Locking Hubby for the First Time
Have him masturbate and cum. Might do the trick.
Hit his head with a wooden hammer so that he passes out then try it again. 
Ice cubes or a cold shower worked well for us too the first times we put it on him..
Also, I learned to make it less of a 'ceremonial' event even if it's tempting - I try to make it fast and in a professional way, like an examination at a doctor. The teasing comes after he is secured
Also, I learned to make it less of a 'ceremonial' event even if it's tempting - I try to make it fast and in a professional way, like an examination at a doctor. The teasing comes after he is secured
demoted2panties
Male
This is what my wife made me do when she first locked me up..eventually he will stay limp..
Ice on the balls works every time for me.
CoupleMoFun
Male
I find that after getting the ring on, do something non sexual for 15 minutes or so to let the little guy settle down, like change the garbage or fold laundry. Then put the cage on. Also, coconut oil helps even when it starts to get hard.
Some ice will help 
As others have said, ice definitely works as does taking the eroticism out of it. There’s plenty of time for that after the cage is on.
It’s also a good idea to put a light coating of KY or similar on the inside of the cage itself as well as a light coating of neosporin along the inside of the ring before it goes on.
You’ll want to take it off to check for irritation and to clean everything daily (it’s much easier for everyone if he’s shaved first). Reapply lube and neosporin when it goes back on.
Good luck!
It’s also a good idea to put a light coating of KY or similar on the inside of the cage itself as well as a light coating of neosporin along the inside of the ring before it goes on.
You’ll want to take it off to check for irritation and to clean everything daily (it’s much easier for everyone if he’s shaved first). Reapply lube and neosporin when it goes back on.
Good luck!
BWCinthe313
Male
I like that one. I've seen cocks wear the metal cages. Always thought that was not pansy enough.
I agree. If I was ever locked up (I never will be) I would want to wear the pink one.
Now comes the teasing
Now come everything she deserves!Now comes the teasing
He might want to shave, it causes less hair pulling, is less painful and adds to the submission
perrodetoro
Male
Putting the ring on and doing something not sexual for some time worked for us. Make him cum and wait for about 2-3 minutes when it is at it`s smallest also work. And of course lube. Lube that thing up a little.
And shaving makes wearing it over time much more comfortable
And shaving makes wearing it over time much more comfortable
ice cubes on the balls might help too
Another thing that works, is smack his dicklet with the tips of your fingers. It startles them but always makes them go limp. Also reminds them that you are in charge.
