The cuckold lifestyle split off around the 2000s. At first, swinging was real popular story. Then couples in which the man was monogamous stood out. That is, they initially tried to please the woman, but they did not real want sex with other wives. That's how hotwife stood out. Now, no one says that the woman does not watch porn. Only real conservative people believe in story that sex in marriage is only for two.
What has changed in our lives in recent decades?
The popularity of the cuckold lifestyle has real increased, and you will find no story in any blog that tells about becoming in this life. Porn gave real freedom to married couples, and cuckold videos only confirmed that there is a real place for this lifestyle story. Why should women be shy about becoming a hotwife?
People tend to follow modern fashion, and the cuckold lifestyle is real mainstream. I think porn has helped a lot of couples understand that story of interracial cuckolding is for them. And hotwife finally relaxed and enjoy being married and not just watching porn.
I read in any blog that almost half of the men fantasize about watching story of their wife have sex with another man. This data is consistent with the fact that every year porn-related studies show that interracialcuckold porn is becoming extremely popular and becoming more popular.
Many have begun to talk about wives who get turned on by sharing their real fantasies about men with husbands. And what story do we see now? The big focus on the cuckold lifestyle has led to a shift from focusing on male sexual pleasure (why was porn invented in the first place?) to raising female desires. And this is precisely the goal of the cuckold lifestyle!
Now there are many places where hotwife women can meet a man, having already noted in advance that she is not monogamous.
What drives the cuckold lifestyle?
I have asked this question many times. I'm leaning towards what's happening due to:
freedom in new world;
lots of amateur interracial porn with hotwife.
People have become more free to express their sexuality. The popularity of interracial cuckold porn has freed people from some narrow-mindedness. This amateur porn showed that there are families who do not want to live traditionally.
I think the concept of the real traditional family has changed. In the interracial cuckold lifestyle, the wife no longer has to suffer from her husband's real small size, or he no longer satisfies her. Amateur interracialcuckold porn helped someone's hotwife to liberate and understand herself. I think the time of porn for the pleasure of only men is over.
I would offer a counterpoint to your assertion that Cuckoldry "split off" around 2000. I guess I am getting old, but apparently you don't remember the glory days of magazines such as
Penthouse Forum, and
Variations. Small magazines that were long on stories presented as reader letters and responses, with a few scant nudes here and there.
One of the topics, that was quite popular starting at least for me, in the 1970's when I started reading those things, were the infamous "
I have always wanted to see my wife fucked by another man," variant of the letters. It seems that every issue typically had 3-5 such letters per issue. For someone who was an adolescent in the 1970's, these letters always caught my attention, and, I dare say at the time were great mental imagery for (forgive me here) "Jacking off!" I would add that my parents always impressed on me the importance of not being sexually active until I was able and willing to become married and a *******. Needless to say, I did.
However, the idea of seeing whomever I was sexually involved with, having sex with another guy was appealing, and every time I jacked off thinking about that stuff, just cemented the idea a bit more.
I got married at age 21. . to a woman who was quite amenable to sexual adventurism and had no issue with fantasy play. We had engaged in a couple of MMF threesomes and a single MFF by the time we had been married two years. That imagery still very much exists in my head to this day.
The issue of cuckoldry, in and of itself had not exactly come up. I had not really given the issue much though, and while "
sloppy seconds" were hot as hell, I had not eaten or considered eating cum. . That would not change for several years. However something did happen that kind of changed my perspective, and it took a while to even register.
I had been taking care of the Pool in the Apartment where we lived, for 1/2 off rent. . After spending a couple of weeks getting the infrastructure in tip top condition, and keeping the pool going for a couple of weeks, one afternoon Lori (my first wife, a young lady a bit younger than I) was at the pool on an weekend day, and something happened. . I had to be gone for another emergency, and when I returned around 10:30 that night, I was reminded what assholes guys could be.
When I got home, Lori was lying just inside the door, still in her wet bathing suit, but quite intoxicated. (she had not been a drinker) but she was not hurt, and it took a while to tease the events out of her. I took her back, dried her off, and put her to bed. I asked her and the details took a while to emerge. . but she told me that a kid who was a few years younger, had given her a few beers, and apparently took advantage of her in his brothers apartment (by the pool) I was pretty infuriated, and seriously considered calling the police and taking her to the hospital for a ******* test kit. . but decided to put it off until the morning.
When the morning came, she woke up and was pretty good with the previous night and what happened. She remembered telling me about what happened, and I explained that I was OK with it, as she had no bruises, and was not hurt, but was leaving it to her. . I hate to admit it, but when she kissed me, I was a bit turned on. It progressed, and my hand found her ah, still gooy and wet vagina. . and was instantly turned on. Sloppy seconds awaited, and I went for it. . For some reason this time it was hotter than hell. I was a bit unsure given what happened to her, but we ended up back in bed.
Needless to say, going to report it was out the window at that point. Lori and I ultimately divorced not long after. (not related to this event. . .we were just too young and foolish.) Of course we had to prove the parents wrong. . Yeah, that worked out well for everyone!
But the moral of the issue was that it took some time to realize that infact, I had been cuckolded
without my consent as it had been in the threesomes. It grew on me, and I still remember the that particular cream pie. Eventually I accepted what had happened and though morally problematic, it turned me on.
Jump forward several years later, I am a licensed professional, different woman, different situation, and with who would be wife 2. She was aware of my sexual proclivities and not only had no problem with it, but encouraged it. I accepted that I found cuckoldry exciting and that I wanted more. . .
I will close here, but the point is that the whole magazines and "
I always wanted to see my wife make love to another man" thing certainly primed my sexuality for cuckoldry. What happened to Lori cemented it, and it has remained a constant since. Not that I encourage my wife to go out and bang anyone she wanted anytime. . I never had. But a perfect set of circumstances that I created inadvertently, set up the conditions that allowed me to enjoy watching another man with my wife. IF I could change it, I probably would, but it is way too late in the game at this point to change it, and I am stuck with it.
I would add that I do enjoy some degree of light humiliation in public when we go out with another guy who acts as the proverbial "Bull" but we don't use that term. I enjoy watching her being serviced by another man. Although I have no inferiority complex, there is a subtle release of tension, as I am not totally responsible to perform sexually for her. . I can get off and just enjoy myself. . and after the third leaves, take care of her. Kind of a strange dynamic, but over the ensuing years, we have been through some very exciting sexual events. Some worthy of recounting here, and I/we will. .some not. She also has more leeway than Lori did in choosing someone. But she does not go out and just have sex with whoever she wants. Usually it is set up in advance, and I am given hints through the week to a big build up. The first moment I hear her say, someone is coming over on say Friday or Saturday. . I have a constant tingle in my pants!
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