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It's about black men, knowingly being relegated to being nothing more than a dick, for those women who see you as nothing more.
And those same women would never get with you as your significant other, because they can ******* their cuckold's hand, and be allowed to fuck as many black men as they want.
All the while, admitting that they're only with their husbands, boyfriends, for financial security.
And admitting, that they're too scared to be with black men in real time, because of the fear of what friends, family would say to them.
Oh, and there are some very beautiful Latina women on here, who are very sexy, and naturally beautiful, you can't buy that in a bottle of hair dye.
No. This site is
not about what
I say it is about, and it is
not about what it's about in
your fantasy. There's a "mission statement" announced by the site creators that tells both of us and everybody else what this site is about.
Maybe you've been here not long enough or you haven't read many of the forum posts but
your fantasy of what the members' motivations are to be here is very shallow. If you read thoroughly and take notes you will find that your generalizations are completely out of place. There is
a lot of diversity in here.
If you imagine all possible relationship models as a galaxy then what you'll find on this site is yet another galaxy within that galaxy. You'll find folks actively taking part in an adult lifestyle, others who did in the past, and yet others who are fantasizing about being in such a lifestyle in the future. You'll find people who are trying to hook up here, and yet others with no interest in meeting anyone from here at all. Some come for the media, others for discussion in a public forum, yet others who'd like to find someone to sext with in a more private conversation, and many lurkers who never participate.
There are members who are single and members in relationships. Most of those relationships or lifestyles couples have are
very different. The range reaches from completely monogamous over emotionally monogamous to polyamorous. Some of the open relationships are fully open while others are half-open, mostly on the Woman's end. Some do have a regular play partner "on the side" while others appreciate variety. Some are closer to swinging than cuckolding or a hotwife lifestyle. Some of those lifestyles include some sort of power play, D/s, T&D, chastity play, SPH, FemDom, sissyfication, a.s.o., but many others don't. Some include (male or female) bisexuality, others don't. Some couples are "both white" while others are "intermixed" (like Black-man+white-Woman, for instance), and if you really take a very close look you will even find the unicorn Black Woman on here.
An
adult lifestyle is based on the consensus of the people involved who are grown a$$ men and Women, not whiny boys and girls who have no idea what they want for themselves nor how to seal a deal. A Black man "being used" for sex happens, yes, at the same time a wife, girlfriend or couple is "being used" for sex by the Black man. It's not a oneway street but a give-and-take. There is nothing degrading in that because that's what
all of them want and have agreed to.
Some guys
like or
prefer to have sex with no strings attached and playing with a couple is a perfect opportunity for that.
That is real talk! Not some narrow-minded fantasy assumption that Women marry a man for the sole one and only reason of money. Definitely there are some out there who do but i'm guessing that's only a minority. (i may be wrong though
) But there are definitely wives and husbands in a sharing lifestyle who love each other dearly.
Very few couples meet when either partner as even established a career let alone amassed any wealth. This notion white women are only with their white husbands for financial reasons is ridiculous. Personally I would have no problems dating and marrying a black man if I were single. You fall in love with a person not a skin color.
