New to this and unsure where to begin

Hello everyone out there, I am completely new to this. My wife is a gorgeous BBW and I have fantasized for years about her becoming a hot wife but I am unsure how to broach the subject with her. She has always been rather reserved with sex but when she is tipsy, I have brought it up and she seeMs somewhat interested. I know this is probably something that is posted a lot on here but any tips or clues on how to introduce this topic to my wife in a way that she may be open to considering it?
 
That is a very good point. I’m ready to openly talk about it. I’m more wondering how do I broach it with her so as not to scare her. I was just looking for advice on that topic itself.
 
Hello everyone out there, I am completely new to this. My wife is a gorgeous BBW and I have fantasized for years about her becoming a hot wife but I am unsure how to broach the subject with her. She has always been rather reserved with sex but when she is tipsy, I have brought it up and she seeMs somewhat interested. I know this is probably something that is posted a lot on here but any tips or clues on how to introduce this topic to my wife in a way that she may be open to considering it?
My wife and I roll played about sexual encounters with guys that turned her on. Over time and like you said being “tipsy” always changes things. Over time, she acted out some of those role plays with great success.
Just be open, talk about it, I think what I have come to terms with is that I never ask anything unless she wants to share.
At the end of the day, we have been together for over 20 years, she comes home from date nights, etc and I know we have a solid relationship. I hope you have success in introducing yours to the lifestyle.
 
Hello everyone out there, I am completely new to this. My wife is a gorgeous BBW and I have fantasized for years about her becoming a hot wife but I am unsure how to broach the subject with her. She has always been rather reserved with sex but when she is tipsy, I have brought it up and she seeMs somewhat interested. I know this is probably something that is posted a lot on here but any tips or clues on how to introduce this topic to my wife in a way that she may be open to considering it?

Do you two enjoy porn together? Try some interracial porn, gauge her reaction. If that goes well, at some point, try a black dildo. Go slow, make sure she is ready for each step. Don't ******* it.
 
I have bought her a black dildo which she loves when she is *******. She is still too reserved while sober but really does enjoy it when she is tipsy. We do watch porn occasionally but nothing IR yet.
 
I'm in a very similar situation. My wife is extremely conservative. I bought a Mr. Marcus Realistic Dildo years ago. We only use it when she is pretty *******...like your wife, my wife really enjoys it then. If not *******, we don't even use it. I don't have the guts to discuss my fantasy with her, even after reading a lot of the great recommendations on this site. She does not enjoy porn. Something that I do think is a good thing is that over the past year, we had gone to a nude beach in Florida (Haulover Beach)...I actually posted a recent experience that we had there on another thread. At Haulover, we saw some nice Big Black Cocks. Our first visit, my wife did not get nude. Our second visit (this past May) she got completely nude and actually shook hands with a Black Man that had an enormous cock (again, details in the other thread). She talked about us going back in October (We live in the North)! We aren't into role playing (I say this but we have never tried). I look forward to hearing progress on your end and you sharing any helpful hints to help us along.
 
I'm in a very similar situation. My wife is extremely conservative. I bought a Mr. Marcus Realistic Dildo years ago. We only use it when she is pretty *******...like your wife, my wife really enjoys it then. If not *******, we don't even use it. I don't have the guts to discuss my fantasy with her, even after reading a lot of the great recommendations on this site. She does not enjoy porn. Something that I do think is a good thing is that over the past year, we had gone to a nude beach in Florida (Haulover Beach)...I actually posted a recent experience that we had there on another thread. At Haulover, we saw some nice Big Black Cocks. Our first visit, my wife did not get nude. Our second visit (this past May) she got completely nude and actually shook hands with a Black Man that had an enormous cock (again, details in the other thread). She talked about us going back in October (We live in the North)! We aren't into role playing (I say this but we have never tried). I look forward to hearing progress on your end and you sharing any helpful hints to help us along.

This sounds exactly like my wife except the nude beach thing. She would never go for that but I May push for her to go to a swing club near us. She used to like to fuck in public so I think that may be my in to the lifestyle.
 
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