My Cuck Future?

[omlpp0]

Hello,

tomorrow is the big day and my girlfriend will hopyfully finally have sex with a real man - a black man
Now I guess things are going to change in the relationship between me and her.

Do you guys have any advices for me how to behave or what to do in future to make sure she loves that lifestyle?
And well, i watch a lot of porn everyday but i'm not sure what is true and what is not in these captions - how do you think will my sex life change? Because i always liked to have sex with my girlfriend.

Thank you for any input!

 

[mywayintermsofsex]

What kind of setup have you discussed and agreed to? And what are your ground rules?

 

[omlpp0]

When i brought up the topic (her now and then having sex with different black men and she keeping me in a chastity device for that time), she made me promise that we do it either 100% or not at all.
So she wanted to have one or more regular bull(s), not just one-night-stands, who will replace me sexually.
And concerning the chastity cage she said if i bought one and dream about being locked, not the caged-time should be occasionally but the openings and that it should be my continuous companion.

I was so flashed that she'll actually try it, that i agreed '^^

But now im not sure what will follow ...

 

[mywayintermsofsex]

If you are not truly into it and still would want to have sex with your girlfriend off and on or you are in doubt this is exactly the right thing for you then you should bring it up and try to find an agreement based on mutual consent! (Agreement and consent are not the same! )

One of the most important questions that ImO needs to be answered ASAP for your own sake would be: What does your girlfriend expect to get out of an arrangement like that, and how does she view you and the relationship the both of you have when in such a scenario/lifestyle?!

 

[omlpp0]

She knows me pretty well^^
I get off on the thought of her taking lead in the relationship and "enforcing" namend things ... but its my fantasy as well.
She would like to become again the "slut" she once was when she was a teenager and before we met and told me that she wants to fulfill my "naughty" fantasies.

Its not i dont agree which her plan ... i like to have sex with her but i alos love her plan.
Don't know what to do now :O

 

[mywayintermsofsex]

Well, it seems like she is actually caring about you and your needs and not only her own. That is a good thing. But also you both have to see that having a fantasy and acting it out for real are sometimes (very) different things, and all the emotional twists that may come up with it need not be the ones you are now expecting to. You should have a "plan B" for such a case/outcome and ImO incorporate rules for adjustment just in case.

Congratulations to both of you for taking the plunge, good luck and have fun! But remember to play it safe, sane and consensual. And always put your partner (your girlfriend and you, respectively) and your own relationship first. jm2ct`s