well nothing happens overnite. I started my fantasy the year before we got married and 20 years later as we became empty nesters we finally gave it a try. Damm I wish we had not wasted 20 years for all this fun.
My dream is dead.
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Why not start slow.
Don’t bring up BBC again. Approach from a different angle. She probably has seen guys of other races that she is attracted to. Start with that. Watch some R-rated movies with guys she is attracted. As her about guys she thinks are hot, etc.
Build-up. You can’t go full BBC right off.
Don’t bring up BBC again. Approach from a different angle. She probably has seen guys of other races that she is attracted to. Start with that. Watch some R-rated movies with guys she is attracted. As her about guys she thinks are hot, etc.
Build-up. You can’t go full BBC right off.
Newcuckcpl1215
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I completely respect your understanding of your wife's concerns. Divorce is an actual outcome of the lifestyle, no reason to enter it with doubt. My wife said no initially but wanted to continue fantasizing. Now she's ready but I am actually so glad she didn't say yes right away. Your wife is putting you above all else, congrats my friend. You've found a great wife.
Ah don’t worry eventually she will get tired of fucking you
ok guys let a me tell you the Women perspective of this matter......
As me myself i been around every nationality you can think off and let me tell you something lol all the BIG COCK myths are not true... but the emotional way of thinking my man lets another guy put his cock in me is weird at first so maybe she needs some time or will never bi ok with it so good luck with that. But when u think about it little deeper then u understand it that ur husband wants you to be satisfied so done deal lol
As me myself i been around every nationality you can think off and let me tell you something lol all the BIG COCK myths are not true... but the emotional way of thinking my man lets another guy put his cock in me is weird at first so maybe she needs some time or will never bi ok with it so good luck with that. But when u think about it little deeper then u understand it that ur husband wants you to be satisfied so done deal lol
Sign of the times. Too many people have to let it all hang out (pun not intended) by detailing everything online. It wasn't necessary to display it here for validation. Your options are to let it go forever or attempt to bring it up again at an appropriate time. The latter option doesn't seem too promising. So, you'll have to decide the order of priorities.
Thanks for your honest post. It’s an eye opener that this lifestyle is not suited to everyone. I’ve had some of my small requests shot down rather violently in the past (not my IR cuckolding fantasy) and know exactly how you feel.
Let her decant a little and you never know what might happen in a few years. She’ll bring it up if she changes her mind
Let her decant a little and you never know what might happen in a few years. She’ll bring it up if she changes her mind
What do you mean?
Personally I'd say you planted the seed. It's now always open to her. That's honestly a bit how I took it as well. It took me a couple years to accept the offer but it always sat in the back of my mind. Hmm I could have sex with this or that guy if I really wanted to. I could essentially cheat without judgement. Eventually I acted on it and have never looked back. Was the best thing for my marriage honestly. I'm not saying the same will happen for you but what you did was right. You told her what you'd like and now she knows. It's a freedom of choice you've given her and she always has the idea and action available.
Parejafisgona
Couple
Hola.yo estoy prácticamente en el mis
Hola.yo estoy prácticamente en el mismo caso.ella no quiere pero cuando la caliento en la cama yo sé que sería capaz de gozarse un par de tíos.yo no pierdo la esperanza y lo que hago es intentar que todos los días valla caliente y si se da el caso provocó situaciones morbosas y eróticas en las que pueda acostarse con otros hombres.ella los rechaza pero estoy convencido de que algún día se darán todas las condiciones y será el principio de una vida muchísimo más escitante
My wife hasn't gone as far as to throw away any toys, but I'm certainly starting to believe that this fantasy may never come true.
I'll continue to ask for and follow all of the good advice I've received on this site, but I understand that it may never happen.
I'll continue to ask for and follow all of the good advice I've received on this site, but I understand that it may never happen.
This last sentence of yours shows you value the "can't put a price on her love" relationship you have with her. As you say, keep it a fantasy and rejoice in the love you have with her. Rejoice also in your own wisdom.
Just respect her choice. She might bring it up at some point but ignore that and keep it just a fantasy.
In the end, you will be better off. Fantasy's are a passing desire. A good loving wife is for ever.
How did it play out once you did? Did you cheat and then tell your husband or simply said, "Hey...I think I want to fuck a black man? What was his response afterwards?"
In my honest opinion, I don't think this is the last time the topic will be brought up. Yes it literally may be years but between her white friends, coworkers, and associates, they'll bring the topic up and your request will still be there in her mind.
At some point in time a friend of hers will say "Man, I wonder if it's true about black men....I want to try to have sex with a black man....I just had sex with a black man." Your wife may be open enough to respond back and say " Yeah my husband wanted me to fuck one a while back..." and they'd prob encourage her.
Just my thoughts.
That is putting it in a nutshell. Very well said!
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