Looking for advice on husband
- Thread starter kchelpplz
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Maybe I will. I’m noticing that I do like a tad younger. My hubbys friend was 25. Super respectful though!And then have a “sleepover”
Listen, i have been doing this along time. You two have no idea what you really want or at least have failed to communicate what each want, willing to do, rules etc.
Right now all I’m seeing is you trying to be one foot in and one foot out. Without clear concise communication, I see this going horribly wrong.
Your husband has got to decide if f he wants you blacked under his watch or not and are you willing to go there for him.
I don’t for see a lot of candidates willing to just basically be a prop for pictures. We are in this LS for sex not just pic poses. Y’all have decisions to make.
Right now all I’m seeing is you trying to be one foot in and one foot out. Without clear concise communication, I see this going horribly wrong.
Your husband has got to decide if f he wants you blacked under his watch or not and are you willing to go there for him.
I don’t for see a lot of candidates willing to just basically be a prop for pictures. We are in this LS for sex not just pic poses. Y’all have decisions to make.
What kind of man wants to see his wife pose with a black dick and have it titty fuck her until he cums on her neck, but doesn’t want to see her actually pleasured? I call bullshit on this whole thing. This is some slow played fantasy trash just like 98% of the posts on this site. I’m sure in a week she’ll have become the town slut and getting gangbanged by all of the maintenance workers or something. 
There are so many more fantasies than realities here for sure. I do like the pic. I agree it’s strange to step into things and you are most likely correct. I am honest about what has happened with my wife because I don’t find posting fantasies as real a fun pastime. I mark things as fantasy if that’s what it is.What kind of man wants to see his wife pose with a black dick and have it titty fuck her until he cums on her neck, but doesn’t want to see her actually pleasured? I call bullshit on this whole thing. This is some slow played fantasy trash just like 98% of the posts on this site. I’m sure in a week she’ll have become the town slut and getting gangbanged by all of the maintenance workers or something.
What kind of man wants to see his wife pose with a black dick and have it titty fuck her until he cums on her neck, but doesn’t want to see her actually pleasured? I call bullshit on this whole thing. This is some slow played fantasy trash just like 98% of the posts on this site. I’m sure in a week she’ll have become the town slut and getting gangbanged by all of the maintenance workers or something.
agreed….either be about the LS or get out…Nothing wrong at all with what you are doing. I have been following thread.
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LmaoWhat kind of man wants to see his wife pose with a black dick and have it titty fuck her until he cums on her neck, but doesn’t want to see her actually pleasured? I call bullshit on this whole thing. This is some slow played fantasy trash just like 98% of the posts on this site. I’m sure in a week she’ll have become the town slut and getting gangbanged by all of the maintenance workers or something.
I'm quoting your original post but have read the responses so far...some have questioned your validity and I admit I too have questions...but one thing you mentioned in a couple of your posts does add validity.Hello, so this I weird but I kinda what help or advice on what to do or anything. Before I start, no I’m not verified and no I won’t get verified; I don’t plan on being on here that much, but I heard about the site from a college teammate.
I am happily married to a white man and have a 3 year old. When I was in my early 20’s after a night at the bars, I met a black man outside of my apartment, and was super horny. I invited him to stay the night.
My husband and I met a year later. When I told him about my interracial experience he was disgusted at first. Then over the years he has gotten more interested, asking details (I don’t tell him it’s none of his business), and wanting to role play. He even got a fake dildo and named it Da’ron. He likes me to pose with it and suck it. I never wanted to put it in me because it’s huge. I haven’t wanted to do it since our ******* was born though.
We are in a lul lately, so I got some questions. He has been wanting to reach out and get someone (like where do you look for this, Craigslist?), to come to our house or meet at a hotel, and take pictures with me. He has said he doesn’t want me to fuck him, but maybe suck him, and let him cum on me. I wanna stimulate and rise to what my husband wants sexually but I guess I need advice with things. 1-4 are important but 5 is kind of just for me because in the end I am a 35 year old that wants to be flattered
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- What should I do to meet his needs? I don’t want to fuck anyone else, but I wanna make my husband happy.
- What are somethings I can do to get into being ok with it? Is there porn to watch, or things to read?
- If I were persuaded to be “ok”with meeting someone to pose with, is there anyone out there, who would respect our wishes and just let me do what he wants?
- If there is anyone who would be willing, would you be willing to befriend my hubby, and maybe start to get a good connection with him. He has friends of color, but I’d rather not with his friends. I don’t wanna be at a cook out, and think about knowing what his friends look like naked.
- Do I still got the goods after having a kid? Sorry I’m not comfortable showing my face. The pictures are snaps and messages my husband has sent me to show you his mindset.
Thank you for letting me voice my problem.
STOP!
Right now you aren't ready and your relationship isn't either. This subject (sex) and this lifestyle never, ever ends well if one enters it for someone else's happiness. Quite simply it minimizes your own self worth. Read what you said about the picture you posted then consider-the people on this site and ANY other range from barely legal into sixties (me), skinny to obese, skin color/tones from pale to jet black and that is in both genders! I'd bet anything you didn't question your beauty the first time you held your b*by-beauty resonates from within.
Rather than ask if people change, let's consider how we evolve. At first hubby had a negative reaction to your IR experience. He's asked about it and you 'knew' not to go into details-example 1. Hubby has this fantasy, then brings home a dildo-why? Example 2. Hubby comes home starts the convo and has someone outside waiting. Example 3.
I'm a widower and started in alternative lifestyles with my wife almost 30 years ago. Anyone who doesn't tell you the most critical issue for a couple is COMMUNICATION. We can't quantify the right or wrong of you not telling him about your experience, I know you NEED to know WHY before you do anything else. I really hope it registers that guy was waiting at the door because it was GOING to happen, no maybe about it and strongly suggests those two talked about it more than you did. Personally I avoid husbands like that; if they will treat their life 'partner' like that what the hell can I expect to get? Ask hubby how many new Black friends does he have at work....never, ever involve what provides for the THREE of you!
The wife needs to know, understand and share her place with all of it and hubby needs to know, understand and share what's all in his head, both being honest and open about it. Stop (time out) and get your ******* together! Good luck and DM if you want to talk.
^this.
