Moral Question?

[Latina4BBC]

My wife has said many times she likes being a BBC slut and admitted it's now become an addiction. However, every so often maybe once a year she questions the morality of fucking other guys and being married. It happened again yesterday. She said "baby you know how much I like fucking black guys but sometimes I struggle with that a married couple should only be with each other." I've told her my opinion that sex is sex and love is love. You can "fuck" anyone and not be in love but you can't just "love' anyone. The funny thing though she checked her texts this morning to see if one of her regulars was coming over before he went to work. So my question is do any other women feel this way? Any other advice to give her?

 

[Nikki Reed]

I think being discrete comes from not wanting others to judge you

Maybe not judge but definitely aren't prepared for

 

[Nikki Reed]

and could be imagine if our families knew that black men were fucking me and Tom enjoyed watching? heavens.........

Families, coworkers, business associates, community members, friends, etc.
That still isn't guilt

 

[TomandAnn]

I have one cousin that is a real bitch and I would love for her seeing me gangbanged by a dozen black handsome men.......bet she would die or want some too

 

[Hotmomof5]

Maybe not judge but definitely aren't prepared for

I agree, it does shock some people and they aren’t prepared for it

 

[Curiouscpl14]

Everyone feels this way. It’s hard when you were raised one way and you think of the morality part and I guess it really comes down to your relationship with your partner.

 

[IR Dreams]

Maybe she's experiencing some form of anxiety ... existential or moral. Being Latina, she probably has a reasonably strong belief in her Catholic religion, and according to most medical reports, this is a healthy indicator. A couple articles on the topic for you to consider:

http://bigthink.com/ideafeed/moral-anxiety-improves-us-social-anxiety-doesnt
http://www.christianityetc.org/morality.php

Mac has some of the best or THE best information and replies on this site. I have implemented his advice many times. Quite the guru. Thanks so much Mac

 

[MacNfries]

Mac has some of the best or THE best information and replies on this site. I have implemented his advice many times. Quite the guru. Thanks so much Mac

That compliment is muchly appreciated ... your $20 check is in the mail.
Seriously, I just try to give logical & sensible responses, unless, of course it deserves a bit of sarcasm.

 

[Torpedo]

The ideal relationship is whatever the participants agree on. If you are both happy with your lifestyle then by all means enjoy it. Every relationship needs boundaries, if everyone stays within those boundaries it doesn't make any difference what someone else thinks is correct. One caveat if your lifestyle significantly different from the norm of those around you be discrete.