Totally can't agree more. Also, if I may add:Deal breakers for us:
- Common courtesy / be a gentleman - you gotta have it.
- Respect the primary relationship (marriage)
- Be able to carry a conversation outside the bedroom - for us it's much more than just a fuck.
4. If he isn't clean - wearing obviously dirty clothes and/or smells. If he didn't take care of himself for the initial meeting, one can only imagine what he'd be like in the bedroom!