Making progress with wife

[Sheltonsmithson]

So the past few days my wife has been extremely horny. We’ve been having sex 3 times a day. Last night she was a little buzzed and she asked to watch some porn. I asked her do you want to watch the ones where the wife fucks a stranger and she said yes. As we started having sex I was telling her how hot it would be to watch a stranger fuck the ******* out of her. So many men would love to fuck her. I told her that her body is built for a black cock too. They would fuck her so good in every way. I could tell she was getting extremely horny and told me to keep talking about how I would want someone to fuck her so I kept talking about it and she came so hard. So hard that after a few minutes she asked me to fuck her again while she watch some more porn.

Today I asked her did you cum hard because of the thought of a stranger with a big cock fucking the ******* out of you and she replied yes.

So that’s where I’m at. The thing is I don’t want to pressure her and scare her away. Because if I do, all this effort will go out the window. My wife is very stubborn. So I’m going to just slow play this some more. Keep talking about other men fucking her during sex. Do you think I should keep slow playing it or should I talk about having her flirt with guys? Have her look at some black cocks in the media section?

Why wouldn’t you want to fuck the ******* of out my wife. She’s 38 and has had 3 ******* already.

 

[anthonyweiner]

Does she know her pics are online?

 

[Sheltonsmithson]

Yes, but we can’t show her face. That’s the deal

 

[anthonyweiner]

Yes, but we can’t show her face. That’s the deal

I guess what I mean is, does she understand what you want?

 

[Sheltonsmithson]

I told her I would love to see someone othe than me fuck her.

 

[anthonyweiner]

I told her I would love to see someone othe than me fuck her.

I admire your courage. I haven't told my wife about this fetish of mine.
I think the biggest obstacle is her being thought of as a slut. You can tell her all day long how much you want this, but she won't believe you. She will believe it's some kind of test.

 

[Sheltonsmithson]

I had the same concern as you before. It took almost two years to get to this. Two years ago I showed her some bbc porn and she was grossed out. My wife is a very conservative person too. From time to time I would make little comments to her about other men checking her out in public or men starring at her breast. It wasn’t until this year when I started to make more comments. Then I would just tel her I’m watching porn at night when she doesn’t want to have sex. Then I started telling her what kind of porn and I kept telling her I was having dreams of men fucking her ( which I didn’t have a dream about it). And as of late she would ask me do you really want me to have sec with strangers? She would say I bet you would watch and jack off. Tell me. I would just deny it and say it’s a fantasy and nothing more. Just the thought of other men wanting to fuck you is a turn on. I’m also trying to convince her to let me upload some videos online so men can masturbate to her. She didn’t find it gross and made her aroused. What I think is helping is that she’s starting to realize that other men find her attractive. She thinks she’s too thick for men.

 

[Sheltonsmithson]

I admire your courage. I haven't told my wife about this fetish of mine.
I think the biggest obstacle is her being thought of as a slut. You can tell her all day long how much you want this, but she won't believe you. She will believe it's some kind of test.

Oh and I told her this fantasy of mines is very common and showed her some stuff on reddit about it so she doesn’t think I’m some sicko.

 

[Mikeandstacy]

So the past few days my wife has been extremely horny. We’ve been having sex 3 times a day. Last night she was a little buzzed and she asked to watch some porn. I asked her do you want to watch the ones where the wife fucks a stranger and she said yes. As we started having sex I was telling her how hot it would be to watch a stranger fuck the ******* out of her. So many men would love to fuck her. I told her that her body is built for a black cock too. They would fuck her so good in every way. I could tell she was getting extremely horny and told me to keep talking about how I would want someone to fuck her so I kept talking about it and she came so hard. So hard that after a few minutes she asked me to fuck her again while she watch some more porn.

Today I asked her did you cum hard because of the thought of a stranger with a big cock fucking the ******* out of you and she replied yes.

So that’s where I’m at. The thing is I don’t want to pressure her and scare her away. Because if I do, all this effort will go out the window. My wife is very stubborn. So I’m going to just slow play this some more. Keep talking about other men fucking her during sex. Do you think I should keep slow playing it or should I talk about having her flirt with guys? Have her look at some black cocks in the media section?

Why wouldn’t you want to fuck the ******* of out my wife. She’s 38 and has had 3 ******* already.

Time for a black dildo..

 

[Sheltonsmithson]

Time for a black dildo..

Actually, i am getting her one this week. Last night we had sex and she was watching some bbc porn and was getting really wet. While I was fucking her i was again telling her how hot it would be for her to fuck someone. I ask her would she let me watch and she said yes. She asked if i would masturbate and i said i don't know. As i continued fucking her. I asked her what type of dick do you want to fuck. Can you handle a big black cock going in yea and she said yea. You could just feel the inside of her vagina soaking wet as I fucked her. Then i said you'd come so hard with a black cock inside you and then she climaxed and I kid you not she moaned so freaking loud and hard I had to put a pillow over her mouth so the ******* wouldn't wake up and she kept cumming and cumming and pulled me closer and said fuck me harder. It was amazing. My wife cums all the time, but *******. Yesterday was different.


Yea, so I think she's ready for the dildo. We are heading out to Vegas in June for a friends Bday so thats when I will try to get her to try her first BBC.

 

[Roach]

Lo likes light bondage so I played a game where I would tie her up and blindfold her then tell her I could invite other guys in to fuck her, this progressed to saying one night when she was tied up I was going to do it. She always got so horny from the idea and it allowed me to gauge her actual readiness before bringing in other guys. At one point I even left for a bit then used a cock extension without talking. I warmed it and put on a condom to make it feel as real as possible then let her spend a week wondering if it really was another guy. In the end when we brought in other guys it was without the bondage and blindfold so she was in control but the game worked great.

 

[Sheltonsmithson]

Lo likes light bondage so I played a game where I would tie her up and blindfold her then tell her I could invite other guys in to fuck her, this progressed to saying one night when she was tied up I was going to do it. She always got so horny from the idea and it allowed me to gauge her actual readiness before bringing in other guys. At one point I even left for a bit then used a cock extension without talking. I warmed it and put on a condom to make it feel as real as possible then let her spend a week wondering if it really was another guy. In the end when we brought in other guys it was without the bondage and blindfold so she was in control but the game worked great.

That was on my list of suggestions too. I didn't know when to bring it up. I would love to have her blindfolded and bring in someone to fuck her.

 

[taco2310]

Good luck, taged to read your updates. Hope it works out for you both. I'm in somewhat in the same situation, trying to convince my wife to flirt more and that's it's okay to be bad, her response is that she only wants to be bad for me, which is great but working on expanding it without her feeling guilty or being a negative term.

 

[Khrises4u]

So the past few days my wife has been extremely horny. We’ve been having sex 3 times a day. Last night she was a little buzzed and she asked to watch some porn. I asked her do you want to watch the ones where the wife fucks a stranger and she said yes. As we started having sex I was telling her how hot it would be to watch a stranger fuck the ******* out of her. So many men would love to fuck her. I told her that her body is built for a black cock too. They would fuck her so good in every way. I could tell she was getting extremely horny and told me to keep talking about how I would want someone to fuck her so I kept talking about it and she came so hard. So hard that after a few minutes she asked me to fuck her again while she watch some more porn.

Today I asked her did you cum hard because of the thought of a stranger with a big cock fucking the ******* out of you and she replied yes.

So that’s where I’m at. The thing is I don’t want to pressure her and scare her away. Because if I do, all this effort will go out the window. My wife is very stubborn. So I’m going to just slow play this some more. Keep talking about other men fucking her during sex. Do you think I should keep slow playing it or should I talk about having her flirt with guys? Have her look at some black cocks in the media section?

Why wouldn’t you want to fuck the ******* of out my wife. She’s 38 and has had 3 ******* already.

Sexy. If she gets more comfortable, just keep exploring subtle expansion of her comfort level. Get her a massage from a black guy, maybe give her a signal where if she were comfortable that she would give the guy that she wants her tits massaged or something...but don't go further. If she feels in control of the situation and the consequences are favorable (you dote on her, buy her flowers and express your love in ways she understands) she is much more likely to explore.

 

[Jamspliff]

Sexy. If she gets more comfortable, just keep exploring subtle expansion of her comfort level. Get her a massage from a black guy, maybe give her a signal where if she were comfortable that she would give the guy that she wants her tits massaged or something...but don't go further. If she feels in control of the situation and the consequences are favorable (you dote on her, buy her flowers and express your love in ways she understands) she is much more likely to explore.

I keep thinking that a massage from a Black guy might be the secret "Unlock Code", but most of the franchise palces around us only specify the masseuse as being Male or Female, and usually don't have pictures of them in the lobby or web site. You might luck into hearing a name that "sounds" Black, but then again you may not. Dumb question, but how did you find a Black masseuse?

 

[Khrises4u]

I keep thinking that a massage from a Black guy might be the secret "Unlock Code", but most of the franchise palces around us only specify the masseuse as being Male or Female, and usually don't have pictures of them in the lobby or web site. You might luck into hearing a name that "sounds" Black, but then again you may not. Dumb question, but how did you find a Black masseuse?

You could ask. You could also consider posting a request in a personal section - think Craigslist, rip, and require legitimacy on the massage side.

In some ways, it's better if it's a "private" appointment versus a larger corporate environment.

 

[Jamspliff]

You could ask. You could also consider posting a request in a personal section - think Craigslist, rip, and require legitimacy on the massage side.

In some ways, it's better if it's a "private" appointment versus a larger corporate environment.

I'm really trying to ease into it slowly with her. I'd like the plausible deniability of getting her a gift card for a massage (we've done this for each other before), booking it for her, then claiming I didn't know it was a Black man...but seeing how she reacts. We're stuck at the Fantasy stage, and I'm more interested in moving forward than she is (unless she's had a few drinks). Even if the massage doesn't end up moving her towards the next step, I'll know she spent a half hour with a Black man running his strong hands all over her body and giving her pleasure...so it would still count as a HUGE turn on for me.

 

[MDP]

We had been talking about it for awhile, always sending each other fantasy text messages whenever I worked away. After getting a new job abroad in the Netherlands, she jokingly said "How about you set it up!"

So I did, I spoke to some guys, and settled with one guy who is now her regular BBC fuck when she comes to visit. The first encounter was the most nerve wracking moment we had. Was he going to turn up, will one of us pull out. Thankfully he turned up and we didn't.

It did help that she had a blindfold on and was also wearing headphones listening to music at the time, she had no idea that he had turned up at all.

If you visit @cuckholdslut profile, you will find where she posted what had happened and also some videos. I have vids and pics on my profile.

Yesterday, I wrote this - https://cuckholdhubby.blogspot.nl/2018/04/sunday-dinner.html and she enjoyed it, she said her pussy was tingling from reading it. I might not be the best writer out there but it did the trick for her.

 

[Khrises4u]

I'm really trying to ease into it slowly with her. I'd like the plausible deniability of getting her a gift card for a massage (we've done this for each other before), booking it for her, then claiming I didn't know it was a Black man...but seeing how she reacts. We're stuck at the Fantasy stage, and I'm more interested in moving forward than she is (unless she's had a few drinks). Even if the massage doesn't end up moving her towards the next step, I'll know she spent a half hour with a Black man running his strong hands all over her body and giving her pleasure...so it would still count as a HUGE turn on for me.

I would never advocate for coercion or lying to her in any way. A 'surprise' isn't a good thing in these circumstances....being patient, communicating interest and continuing to explore your and her fantasies will make it far better in the long run.

 

[Sheltonsmithson]

I would never advocate for coercion or lying to her in any way. A 'surprise' isn't a good thing in these circumstances....being patient, communicating interest and continuing to explore your and her fantasies will make it far better in the long run.

I agree. The fact that i took my time and slowly introduced my interest to her helped. What also helped is letting her know that other men do find her attractive. I keep saying this is all fantasy and wont happen for real, but deep down inside i feel like its heading down that way anyway.