condom. not playing russian roulette with a person we met on the internet... have yet to stay partnered with an internet hook up. in the event that does happen, gain trust, testing, bare all the way.
wifes last "good close friend" wanted to go bare the first few times.... he was married and only after about 6 months did she allow it. lasted about 5-6 years... he had a vasectomy. he came in my wife more in 6 years than i have in 25 being married to her...