Lets Talk Deal Breakers

Deal breakers for us:
  1. Common courtesy / be a gentleman - you gotta have it.
  2. Respect the primary relationship (marriage)
  3. Be able to carry a conversation outside the bedroom - for us it's much more than just a fuck.
Totally can't agree more. Also, if I may add:
4. If he isn't clean - wearing obviously dirty clothes and/or smells. If he didn't take care of himself for the initial meeting, one can only imagine what he'd be like in the bedroom!
 
I have 3:

  1. a couple or woman moving too slowly. I try to take conversations from swinger sites offline if there isn’t a certification or verifications and maybe FaceTime. This riots out like 97% of the fakes (though I had a recent FT from her bed, then ghosted in any communication)
  2. asking for a bunch of pictures. I have a ton of short media, and I keep in good shape and have been lucky to have met women who do also, so it’s porn. This is a popular thing for hubby’s to do. If I’m fucking their wife, I oblige; otherwise, they get the block.
  3. Lack of respect of my time. If we go into a meet and it’s supposed to be a ******* first to “feel things out”, I request that it be early in the evening and close to where I’m at. If she gets cold feet, I would rather not travel far or have it cost me a night where I could do something vanilla. Also, people who cancel last minute (I’ve discarded and blocked a few regulars who kept doing this) and women/couples who only allow last minute meets (is my time less valuable than yours?!)

OK, I’m off my soapbox. ?
 
If a white person pretends like they’re somehow “cleaner” than I am then it’s not going down.

White people lay with dogs, skip showers, and don’t use washcloths. Then have the nerve to look at Black people like we’re “dirty.”

If they start crowing about “cleanliness” it’s a NO from me.

That includes asking me to wear a condom, expressing too many concerns about their “safety” asking too many questions about STDs (I’m tested more than 99.999% of the global population, most people NEVER TEST) or asking way too many questions about my income.
Some White people lay with dogs, skip showers, and don’t use washcloths. Then have the nerve to look at Black people like we’re “dirty.” Check the bottom of they soles ????
 
We are a package deal, so the guy must be bisexual or bi-friendly, and embrace the cuckold lifestyle that we enjoy. Since I love bareback, we require STD testing, which works better because we prefer ongoing lasting friendships. We tend to favor married men (wife's approval is a plus) who need an outlet for their lust for sex with white couples.
 
If a white person pretends like they’re somehow “cleaner” than I am then it’s not going down.

White people lay with dogs, skip showers, and don’t use washcloths. Then have the nerve to look at Black people like we’re “dirty.”

If they start crowing about “cleanliness” it’s a NO from me.

That includes asking me to wear a condom, expressing too many concerns about their “safety” asking too many questions about STDs (I’m tested more than 99.999% of the global population, most people NEVER TEST) or asking way too many questions about my income.

"Those who shout the loudest usually have the most to hide."
 
Deal breakers for us:
  1. Common courtesy / be a gentleman - you gotta have it.
  2. Respect the primary relationship (marriage)
  3. Be able to carry a conversation outside the bedroom - for us it's much more than just a fuck.
I am in total agreement with your responses.
 
We are a package deal, so the guy must be bisexual or bi-friendly, and embrace the cuckold lifestyle that we enjoy. Since I love bareback, we require STD testing, which works better because we prefer ongoing lasting friendships. We tend to favor married men (wife's approval is a plus) who need an outlet for their lust for sex with white couples.

Our preferences mirror yours in every way.
 
I have a couple of non negotiables a.k.a deal breakers:

1. Couples or women who don’t live a healthy lifestyle & don’t take care of themselves in a healthy way.

2. Couples or women that have unhealthy and inauthentic communication with themselves, with other people and their boundaries and desires.
 
Deal breakers for me would be no sucking dick.

Condoms is not a deal breaker for me but I have a steady hotwife where i am able to cum in her. This makes it hard to go back to condom sex. Oftentimes i might turn down a meet because i rather creampie my hotwife than cum in a condom with a random.
Travel to North Carolina please!
 
Deal breakers for me would be no sucking dick.

Condoms is not a deal breaker for me but I have a steady hotwife where i am able to cum in her. This makes it hard to go back to condom sex. Oftentimes i might turn down a meet because i rather creampie my hotwife than cum in a condom with a random.
Agree
 
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