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Discussion in 'General Discussion' started by phatbootywife, Dec 14, 2014.

  1. phatbootywife

    phatbootywife Member

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    I'm just looking for a well endowed nice black gentleman to approach my wife when I am not around and flirt with her. I would like to see where it goes and how far she would be willing to go when I am not around, I know she likes the BBC but seems shy to tell me. If the guy could sweet talk her enough to get her number cool, if you get her far enough to fuck her fine, I only ask for pics and videos. If you could do then then accidently dial my number while I listen even better, but I am sure we can discuss this...we are in Southeast houston
     
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  2. tonyhary

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    Damn I wish I could help u she has a beautiful ass
     
  3. MacNfries

    MacNfries Well-Known Member Sweet & Cordial Gold Member

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    phatboot, how do you know she likes BBC? What has she said or done to make you believe that? Since the 2 of you have been married, has she ever had sex with another man? If so, can you share how it happened and how the 2 of you reacted? If not, how do you really know how you will react or treat her after she's done it, particularly if she's gone behind your back and done it, thinking you don't know? I read your other postings; no indication of all this mentioned. Trust is a major issue in the foundation of any marriage, and what you're eluding to is a breach of that trust.
    Care to expand on all this? Thanks! Mac
     
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  4. tonyhary

    tonyhary Member Real Person

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    Pretty deep but very true...Phatbooty???
     
  5. phatbootywife

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    Yes we have discussed this many times and we almost went through with this recently. She found a guy at work and was texting him and sending pics to him while I didn't know cause she was trying to set it up for me but I called it off when I found out it was someone she worked with I don't want that for her. Besides that yes we talk about it all the time and she loves her BBC dildo and told me interracial porn is hot. However she seems shy about it when I ask her to go through with it all and I know how she is, if someone approaches her about it she would start talking and flirting back. If she is interested she would get or give a phone number and things would potentially start happening. So to answer your question yes I do believe she would go through it if someone else approached her and not me telling her lets find someone
     
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  6. tonyhary

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  7. MacNfries

    MacNfries Well-Known Member Sweet & Cordial Gold Member

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    phatbooty ... ok, if you're cool with your wife screwing other guys behind your back, why should anyone here be concerned with it, right? I guess my only question, then, is What do YOU get out of all this? If you don't know she's hopping in the bed with other guys, what benefit(s) do you get? I'm just trying to understand your logic is all! ...... gif_Yellowball-yawning.gif

    Personally, I can't see this being healthy for a marriage if one spouse sleeps around unbeknowist by the other spouse, because eventually a host of bad things eventually happen. You say in your original post ...

    quote: "I would like to see where it goes and how far she would be willing to go ..."

    Well, the odds are that we all know where this goes ... she gets romantically involved & emotionally attached to a bull, she gets pregnant by a bull, she decides (either by his persuasion or her own) to move in with her bull. The odds, long term, are definitely not in your favor. If you think otherwise, you are only kidding yourself. But, its your marriage and I wish you caution and a bunch of luck ... Mac
     
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  8. Chungcheng21

    Chungcheng21 Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    If your wife is okay with you sending her a random black guy, then it should be okay.
     
  9. phatbootywife

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    I understand where you are coming from and I really don't want it to go down but I'm wanting a bull to approach her and with her and him texting she may be more up to do the deed we. I wouldn't want her to do it behind my back but it makes me wonder if she did, would she be more comfortable after to let me watch. Basically I'm wondering if she fucked around, would she be like OK now I feel comfortable let me tell husband I'm OK to do it but she will be thinking that I don't have a clue of what has been going on?
     
  10. MacNfries

    MacNfries Well-Known Member Sweet & Cordial Gold Member

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    I guess this is a part of a relationship that I just don't understand. This is you putting someone, that you're suppose to love and trust, in a situation to be distrustful. Just as she would be wrong to take that temptation, so you would be wrong to put her in that position. I'm basing my position on my own marriage and my wife as my partner, and I rely 100% on her as she relies 100% on me. Decisions like this would be made together, not independently. We would put our partnership desires & needs ahead of our personal desires & needs. This is one thing we have always stressed with our children as well; honesty is one of the primary building blocks as to who we are. It has to be or nothing else is real.

    If you think through your process you find that, IF she took that temptation and did have sex with another man behind your back, she would no longer (in my eyes) be a trust worthy partner. That's like living a "lie", and from then on, everything she said or did might be questionable, particularly when it came to outside relationships. Agreeing on an open relationship is one thing (as it is done together), but putting your partner in a position to deceitfully make those decisions (personally) is simply not logical.
    I hope you'll rethink your approach IF you, in fact, care about your marriage & partnership. gif_Yellowball-Spock.gif
     
  11. blkdickking

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    why are you always on here questioning someones decision or offering advice when no one asks you for it. if this is what the man wants, this is what he wants. just leave it at that
     
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  12. MacNfries

    MacNfries Well-Known Member Sweet & Cordial Gold Member

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    You make a point blkdick ... noted! It is a forum, however, keep that in mind.
    Oh, and you also have an IGNORE button ... its ok to use it! ;)
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  13. phatbootywife

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    Mac are you in the lifestyle? If so how does your wife feel about it
     
  14. MacNfries

    MacNfries Well-Known Member Sweet & Cordial Gold Member

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    Yes and no, phatbooty. My wife and I have been swinging since our college days, but its more real swinging ... couples and 3-somes (both MMF & FFM). We haven't crossed the color barrier, however. Our swinging has always been with established friendships, not based on the color of a person's skin. If you read my profile, you'll understand I'm here more for my own entertainment than to find some large, black dick with an attitude. I think we're all better than that.
    I like to look at people, in general, like stick people ... knowing that what's on the inside is more important than what's on the outside. And I imagine that's why I irritate some people, like blkdickking.
    My responses to your posts were just sincere, whether they were what you or others were looking for. I'm for protecting the marriage relationship first; always will be. You may realize some responders could care less about your marriage. One way gets you there honestly, the other deceitfully, that's all.
    Best wishes ... Mac . View attachment 474578 ...
     
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  15. Princess Rina

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    But Mac, Stick people don't have anything on the "inside."
    With Black cock, your special Lady, will have something on the "inside."
     
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  16. phatbootywife

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    I agree I'm about marriage first and play later..thanks
     
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  17. Princess Rina

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    Aboslutely. My Marriage is very sacred to me. Without my marriage, when I look on the bright side, the option of cuckolding and interracial cuckolding as well as the joy of making white male cuckolds submissive to white women, and subservient to the bulls taking "their women" would be impossible.

    I commend all those who believe in the sacredness of marriage.
     
  18. C and J

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    phatbootywife.....contact us via email. We have been into this for a little over a year. We can offer some advice if you like.
     
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