race that they are looking for to fulfill their fantasies.

There you go, I believe I've given ample explanation about my situation, motivations and the thought process behind my questions.

I hope some of you can understand my situation, recognize my sincerity and help me out by sharing your thoughts.
If someone still thinks that am a poser, here to study him/her as a lab rat, you know what, such people can genuinely go fuck themselves!

 

[mrx2378910]

I believe that being honest with your questions is extremely important. The questions are written in the form of someone working on a thesis or as someone already asked "Sydney University". You will find that there are some here will entertain your questions as long as they are sincere. But as you asked in your 7th question, no one wants to waste their time on someone doing research or in your words "A Scammer". I will indulge you as I have a little bit of time to waste.

If you are calling yourself a BBC then you don't need to also reiterate the fact that you are black or of African descent. If you are meeting with other couples the size should atleast be larger than the females current partner or husband.
If you are dealing with experienced couples and mature woman she will let you know what you are doing wrong or right. Or pay attention to how her body responds to what you are doing.
You can perfect your sexual skills and techniques by reading books on female pleasure. There are tutorial books and videos or sex. Entering into a physical relationship in a Shared Wife situation would require communication and understanding boundaries (theirs and yours).
The safety net regarding this community or the next is being able to be verified, validated or confirmed as a real person. That is critical. Or at best maybe even being a paid member.
New Bulls and Couples get scammed by fake profiles or profiles created that aren't in line with the intended purpose of the site . Ex: This is a forum site and yes you can meet and hook up, but the conversations, stories and information is more important than just simply meeting to hook up.

TJ

Thank you very much for sharing your thoughts and experience.
I hope my previous comment clears the trust issue.

 

[Jdingo619]

Let me rewrite.

BBC is purely imaginary. If you are black with a cock, then you have the ability to call yourself a BBC

I disagree! A big black cock is exactly that, a big black cock meaning its big! The basic criteria for having a bbc as apposed to just having black cock is that it must be larger than the average size cocks on the market. Most cocks are average across the board no matter what color or creed.

The average penis size in America is like 5.57" or roughly 6" erect. From what I have been seeing and hearing 8" inch cocks are said to be perfect and the most desired by women across the board. Those 9s" and 10s" are for the size queens who love challenges and pushing it beyond their comfort level.

So 8" definitely puts you in the bbc category but with any size you gotta know what your doing. Even being small will experience and skill goes a long way!

 

[mrx2378910]

I disagree! A big black cock is exactly that, a big black cock meaning its big! The basic criteria for having a bbc as apposed to just having black cock is that it must be larger than the average size cocks on the market. Most cocks are average across the board no matter what color or creed.

The average penis size in America is like 5.57" or roughly 6" erect. From what I have been seeing and hearing 8" inch cocks are said to be perfect and the most desired by women across the board. Those 9s" and 10s" are for the size queens who love challenges and pushing it beyond their comfort level.

So 8" definitely puts you in the bbc category but with any size you gotta know what your doing. Even being small will experience and skill goes a long way!

Thank you very much for the reply.
Looking at the sizes in porn, I was thinking I just missed the BBC tag by an inch. Glad to know I qualify. Agree, it's not just the size, it's also what you are doing with it.

 

[Jdingo619]

Thank you very much for the reply.
Looking at the sizes in porn, I was thinking I just missed the BBC tag by an inch. Glad to know I qualify. Agree, it's not just the size, it's also what you are doing with it.

Also it's not just enough to have a big dick it has to get hard and stay hard! How many times have you watched a porn flick where a guy has a big dick and its semi soft the whole time bending and he has to hold on to it most of the time. Or how often do you see a woman totally willing to let guys dp her (and this is one of my biggest pet peeves bbc amateur porn) and the guys are so phobic that they can't stay hard enough to sandwich the ******* out of her with their BBC's but the white amateurs that are half their size can stay hard just fine to do a dp! So yeah being big enough, staying hard, and knowing what to do with it are all factors in satisfying these hotwives and keeping them calling you back! ✌

 

[RedheadedWife]

1. Always smile in your pictures, mature experienced women don’t like the “ bad ass” look. Don’t look like a gang banger, dress nice in your pics.
2. Always be polite. Be a gentleman.
3. Always show up to your meetings ON TIME.
4.fuck the wife hard and deep, leave the romance to the husband. Pound the hell out of her... her husband doesn’t.
5. Be willing to have the husband take pictures.
6. talk dirty , tell her exactly what you want
7. Respect their relationship
8 Allow the husband to clean up. Most husbands want that, even to you.
9. Know her boundaries
10 promptly answer all phon, texts, and emails.

 

[Noreen]

Dear All,

Hope you all are doing well. I have some questions and I would very much appreciate your thoughts.

* I'm a tall dark brown skinned guy with a dick as black as an African though I don't have any African roots. Since my dick is big and black can I call myself a BBC during posting? or Is it super-important to mention my race during the posting?

* When fully erect, my dick is 8 inches long and 5 inches in girth. Does that meet the physical criteria for me to post as a BBC or a bull?

* Are guys with not so much sexual experience welcome into this lifestyle? Are couple/mature women willing to accept guys like me if I can compensate lack of experience with honesty, confidence and enthusiasm?

* Can young guys learn better by sleeping with experienced women or is it just a myth to sell MILF porn?

* What are the things that I need to know before entering into a physical relationship where basically I'll be having sex with someone's wife?

* Here the community seems to consist of mature and real-life working professionals living out their fantasies. So it's more safer than an average hookup site/app in terms of catfishes/scammers, am I correct to get this feeling? or am I being naive here?

* What are the popular ways that new bulls get scammed? How can new guys get what they want out of this in a safer way?

If you need more data to answer any of my questions please feel free to ask.

Thanks in advance for your time and patience. Sorry, if any of my questions were plain annoying or just stupid.

P.S.: Some of you might wonder why my profile is unverified and basically empty. I promise, am not a troll and am not here to waste your time. I'm serious about this. However, at the moment, I'm trying to understand if this lifestyle is a right fit for me. Once I make up my mind, I'll get verified and also post pictures of my ...

its more about the taboo of going with a black guy than it is about what colour his dick is. or even what colour his skin is. i know women (asian) with fetish for black men but none of them consider somali. or men with heavy african accent. the idea they have in their head is the kind of black guy they saw growing up but never spoke to because daddy would tell them off. or they'd get a bad rep in the community. that's what they mean by black guy. it's not even skin colour. it's that person that was forbidden or taboo.

i've been asked this question so many times by indian guys who think their brown cock is dark enough to be considered a BBC. back when i was crazy enough to have a blog and twitter. all asian ladies in the lifestyle have to deal with this constant harrassment. i dont know if this is a man thing or what but guys just need to stop thinking about your penises. or maybe stop thinking there's some rules that if you follow you get a pussy at the end. women arent like that. we break our own rules all the time.

best thing any guy can do is be genuine. its ok to have a bit of swagger but just be real. even then we might not have sex. that's ok with me so you need to make that ok for you.

 

[mrx2378910]

1. Always smile in your pictures, mature experienced women don’t like the “ bad ass” look. Don’t look like a gang banger, dress nice in your pics.
2. Always be polite. Be a gentleman.
3. Always show up to your meetings ON TIME.
4.fuck the wife hard and deep, leave the romance to the husband. Pound the hell out of her... her husband doesn’t.
5. Be willing to have the husband take pictures.
6. talk dirty , tell her exactly what you want
7. Respect their relationship
8 Allow the husband to clean up. Most husbands want that, even to you.
9. Know her boundaries
10 promptly answer all phon, texts, and emails.

cool, thank you very much for breaking it down that way. appreciate it.

 

[mrx2378910]

its more about the taboo of going with a black guy than it is about what colour his dick is. or even what colour his skin is. i know women (asian) with fetish for black men but none of them consider somali. or men with heavy african accent. the idea they have in their head is the kind of black guy they saw growing up but never spoke to because daddy would tell them off. or they'd get a bad rep in the community. that's what they mean by black guy. it's not even skin colour. it's that person that was forbidden or taboo.

i've been asked this question so many times by indian guys who think their brown cock is dark enough to be considered a BBC. back when i was crazy enough to have a blog and twitter. all asian ladies in the lifestyle have to deal with this constant harrassment. i dont know if this is a man thing or what but guys just need to stop thinking about your penises. or maybe stop thinking there's some rules that if you follow you get a pussy at the end. women arent like that. we break our own rules all the time.

best thing any guy can do is be genuine. its ok to have a bit of swagger but just be real. even then we might not have sex. that's ok with me so you need to make that ok for you.

Thanks a lot, the taboo factor and being genuine makes sense.

 

[mrx2378910]

We had loved you back in your twitter , Tumblr blog days and we like you now too..wish you were more active here

is there an archive of the blog?

 

[Aisha]

its more about the taboo of going with a black guy than it is about what colour his dick is. or even what colour his skin is. i know women (asian) with fetish for black men but none of them consider somali. or men with heavy african accent. the idea they have in their head is the kind of black guy they saw growing up but never spoke to because daddy would tell them off. or they'd get a bad rep in the community. that's what they mean by black guy. it's not even skin colour. it's that person that was forbidden or taboo.

i've been asked this question so many times by indian guys who think their brown cock is dark enough to be considered a BBC. back when i was crazy enough to have a blog and twitter. all asian ladies in the lifestyle have to deal with this constant harrassment. i dont know if this is a man thing or what but guys just need to stop thinking about your penises. or maybe stop thinking there's some rules that if you follow you get a pussy at the end. women arent like that. we break our own rules all the time.

best thing any guy can do is be genuine. its ok to have a bit of swagger but just be real. even then we might not have sex. that's ok with me so you need to make that ok for you.

So true! For me it’s more the taboo aspect it’s not the same though the dark colour is a turn on for me as well.

 

[avaadore]

I'm a little surprised nobody has said this yet but a big black dick is a big dick attached to a black man.. A big dark coloured dick attached to an Indian or Middle Eastern man is not a big black dick.

The distinction for me is important because physically I'm not really attracted to the above mentioned examples. I like black men for many physical reasons and dick size doesn't even make the list. I'm here because I date and love black men, not disembodied large dark shafts lol

That's just my personal opinion as a non size queen, for some the size is the most important factor but this is black to white, not the multi-racial big dick emporium.