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kchelpplz

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Hello, so this I weird but I kinda what help or advice on what to do or anything. Before I start, no I’m not verified and no I won’t get verified; I don’t plan on being on here that much, but I heard about the site from a college teammate.



I am happily married to a white man and have a 3 year old. When I was in my early 20’s after a night at the bars, I met a black man outside of my apartment, and was super horny. I invited him to stay the night.



My husband and I met a year later. When I told him about my interracial experience he was disgusted at first. Then over the years he has gotten more interested, asking details (I don’t tell him it’s none of his business), and wanting to role play. He even got a fake dildo and named it Da’ron. He likes me to pose with it and suck it. I never wanted to put it in me because it’s huge. I haven’t wanted to do it since our ******* was born though.



We are in a lul lately, so I got some questions. He has been wanting to reach out and get someone (like where do you look for this, Craigslist?), to come to our house or meet at a hotel, and take pictures with me. He has said he doesn’t want me to fuck him, but maybe suck him, and let him cum on me. I wanna stimulate and rise to what my husband wants sexually but I guess I need advice with things. 1-4 are important but 5 is kind of just for me because in the end I am a 35 year old that wants to be flattered :)



  1. What should I do to meet his needs? I don’t want to fuck anyone else, but I wanna make my husband happy.
  2. What are somethings I can do to get into being ok with it? Is there porn to watch, or things to read?
  3. If I were persuaded to be “ok”with meeting someone to pose with, is there anyone out there, who would respect our wishes and just let me do what he wants?
  4. If there is anyone who would be willing, would you be willing to befriend my hubby, and maybe start to get a good connection with him. He has friends of color, but I’d rather not with his friends. I don’t wanna be at a cook out, and think about knowing what his friends look like naked.
  5. Do I still got the goods after having a kid? Sorry I’m not comfortable showing my face. The pictures are snaps and messages my husband has sent me to show you his mindset.


Thank you for letting me voice my problem.
 
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1. You gotta figure out what you want and what you are willing to do. You sound like you guys are happy, this just seems a little fetish or race play.

2. Have you guys tried watching porn together? What does he have you do with this dildo? Dog fart is great!

3. I would but I’m in Memphis; so travel would be a must.

4. I’d talk with him!

5. Girl you got the goods! I also love how pale you are, I think pale girls are sexy so they can see the contrast of my bbc!

Hope this helps!
 
18bbc said:
1. You gotta figure out what you want and what you are willing to do. You sound like you guys are happy, this just seems a little fetish or race play.

2. Have you guys tried watching porn together? What does he have you do with this dildo? Dog fart is great!

3. I would but I’m in Memphis; so travel would be a must.

4. I’d talk with him!

5. Girl you got the goods! I also love how pale you are, I think pale girls are sexy so they can see the contrast of my bbc!

Hope this helps!
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Thank you! Honestly not traditionally attracted to men of color (my interracial experience was not a good one), but I really want to make my husband happy!
 
kchelpplz said:
Hello, so this I weird but I kinda what help or advice on what to do or anything. Before I start, no I’m not verified and no I won’t get verified; I don’t plan on being on here that much, but I heard about the site from a college teammate.



I am happily married to a white man and have a 3 year old. When I was in my early 20’s after a night at the bars, I met a black man outside of my apartment, and was super horny. I invited him to stay the night.



My husband and I met a year later. When I told him about my interracial experience he was disgusted at first. Then over the years he has gotten more interested, asking details (I don’t tell him it’s none of his business), and wanting to role play. He even got a fake dildo and named it Da’ron. He likes me to pose with it and suck it. I never wanted to put it in me because it’s huge. I haven’t wanted to do it since our ******* was born though.



We are in a lul lately, so I got some questions. He has been wanting to reach out and get someone (like where do you look for this, Craigslist?), to come to our house or meet at a hotel, and take pictures with me. He has said he doesn’t want me to fuck him, but maybe suck him, and let him cum on me. I wanna stimulate and rise to what my husband wants sexually but I guess I need advice with things. 1-4 are important but 5 is kind of just for me because in the end I am a 35 year old that wants to be flattered :)



  1. What should I do to meet his needs? I don’t want to fuck anyone else, but I wanna make my husband happy.
  2. What are somethings I can do to get into being ok with it? Is there porn to watch, or things to read?
  3. If I were persuaded to be “ok”with meeting someone to pose with, is there anyone out there, who would respect our wishes and just let me do what he wants?
  4. If there is anyone who would be willing, would you be willing to befriend my hubby, and maybe start to get a good connection with him. He has friends of color, but I’d rather not with his friends. I don’t wanna be at a cook out, and think about knowing what his friends look like naked.
  5. Do I still got the goods after having a kid? Sorry I’m not comfortable showing my face. The pictures are snaps and messages my husband has sent me to show you his mindset.
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1. Probably what he communicated to you lol

2. There's plenty of vids, erotic stories, and personal articles right here on this site about getting started and other folks experiences with this, those might be a good place to start.

3. I'd bet 10 bucks there is a guy but he'd have to live close by, personally I wouldn't travel more than 30 minutes for a cold meet like your husband is describing especially with these gas prices 💀.
 
Kai09 said:
1. Probably what he communicated to you lol

2. There's plenty of vids, erotic stories, and personal articles right here on this site about getting started and other folks experiences with this, those might be a good place to start.

3. I'd bet 10 bucks there is a guy but he'd have to live close by, personally I wouldn't travel more than 30 minutes for a cold meet like your husband is describing especially with these gas prices 💀.
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Thank you
 
First off welcome to the site and I think you can get some help here. Let me preface the comment and reply to you first in that youre going to get 110-1 advice from single white men here who will tell you to do anything to satisfy thier fetish so throw those suggestions out. They arent thinking about you they are thinking with the little head all about them. I'll answer underneath your comment/question so its easy to follow OK? Having been in this lifestyle a long time my advice is for you as a woman and for your own help in deciphering what and why and where. You make your decidsions based on what you think is right for you and your husband not anyone else. Its your life.

  1. What should I do to meet his needs? I don’t want to fuck anyone else, but I wanna make my husband happy.
Communicate- sit down and talk with him about what turns him on. What turns you on. Find common ground, you have to talk to your husband and not guess. If he doesnt stimulate you the way you like, be sexy about it and say hey baby watch this- this is what makes me crazy and show him. Masturbate in front of him and show him what makes you nuts. Then have him do it. Teach him to make you cum and cum hard. Thgen reverse it. Have him show you. Share your fantatsies while playing with each other. best way to spice up the foreplay and make you both hot and renergize the bedroom.

  1. What are somethings I can do to get into being ok with it? Is there porn to watch, or things to read?
God yes. Most porn is done for men. Some porn especially IR porn has some female directors in it and or are written from a different angle and production quality. Subscribe to Blacked.com and watch some IR porn. A good chunck of it is focused toward younger college age and up girls but another good set of it is for more mature audiences. There is a lot of it so find what turns you on. Watch some alone with yourself and masturbate to it. See what makes you hot. Then watch some with him. He will be very surprised and you both will have a ball- and big time fun and Os. Its a good way to start.
  1. If I were persuaded to be “ok”with meeting someone to pose with, is there anyone out there, who would respect our wishes and just let me do what he wants?
Thats up to you and he to make the boundries and discuss this openly and also with your "bull" Explain the situation and that youre just getting started and it will be a slow "soft" start. That means that you wont be having intercourse but other things are on the table. Discuss what your comfortable with. This is supposed to be a turn on for you and is all about you. Your husband obviously has interest so it will turn him on. Turn yourself on and do what feels great for you. Relax. If it gets too much and your uncomfortable stop and set up another date to continue. GO AT YOUR PACE.
  1. If there is anyone who would be willing, would you be willing to befriend my hubby, and maybe start to get a good connection with him. He has friends of color, but I’d rather not with his friends. I don’t wanna be at a cook out, and think about knowing what his friends look like naked.
I'm not sure what youre asking here- someone to be freinds with your husband or someone who would be willing to help you out with this adventure? I'm guessing the second. Yes there will be a bunch who would be willing. You should be verified. It doesnt require your face and its simple and easy. It gives the potential partner assurance youre not some flaky wierd guy pretending to be a women to get off. Your potential partners should also be verified. I do not pursue conversations with non verified people. It also allows you to make an image folder that will be both exciting for you and your husband and and your potential partner to see some of you and judge if thier is a sexual connection between you both. Serriously rethink your plan here. This is a great resource here to pursue your fantasies with your husband and yourself and a 3rd. It also allows you to send images of your choice privately in a IM format here with potetial playmates.

  1. Do I still got the goods after having a kid? Sorry I’m not comfortable showing my face. The pictures are snaps and messages my husband has sent me to show you his mindset.
Dont show your face. Your'e not required. Keep your anonimity. Some dont mind, others have professional or social restrictions and dont.. Do what feels best for you. Do you have the goods? Do you feel sexy? Thats your call. Different types for all. You certainly are attractive and many many men here will tyell you the same. If your wanting to spice up the bedroom by some role play and adding some fire then here is the place to start. Use you toy he bought. It may turn you on. And him. Talk about it while playing. have fun! We all get in a rut and a little gasoline can reignite the blaze easily. Communicate....dont assume.
 
kchelpplz said:
Hello, so this I weird but I kinda what help or advice on what to do or anything. Before I start, no I’m not verified and no I won’t get verified; I don’t plan on being on here that much, but I heard about the site from a college teammate.



I am happily married to a white man and have a 3 year old. When I was in my early 20’s after a night at the bars, I met a black man outside of my apartment, and was super horny. I invited him to stay the night.



My husband and I met a year later. When I told him about my interracial experience he was disgusted at first. Then over the years he has gotten more interested, asking details (I don’t tell him it’s none of his business), and wanting to role play. He even got a fake dildo and named it Da’ron. He likes me to pose with it and suck it. I never wanted to put it in me because it’s huge. I haven’t wanted to do it since our ******* was born though.



We are in a lul lately, so I got some questions. He has been wanting to reach out and get someone (like where do you look for this, Craigslist?), to come to our house or meet at a hotel, and take pictures with me. He has said he doesn’t want me to fuck him, but maybe suck him, and let him cum on me. I wanna stimulate and rise to what my husband wants sexually but I guess I need advice with things. 1-4 are important but 5 is kind of just for me because in the end I am a 35 year old that wants to be flattered :)



  1. What should I do to meet his needs? I don’t want to fuck anyone else, but I wanna make my husband happy.
  2. What are somethings I can do to get into being ok with it? Is there porn to watch, or things to read?
  3. If I were persuaded to be “ok”with meeting someone to pose with, is there anyone out there, who would respect our wishes and just let me do what he wants?
  4. If there is anyone who would be willing, would you be willing to befriend my hubby, and maybe start to get a good connection with him. He has friends of color, but I’d rather not with his friends. I don’t wanna be at a cook out, and think about knowing what his friends look like naked.
  5. Do I still got the goods after having a kid? Sorry I’m not comfortable showing my face. The pictures are snaps and messages my husband has sent me to show you his mindset.
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So an update. He came home last night from work and once I put our ******* down, he started talking to me about it. So finally, I asked a question “ is this going to help our marriage or hurt it, because I kind of just wanna do this, so you will stop bugging me about it!” he told me he just wants to see me with someone posing. I asked him if he had somebody in mind, and he said that he confided in one of the maintenance guys at his building. I’ve never met this man, but he described him and said he was the type that was always able to go somewhere. Ughhhh

I took a couple drinks and finally said fine I will do it. I thought it was going to be for the next night or Friday night but I hopped out of the shower and Dude was here.

I just let him put his dick between my tits, kissed his dick, and let him cum on my neck, but I think I enjoyed it more than I thought. Thank you for the advice everyone!

If you want detail or photos, I would tell or send.

Might have to stick around here!
 
kchelpplz said:
So an update. He came home last night from work and once I put our ******* down, he started talking to me about it. So finally, I asked a question “ is this going to help our marriage or hurt it, because I kind of just wanna do this, so you will stop bugging me about it!” he told me he just wants to see me with someone posing. I asked him if he had somebody in mind, and he said that he confided in one of the maintenance guys at his building. I’ve never met this man, but he described him and said he was the type that was always able to go somewhere. Ughhhh

I took a couple drinks and finally said fine I will do it. I thought it was going to be for the next night or Friday night but I hopped out of the shower and Dude was here.

I just let him put his dick between my tits, kissed his dick, and let him cum on my neck, but I think I enjoyed it more than I thought. Thank you for the advice everyone!

If you want detail or photos, I would tell or send.

Might have to stick around here!
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Please do stick around there are some really good people you can bounce ideas and concerns off. Just be careful of listening to the people with fantasies and not any experience.
 
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