My dream is dead.

Tcbicuckold

Tcbicuckold

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Gonna lay it out for everyone so I can be up front and honest. I am married and was hoping to get my wife involved into the lifestyle. One night I was ******* and spilled the beans to my wife about my fantasy. She is my best friend and we have know each other forever, and been married for 4 years. She didn't reject the idea right away, and actually let me introduce some things into the bedroom. I bought several black dildos of varying sizes, and worked them into out sex life. I then tried to introduce Interracial porn into the bedroom, and she shot that down 100%. So I stuck to the dildos and dirty talk. We played around like that on and off for about a year, when I finally tried to take it to the next step. I showed her a guy from online that was visiting our town and asked her if she would be willing to meet him. She flipped out and put the whole thing to a stop. She said that she thought it was just a fantasy of mine and she went along with it because she loved me and never thought I would try and make it a reality. She threw away the dildos, and said that she never wants me to bring it up ever again. She then went on to tell me about a friend of hers who divorced her husband for trying to make her do sexual things that she was uncomfortable with.

Since that day I haven't brought it up once, and I don't plan to. It's my fantasy, not hers, and she will never participate.
 
Tcbicuckold said:
Gonna lay it out for everyone so I can be up front and honest. I am married and was hoping to get my wife involved into the lifestyle. One night I was ******* and spilled the beans to my wife about my fantasy. She is my best friend and we have know each other forever, and been married for 4 years. She didn't reject the idea right away, and actually let me introduce some things into the bedroom. I bought several black dildos of varying sizes, and worked them into out sex life. I then tried to introduce Interracial porn into the bedroom, and she shot that down 100%. So I stuck to the dildos and dirty talk. We played around like that on and off for about a year, when I finally tried to take it to the next step. I showed her a guy from online that was visiting our town and asked her if she would be willing to meet him. She flipped out and put the whole thing to a stop. She said that she thought it was just a fantasy of mine and she went along with it because she loved me and never thought I would try and make it a reality. She threw away the dildos, and said that she never wants me to bring it up ever again. She then went on to tell me about a friend of hers who divorced her husband for trying to make her do sexual things that she was uncomfortable with.

Since that day I haven't brought it up once, and I don't plan to. It's my fantasy, not hers, and she will never participate.
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Sexual compatibility is a significant part of a relationship
 
That sucks man, but if you truly love her, you have to let it go. Imagine if her Fantasy was to see you with another guy....if you told her you weren’t interested and she just kept trying even to the point of offering to set you up with a guy online to have sex with. You would of course be very upset, then imagine that after you told her how much the fact that she wanted to set you up in real life with another guy bothered you...she still kept bringing it up. How would you feel? You’d probably start considering a divorce. She doesn’t want to fuck another guy.
 
KeikoandSarge said:
That sucks man, but if you truly love her, you have to let it go. Imagine if her Fantasy was to see you with another guy....if you told her you weren’t interested and she just kept trying even to the point of offering to set you up with a guy online to have sex with. You would of course be very upset, then imagine that after you told her how much the fact that she wanted to set you up in real life with another guy bothered you...she still kept bringing it up. How would you feel? You’d probably start considering a divorce. She doesn’t want to fuck another guy.
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I couldn't agree more. That's why I stopped
 
Tcbicuckold said:
Gonna lay it out for everyone so I can be up front and honest. I am married and was hoping to get my wife involved into the lifestyle. One night I was ******* and spilled the beans to my wife about my fantasy. She is my best friend and we have know each other forever, and been married for 4 years. She didn't reject the idea right away, and actually let me introduce some things into the bedroom. I bought several black dildos of varying sizes, and worked them into out sex life. I then tried to introduce Interracial porn into the bedroom, and she shot that down 100%. So I stuck to the dildos and dirty talk. We played around like that on and off for about a year, when I finally tried to take it to the next step. I showed her a guy from online that was visiting our town and asked her if she would be willing to meet him. She flipped out and put the whole thing to a stop. She said that she thought it was just a fantasy of mine and she went along with it because she loved me and never thought I would try and make it a reality. She threw away the dildos, and said that she never wants me to bring it up ever again. She then went on to tell me about a friend of hers who divorced her husband for trying to make her do sexual things that she was uncomfortable with.

Since that day I haven't brought it up once, and I don't plan to. It's my fantasy, not hers, and she will never participate.
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Dude I respect you for your honesty and you respect your wives wishes. It honestly sounds like this does not appeal to her at all, especially after she mentioned her friends divorcing. There are many people who have fantasies that never become reality..
 
Tcbicuckold said:
Gonna lay it out for everyone so I can be up front and honest. I am married and was hoping to get my wife involved into the lifestyle. One night I was ******* and spilled the beans to my wife about my fantasy. She is my best friend and we have know each other forever, and been married for 4 years. She didn't reject the idea right away, and actually let me introduce some things into the bedroom. I bought several black dildos of varying sizes, and worked them into out sex life. I then tried to introduce Interracial porn into the bedroom, and she shot that down 100%. So I stuck to the dildos and dirty talk. We played around like that on and off for about a year, when I finally tried to take it to the next step. I showed her a guy from online that was visiting our town and asked her if she would be willing to meet him. She flipped out and put the whole thing to a stop. She said that she thought it was just a fantasy of mine and she went along with it because she loved me and never thought I would try and make it a reality. She threw away the dildos, and said that she never wants me to bring it up ever again. She then went on to tell me about a friend of hers who divorced her husband for trying to make her do sexual things that she was uncomfortable with.

Since that day I haven't brought it up once, and I don't plan to. It's my fantasy, not hers, and she will never participate.
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Hmm ?, your wife is a noble of character. She is a good woman and a keeper.
 
Thank you all for your input. I agree with all of you. I am going to let it be, but at least she knows my dream now and one day she may change her mind. I wanted to be clear to all of the men and women on here, I see lots if complaints about all the fake profiles and single white guys who claim to be couple interested. I love this website and don't want to be nuisance to anyone.
 
It sounds like the end of your fantasy for now. I have had the cuckold fantasy for twenty years but never told my wife. Then I started having ED issues. I was soon unable to pleasure my wife with sex which was frustrating for us both. So I decided to bring up the idea of her having a boyfriend to satisfy her sexual needs. She was reluctant at first but eventually gave it a try. That was two years ago. She now has three boyfriends and gets all the sex she and I crave. So good luck!
 
Tcbicuckold said:
Thank you all for your input. I agree with all of you. I am going to let it be, but at least she knows my dream now and one day she may change her mind. I wanted to be clear to all of the men and women on here, I see lots if complaints about all the fake profiles and single white guys who claim to be couple interested. I love this website and don't want to be nuisance to anyone.
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I'd rather white guys like you than the fakes and the frauds we have on here. Thank you for your genuine honest post.
 
KeikoandSarge said:
That sucks man, but if you truly love her, you have to let it go. Imagine if her Fantasy was to see you with another guy....if you told her you weren’t interested and she just kept trying even to the point of offering to set you up with a guy online to have sex with. You would of course be very upset, then imagine that after you told her how much the fact that she wanted to set you up in real life with another guy bothered you...she still kept bringing it up. How would you feel?
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Well described. It usually helps a lot to understand someone if you swap the roles and see things from the perspective of the other person.

But why is divorce brought up so often as an almost knee-jerk reaction? Nobody is perfect and when you really love someone it is the imperfect (but real) person and not the perfect (but unreal) person. This is meant for both sides, of course.

If a marriage is not a horrible mess, then - in my opinion - a divorce should be the last consideration and not the first line of thought.

For me the most disturbing part is this one:
She then went on to tell me about a friend of hers who divorced her husband for trying to make her do sexual things that she was uncomfortable with
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It a woman mentions that a fried of her is divorcing to whatever reason, this could mean that she also has developed similar thoughts over time. A fetish or lifestyle that most people are refusing could also serve as a justification for a decision that is already made.

I would avoid this cuckold/hotwife topic because of several reasons and focus to reanimate the marriage.
 
Tcbicuckold said:
Gonna lay it out for everyone so I can be up front and honest. I am married and was hoping to get my wife involved into the lifestyle. One night I was ******* and spilled the beans to my wife about my fantasy. She is my best friend and we have know each other forever, and been married for 4 years. She didn't reject the idea right away, and actually let me introduce some things into the bedroom. I bought several black dildos of varying sizes, and worked them into out sex life. I then tried to introduce Interracial porn into the bedroom, and she shot that down 100%. So I stuck to the dildos and dirty talk. We played around like that on and off for about a year, when I finally tried to take it to the next step. I showed her a guy from online that was visiting our town and asked her if she would be willing to meet him. She flipped out and put the whole thing to a stop. She said that she thought it was just a fantasy of mine and she went along with it because she loved me and never thought I would try and make it a reality. She threw away the dildos, and said that she never wants me to bring it up ever again. She then went on to tell me about a friend of hers who divorced her husband for trying to make her do sexual things that she was uncomfortable with.

Since that day I haven't brought it up once, and I don't plan to. It's my fantasy, not hers, and she will never participate.
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Similar to you When I became impotent 15 years ago I thought great we had role played with vibrators etc about other guysfucking her etc. A
 
pressed wrong button Here is rest of events always role played etc. always wanted to be a cuck going back as far as the 70's. now when Doc said I was impotent thought great I can see her fuck somebody else now and I actually told her that when I walked in the door from Docs. I said you can have a boy friend now because my dick is never going to work again. From my point of view I wanted her to have a guy with my blessing my way in my eye's of my love for her. FUCK her reaction was I was a FUCKING PERVERT and I did not love her anymore. SO OUR LOVE IS STRONGER but we have not touched each other in any way sexually since . Like yours binned toys etc. 15 years now both still in love with each other and just strolling on
 
KeikoandSarge said:
That sucks man, but if you truly love her, you have to let it go. Imagine if her Fantasy was to see you with another guy....if you told her you weren’t interested and she just kept trying even to the point of offering to set you up with a guy online to have sex with. You would of course be very upset, then imagine that after you told her how much the fact that she wanted to set you up in real life with another guy bothered you...she still kept bringing it up. How would you feel? You’d probably start considering a divorce. She doesn’t want to fuck another guy.
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lil, what a great analogy. How would men feel if their wives were like it would be sexy to see you fucked by a big dick. I love to watch that kind of porn and I think it would bring you so much pleasure - let me get a dildo to try it out. Most men would be like “HELL No”

That’s how most women react initially to our requests
 
texcuck said:
If you really wants it then you have to find a side woman
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Yeah, if he is okay with ruining his marriage. She already got pretty fired up about him wanting to take it to real life. If she found out he had someone on the side to do it with? Marriage is likely done. His current status is probably the best for now...
 
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