If You Truly Desire Black Men

WindsorBLKBull

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What has stopped you from being with black men?

If you're married to a white man, or a latino male, why have you not taken that next step, and left your husband(s) to be with a black man, that you desire?

Would it be because of your concern of rebuttal from friends, family, or are there no black men of value in your area?

Or are you concerned with the blow back from society, because you bucked the trend of being with a white husband, and decided to be with a black man that has caught your attention?

We appalud you, for desiring a black man, i'm just curious to see, what has stopped you from being with that one black man, that you desire, and want to be with him under the same roof?
 
Even though i prefer, well only sleep with black males, i still love my husband love and sex are not exclusive nor dependent on one another. Sex with black men is just better more for lack of a better term aggressive more desirable for me. Why did it take me until I was 31 to start having black males as partners isnt about not finding them attractive(always thought they were) but more the lack of contact and the family and soiety pressure that I experienced as a young girl /woman growing up in Texas. As a adult I had to learn who and what it was i liked and what i desired and what gave me pleasure before I was really able to start to make a decision on who I would give myself to and who I would please sexually. So saying all that I do still love my husband and would gladly have sex with him if he had any interest but I would be bored and unhappy sexually if i was not involved with black men since thats what I find to be most pleasurable. Not sure I am explaining this well but thats kinda my 2 cents In addition I met my husband and married him long before I started in the lifestyle
 
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Its fantasy sex not a relationship. We have a very happy and successful life together. The cuckold aspects and time I am with a bull is less than 0.1% of my life.

Maybe a young single girl might chose a black partner if she meets the right guy but most of us are in longterm committed relationships.
 
I don't want to be with any one man, I'm not monogamous.

Race isn't the deciding factor in my relationships, attraction and compatibility are. 9/10x the men I'm attracted to and vibe with are black (specifically Carribean) but not every single time.
 
WindsorBLKBull said:
What has stopped you from being with black men?

If you're married to a white man, or a latino male, why have you not taken that next step, and left your husband(s) to be with a black man, that you desire?

Would it be because of your concern of rebuttal from friends, family, or are there no black men of value in your area?

Or are you concerned with the blow back from society, because you bucked the trend of being with a white husband, and decided to be with a black man that has caught your attention?

We appalud you, for desiring a black man, i'm just curious to see, what has stopped you from being with that one black man, that you desire, and want to be with him under the same roof?
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lets be honest, probably half of it cause of some fetish a white man has, or blindsight in sexual department.
Takes effort for a white babe to actually 100% want it for herself.
 
@WindsorBLKBull: You are not talking about single but married Women. Don't you think there must be good reasons for a Woman to marry a man, and many more to stay married? Many couples who play are in a relationship for 10 years plus or even more than 20 years. Do you seriously think a physical attraction to something as surficial as skin color can compete with a life-long bond between a wife and husband? Seems ridiculous to me.
 
Let’s be honest here, this is a sexual preference and that’s it, there are lots of guys who would prefer large breasts but it wouldn’t be a dealbreaker for them. This question is the same as asking a guy that prefers large breast why he doesn’t divorce his wife for someone bustier.

Let’s also remember that cuckolding and hotwifing is exciting for a lot of couples just because they are a couple, the taboo and excitement of doing something together as a couple is a large part of it for some. Breaking up in order to get into a monogamous couple with a black man wouldn’t even be close to the same thing.
 
Sounds like a addiction that can't be controlled. Also like you're trying to mix sex and relationships. Some women only want sex from black men as you are what she's missing in her relationship. The industry (porn) uses these stereotype of the minimally educated, non caring black man, whose only focus or desire is to have sex with .... Some want only sex, some want a relationship but know the terms before you enter.
 
stephforbc said:
Even though i prefer, well only sleep with black males, i still love my husband love and sex are not exclusive nor dependent on one another. Sex with black men is just better more for lack of a better term aggressive more desirable for me. Why did it take me until I was 31 to start having black males as partners isnt about not finding them attractive(always thought they were) but more the lack of contact and the family and soiety pressure that I experienced as a young girl /woman growing up in Texas. As a adult I had to learn who and what it was i liked and what i desired and what gave me pleasure before I was really able to start to make a decision on who I would give myself to and who I would please sexually. So saying all that I do still love my husband and would gladly have sex with him if he had any interest but I would be bored and unhappy sexually if i was not involved with black men since thats what I find to be most pleasurable. Not sure I am explaining this well but thats kinda my 2 cents In addition I met my husband and married him long before I started in the lifestyle
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You expressed exactly how I feel too. Thanks!
 
rudeboybull said:
Also a lot of black guys are getting into this lifestyle very young without life experience....

So they can’t process why a woman would have sex with them , but doesn’t want a relationship with them....

Unfortunately this is becoming more common.....
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We had exactly that situation (young, inexperienced) recently. She met a very attractive black guy who is 31 and happens to be a neighbor. She wanted to fuck him but only if it was with both of us. He was hot to fuck but balked at having another guy involved. He wanted her to be his girlfriend (we aren't married) and just could not wrap his head around sharing her. He missed his opportunity and never got her pussy. Oh well.....
 
avaadore said:
I don't want to be with any one man, I'm not monogamous.

Race isn't the deciding factor in my relationships, attraction and compatibility are. 9/10x the men I'm attracted to and vibe with are black (specifically Carribean) but not every single time.
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I’ve LONG said that female monogamy shouldn’t BE a forgone conclusion—just a woman’s OPTION but never unless she wants to
 
Most of the black men I have been with and connected with it was about fun and not needing to be a long term commitment. I have known a lot of black men that we enjoyed being friends with benefits and getting the best of both worlds but not having to have the commitment of a marriage or being in a serious relationship.
 
Cakes said:
Most of the black men I have been with and connected with it was about fun and not needing to be a long term commitment. I have known a lot of black men that we enjoyed being friends with benefits and getting the best of both worlds but not having to have the commitment of a marriage or being in a serious relationship.
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True, there IS a lot to be said for friends with benefits, definitely. 😍😊
 
JenNWayne said:
True, there IS a lot to be said for friends with benefits, definitely. 😍😊
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There really is especially between men and women. There always seems to be that aroma of sexual tension between even just friends. Making it so that two friends can be like "yes we can have sex when horny" and not having it be an issue really helps. Not only that but it helps with my husband as well. Typically husbands can get jealous and have unpleasant thoughts when their wives have male friends. They are always wondering if there is something deeper or are they cheating. Now my husband doesn't have to worry because yes I am fucking that male friend but coming home to him.
 
Cakes said:
Most of the black men I have been with and connected with it was about fun and not needing to be a long term commitment. I have known a lot of black men that we enjoyed being friends with benefits and getting the best of both worlds but not having to have the commitment of a marriage or being in a serious relationship.
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I wholeheartedly agree the familiarity and comfort of a special friendship/relationship with a couple enhances every experience be it sex or just meeting for drinks and dinner or morning coffee at Starbucks
 
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