domeperignon57
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I believe this is a great topic, and there are plenty of layers to this.
The OP especially made a question aimed at married women, and as some of them answered, for plenty of them sex with males (which happen to be black in this case) other than their husbands just happened to be part of their sex lives. However, they still love their husbands and have no plans on leaving them. Notice that cuckolding isn't limited to black men. Sure, lately the idea of the black "bull" has become quite popular, but the term is not limited to them. However, it would be a lie to say there isn't a black men fetish, which has resulted in many of them being sexually objectified.
Of course, this brings up the question why many of those women didn't marry a black man instead. And this question also has many layers. For one, sexual attraction isn't the sole defining aspect on whether you fall in love with someone, and even less on whether you want to get into a serious relationship. So, they might have found themselves attracted to black guys when they were single, but didn't necessarily fall in love with any.
That's one aspect, another aspect is definitely the societal one. I'm sure some of the older women into this lifestyle might have been into black men before they got married, but due to social pressure based on racism, they decided to marry a guy of the same race as them. Ultimately, they grew to love their husbands, so even if they could marry a black guy now much more easily than before, they're already emotionally attached to their current husbands. So, regardless of their preference on men, they won't just divorce them. That being said, I'm sure that there must be cases in which women who married men of their same race, after having become intimate with black men, might have reconsidered their preferences and feelings, and ultimately divorced their husbands in favour of the black men they've become intimately involved with, because they found themselves being in love with them.
There are also plenty of stereotypes, as it's been correctly pointed out in this thread, such as the idea that black men not being financially sound, or not good partners, amongst many other things that are a byproduct of racism. However, I believe that's been changing through generations. In fact, I see a lot less of that type of thinking amongst ******* of the Generation Z, and as you can see, interracial relationships between black guys and white girls are much more common in members of that generation than ever before. Meaning interracial marriages and mixed race ******* will be much more common in that generation and the ones to come.
That being said, I'm not so idealistic as to believe that "love conquers all", but if you're a black male and you fall in love with the hotwife you've got involved with, then try showing some interest. I won't try to pretend to understand the feeling that you're being used as little more than a sex toy. I believe the fetishisation of black men isn't a good thing. But, if regardless of circumstances you still fall for that woman, man, go for it. You're already intimately involved, and you've got nothing to lose. In the worst case she'll turn you down, and in the best case you'll take her from their husband/bf. Indeed, I understand that there's also a moral aspect to it, since meddling in a relationship is generally regarded as wrong, but I find a loophole in this case, since you've already become intimately involved with the couple in a consensual manner. So, the way I see it, you're in your right to try to ask the woman to go out with you, and if things go well, end that marriage.
I really like this topic, and if anyone wants to discuss it, please write to me.
The OP especially made a question aimed at married women, and as some of them answered, for plenty of them sex with males (which happen to be black in this case) other than their husbands just happened to be part of their sex lives. However, they still love their husbands and have no plans on leaving them. Notice that cuckolding isn't limited to black men. Sure, lately the idea of the black "bull" has become quite popular, but the term is not limited to them. However, it would be a lie to say there isn't a black men fetish, which has resulted in many of them being sexually objectified.
Of course, this brings up the question why many of those women didn't marry a black man instead. And this question also has many layers. For one, sexual attraction isn't the sole defining aspect on whether you fall in love with someone, and even less on whether you want to get into a serious relationship. So, they might have found themselves attracted to black guys when they were single, but didn't necessarily fall in love with any.
That's one aspect, another aspect is definitely the societal one. I'm sure some of the older women into this lifestyle might have been into black men before they got married, but due to social pressure based on racism, they decided to marry a guy of the same race as them. Ultimately, they grew to love their husbands, so even if they could marry a black guy now much more easily than before, they're already emotionally attached to their current husbands. So, regardless of their preference on men, they won't just divorce them. That being said, I'm sure that there must be cases in which women who married men of their same race, after having become intimate with black men, might have reconsidered their preferences and feelings, and ultimately divorced their husbands in favour of the black men they've become intimately involved with, because they found themselves being in love with them.
There are also plenty of stereotypes, as it's been correctly pointed out in this thread, such as the idea that black men not being financially sound, or not good partners, amongst many other things that are a byproduct of racism. However, I believe that's been changing through generations. In fact, I see a lot less of that type of thinking amongst ******* of the Generation Z, and as you can see, interracial relationships between black guys and white girls are much more common in members of that generation than ever before. Meaning interracial marriages and mixed race ******* will be much more common in that generation and the ones to come.
That being said, I'm not so idealistic as to believe that "love conquers all", but if you're a black male and you fall in love with the hotwife you've got involved with, then try showing some interest. I won't try to pretend to understand the feeling that you're being used as little more than a sex toy. I believe the fetishisation of black men isn't a good thing. But, if regardless of circumstances you still fall for that woman, man, go for it. You're already intimately involved, and you've got nothing to lose. In the worst case she'll turn you down, and in the best case you'll take her from their husband/bf. Indeed, I understand that there's also a moral aspect to it, since meddling in a relationship is generally regarded as wrong, but I find a loophole in this case, since you've already become intimately involved with the couple in a consensual manner. So, the way I see it, you're in your right to try to ask the woman to go out with you, and if things go well, end that marriage.
I really like this topic, and if anyone wants to discuss it, please write to me.
but seems iťs impossible, hehe
But still I hope one day I will find the right one.. 
