Definitely agree about the submissive aspect. And that is a big part of the appeal (for both parties, I think).Me too! I HATED it at first, but my black BF like it so I kept doing it for him. After awhile I started liking it, then I started CRAVING it and asking for it! That's the ultimate submissive act for me (well, one of them! ) and it just turns me on now! Love your description, that's just how I like it. Start out slow, then OWN it! LOL!