What drives the cuckold lifestyle?

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The cuckold lifestyle split off around the 2000s. At first, swinging was real popular story. Then couples in which the man was monogamous stood out. That is, they initially tried to please the woman, but they did not real want sex with other wives. That's how hotwife stood out. Now, no one says that the woman does not watch porn. Only real conservative people believe in story that sex in marriage is only for two.

What has changed in our lives in recent decades?​

The popularity of the cuckold lifestyle has real increased, and you will find no story in any blog that tells about becoming in this life. Porn gave real freedom to married couples, and cuckold videos only confirmed that there is a real place for this lifestyle story. Why should women be shy about becoming a hotwife?

People tend to follow modern fashion, and the cuckold lifestyle is real mainstream. I think porn has helped a lot of couples understand that story of interracial cuckolding is for them. And hotwife finally relaxed and enjoy being married and not just watching porn.

I read in any blog that almost half of the men fantasize about watching story of their wife have sex with another man. This data is consistent with the fact that every year porn-related studies show that interracialcuckold porn is becoming extremely popular and becoming more popular.

Many have begun to talk about wives who get turned on by sharing their real fantasies about men with husbands. And what story do we see now? The big focus on the cuckold lifestyle has led to a shift from focusing on male sexual pleasure (why was porn invented in the first place?) to raising female desires. And this is precisely the goal of the cuckold lifestyle!

Now there are many places where hotwife women can meet a man, having already noted in advance that she is not monogamous.

What drives the cuckold lifestyle?​

I have asked this question many times. I'm leaning towards what's happening due to:

freedom in new world;

lots of amateur interracial porn with hotwife.

People have become more free to express their sexuality. The popularity of interracial cuckold porn has freed people from some narrow-mindedness. This amateur porn showed that there are families who do not want to live traditionally.

I think the concept of the real traditional family has changed. In the interracial cuckold lifestyle, the wife no longer has to suffer from her husband's real small size, or he no longer satisfies her. Amateur interracialcuckold porn helped someone's hotwife to liberate and understand herself. I think the time of porn for the pleasure of only men is over.
 
Ultimately it's "POWER" that drives the Cuckold Lifestyle because it has so many other residual benefits for both men and women when, mutually applied and supported by all parties involved. Think about women who increasingly develop financial independence with husbands/men who enjoy watching their female partner exploring their sexuality while, still intimately enthralled in their marriage/relationship...WIN-WIN for everyone.
 
Nowadays, shame around the topic of sex and porn has decreased. People already understand that there is a lot of diversity around, and that sex story is no longer just a man + woman, and marriage is not just 2 people. I agree that porn is more liberating for people, the information in any blog clarifies the cuckold lifestyle. Now is the time for self-acceptance. This applies not only to the family life of the wife and husband, but also to sexual minorities.
 
I think many different things drive the cuckold lifestyle. I have found out that everyone likes different things in life and that includes their sex lives as well. Also, most people lie about how they live their sex lives and how they would like to live their sex lives, to others and even to themselves. I don't lie to other people that are on this site, Fet Life or are on other sex sites nor do I lie to our friends and family about our sex lives but I still try to hide our sex lives from them. I would probably tell them the truth if they ever asked about our sex lives but they haven't. It feels very good and free to be able to talk to my wife and other people about my life as a cuckold and my wife that I love more than anything in the world and that we both enjoy her sucking and fucking other men. My wife and I have decided that we are too old to live our lives the way other people probably want us to, so we live our lives the way we like to and if other people don't like it, they can choose not to be around us or just be around us and not like part of how we live our lives.
Most men would not like to live life like I do, like a cuckold. Some think they would but then find out they don't when they actually watch other men fuck their wives. You don't know until you really live it and then you might even change your mind after you did like it.
You probably already know that the size of your cock is not the most important thing to most women. Unfortunately for many husbands, many married women are going thru change of life and become wild sluts.
 
Marica said:
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You probably already know that the size of a man's cock is not the most important thing to most women. But it is a very important consideration for many women and they are willing to risk their happy marriage to discover how much pleasure they can get from big cocks. Many women end up divorced when their husbands discover that their wives have cheated on them. However, some women are lucky, like my slut wife, and their husband's accept that their wife is a slut that enjoys being fucked by other men. Many men, like me, learn to enjoy watching our wives sucking other men's cocks and being fucked by them, seeing our wives get the sexual pleasure that they need and deserve as a woman and in many cases, their husbands, like me, can not give them because of our tiny cocks.
 
whitechickslay said:
Not many men are truly built for the cuck lifestyle. I know there was this one slut I was fucking and her husband made her stop because she was enjoying it more than he could handle. I see them out and about. He can’t look at me but she eagerly says hello
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I agree with you 100% and I would add that most men are not able to accept the reality of living a cuckold lifestyle. Like the slut wife you mentioned, whose husband made her stop because she was enjoying it more than he could handle.
 
I think as we mature as a society we release the ideals of our recent cultural path.

We then seek out our base instincts. Survival of the fittest. But when we are not endangered we lapse into our true selves with comfort.

The natural roles of Dominant and submissive rise to the surface as much as societal expectations demand they stay as expected.

But change and truth are not trendy. Rhett are our true nature. I understand and accept I’m a beta. That is, a weaker man that can provide love and support to a woman, cannot satisfy her in a level she deserves and wants.

An Alpha gives her that. And he deserves our respect for doing so. It’s an Alpha, a Dominant, a Bull to exercise his right over us and enjoy an experience that they are both worthy of and deserve.

There are a million other dynamics that make this lifestyle the best lifestyle possible. Let’s all help promote this lifestyle however we can.

Don’t you think?
 
BetaJames said:
I think as we mature as a society we release the ideals of our recent cultural path.

We then seek out our base instincts. Survival of the fittest. But when we are not endangered we lapse into our true selves with comfort.

The natural roles of Dominant and submissive rise to the surface as much as societal expectations demand they stay as expected.

But change and truth are not trendy. Rhett are our true nature. I understand and accept I’m a beta. That is, a weaker man that can provide love and support to a woman, cannot satisfy her in a level she deserves and wants.

An Alpha gives her that. And he deserves our respect for doing so. It’s an Alpha, a Dominant, a Bull to exercise his right over us and enjoy an experience that they are both worthy of and deserve.

There are a million other dynamics that make this lifestyle the best lifestyle possible. Let’s all help promote this lifestyle however we can.

Don’t you think?
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I agree with you.
I read a story in which the author stated that natural selection operates in all species, including humans. The alpha males fuck and breed the females. The other males do not get to fuck the females but do support their needs for food and whatever else they need. This is to insure the propagation of the species, including the human species. So, it is a normal part of nature that the inferior males, like you and I, are cuckolds and do not get to fuck the females. The Alpha males insure the inferior males do not fuck and breed the females through intimidation and fighting if necessary. Human culture has modified natural selection so that even inferior males can fuck and breed females.
So, cuckolds, like you and I, have overcome our culture's conditioning that we should act like Alpha males, even though we know we are inferior males. We learn to accept that it is normal and right for Alpha males to fuck and breed our wives, since it helps to insure the propagation of our species. We also like being a cuckold because we no longer need to pretend to be something we know we aren't, an Alpha male.
Maybe this is where our enjoyment of humiliation fits in. We enjoy being sexually humiliated, not all humiliation, because it is right and natural for us to to enjoy watching the Alpha males fuck and breed our wives. We are living our lives the way nature intended us to. All of the other inferior males that do not want the Alpha males to fuck and breed their wives, are the ones that are living their lives in a manner that is not the way that nature intended. We felt humiliation, rather than the pride we should feel when Alpha males fuck our wives, due to our cultural conditioning as we grew up.
 
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