I couldn't truly respect a cuck partner

[SCBlknNsty]

I do have a boyfriend, but he doesn't know about my BBC escapades. I know what I'm doing is wrong, but at the same time I find it thrilling

The thing is, I think he would be open to it, as he has "joked" about it before but I've never pushed on it. It did have me thinking though, I could never marry or be in a relationship with a man that wants to be a cuck. I just couldn't respect someone that views themselves as less than another man. Kink is one thing, but I think this is one of the few kinks that has too many unrepairable ramifications

My friend tried it with her bf too and she talks about him like he's nothing now, the respect and attraction to him has gone, and almost feels like the love has gone too.

Is that what it becomes? You end up staying together because of a mutual kink and home/financial stability etc rather than truly loving the person you're with?

Would love to hear some honest takes on this

With respect, you're assessing the situation from an inappropriate place.
Your first responsibility is to yourself. In your words, what you are doing is wrong. I didn't get a sense that you definitively identified what you find thrilling: is it cheating, interracial sex, extra sexual partners?

Why is he your boyfriend? What differentiates him from your 'playmates'?

Every human being, or 'complete' one will have moments or periods of ego and insecurity, and too many of us don't pay attention or appreciate the interconnection our relationships contribute/detract to them. Those in relationships who perceive both receiving and giving the sense of all to their partners usually don't give a damn what anyone else thinks.

 

[Hotwifecc]

I mean
He probably wouldn’t respect a cheater

 

[Blackamoordfw]

So if I'm reading this correctly you think there are more irreparable ramifications of him being a cuckold that is supportive and more importantly consenting of you getting your rocks off than you going behind his back to do it? Don't you think that's the issue therein? There's different strokes for different folks. There's no shame in saying something isn't for you but I personally know many couples in cuck relationships and marriages that have reached a level of intimacy, understanding and being honest with each other that few have or will regardless on if he still gets to fuck her or not. The bigger issue I feel is why you feel the need to have him as your "boyfriend" but obviously don't respect him enough to keep it real with him that you want other dick.

 

[MagicMikeATX]

It's not like the only option for him is to be a cuck, right? My BF is far from a cuck, in fact he is rather confident and sexually dominant as well. To him it doesn't have anything to do with his position and submission. He's just okay with me being with black men and enjoys watching that. I don't think he would be a good fit for me if he was cuck though. That just wouldn't work at all.

As a sidenote: I get the thrill, but doing this behind his back doesn't show a lot of respect towards him in the first place.

Right. Every guy with a kinky woman doesn't make him a cuckold. I know a few Stag/Vixen types here in Texas.
Local guy gives his Latina GF a Hall Pass with me, exclusively. Definitely not a cuckold. We are in a... 'friendly competition' to see which of makes her Cum more


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[Orion Pax]

It says a lot about a Woman
from a biological and psychological perspective that she not only ACCEPTS this mentality but Chooses to actively pursues it.
(Choice, Ladies)

In my youth, soft men wouldn't stand a chance in hell connecting with a woman, let alone a hot woman.

This soft ass Big Sister Society Fostered an environment effeminate Men have the opportunity to mate and procreate.

I can go a step deeper...

It goes against nature to have a Beta male or even worse - God forbid- an OMEGA MALE be the head of a clan/ tribe /household/ pack etc...

No other Mammals in nature that I'm aware of would this type of behavior be sustainable for a strong family bloodline to prosper

So the fact that women not only accept this Behavior but actively want to be a part of it is completely UNNATURAL to Me.

Who the fuck knows

True to the core. The roles have been reversed. And it's very sad.

 

[Orion Pax]

I'm glad Someone else noticed. I been in this Game a long time. I watched the gradual change over the past 2 decades

Idk if its 'sad'. Just More Pussy for ME

Be very careful of what you wish for young bro. These women have bad mojo on them. We are a blessed race of people for reason. And I'm talking what the heathens call sexually. Don't throw your blessings away.

 

[MagicMikeATX]

Be very careful of what you wish for young bro. These women have bad mojo on them. We are a blessed race of people for reason. And I'm talking what the heathens call sexually. Don't throw your blessings away.

Not sure why you call me 'Young bro' I'm a whole grown man
Been doing this a long time G, way before this internet *******. But I hear you Bruh 👁‍🗨

 

[Orion Pax]

Not sure why you call me 'Young bro' I'm a whole grown man
Been doing this a long time G, way before this internet *******. But I hear you Bruh 👁‍🗨

Well your younger than me. And no disrespect brother

 

[gary21]

Why is it that if you bring home another girl and double team your man or watch him fuck her you are a kick ass girlfriend/wife and he will love you more but if he is open minded enough to accept it is hot to watch you fuck or double team you he is less of a man? I say it takes a real confident man to do either one of those things and not be an idiot after

I'm a competitive person, and nothing gets me fired up like watching my wife's eyes roll in the back of her head while someone else is pounding her. Makes me want to reclaim her, and I do. I have a great cock, but it's not the biggest she's ever had. And at Splash Mocha, she's probably going to take some 10" or 11" cocks that will burn into her memory. I'll never have one of those... but so what? I can still take her to the place where it feels like her soul is leaving her body as she cums.

It's all about mindset. Lean into the lifestyle that gets you off, and cum hard and often. And of course, be honest with your partner. If you can't be honest with them, who can you be honest with?

 

[strangedays2]

The Omega Male is the lowest rung in the Wolfpack. The Wolfpack represents one of the greatest hierarchical structures in the mammal world

Beta Male is not a negative, it simply refers to every other male who isn't the Alpha of the pack. However, the Omega is truly the lowest. They have no rights, no voting rights, no breeding rights, and they are quite frankly treated like *******.

In fact the Omegas only purpose is to add numbers to the pack and to be used as a whipping post to strengthen the other males.

Some of these cuckold couples that I've met their man husband or boyfriend would be viewed as an Omega.

Wolf packs don't actually have alpha males and alpha females, the idea is based on a misunderstanding You may have heard that a wolf pack is led by an alpha pair. phys.org

 

[MagicMikeATX]

Wolf packs don't actually have alpha males and alpha females, the idea is based on a misunderstanding You may have heard that a wolf pack is led by an alpha pair. phys.org

HUMANS made up that name, just like people make up titles for everything. ******* Information updates the more scientists study them.

 

[Suddenlyslutty]

This is so concerning for us. This is what people talk about by saying you can’t un ring the bell, can’t go back to the way it was, etc. This is the husband speaking. Took us a long time to get where we are, for me to admit to myself that I find it hot. It’s hard for me because I’m not at all a submissive, beta guy. I sure hope that being honest and open with my partner doesn’t have detrimental consequences. The entire point of us exploring each other and opening up is to improve our lives for each other. I’m glad you have been honest about this because I can’t help but wonder …we fantasize all the time but Jesus …what if she never sees me the same? What if I don’t see her the same? Posts like yours make me want to keep it just a fantasy and not take it further. I feel like it’s safer. Maybe we wouldn’t be living our lives to the fullest but maybe it’s for the best? I’ll give up everything for us. Do anything for us. When realizing that, and hearing about how destructive it can be, is it worth it?

 

[Bristolangela]

I left my first husband because I’d lost respect for our marriage after my first encounter and I felt I wasn’t being honest and fair to him. Fast forward over 30 yrs and I have a platonic (almost) companion I wouldn’t be without.

 

[Bellaazz]

I do have a boyfriend, but he doesn't know about my BBC escapades. I know what I'm doing is wrong, but at the same time I find it thrilling

The thing is, I think he would be open to it, as he has "joked" about it before but I've never pushed on it. It did have me thinking though, I could never marry or be in a relationship with a man that wants to be a cuck. I just couldn't respect someone that views themselves as less than another man. Kink is one thing, but I think this is one of the few kinks that has too many unrepairable ramifications

My friend tried it with her bf too and she talks about him like he's nothing now, the respect and attraction to him has gone, and almost feels like the love has gone too.

Is that what it becomes? You end up staying together because of a mutual kink and home/financial stability etc rather than truly loving the person you're with?

Would love to hear some honest takes on this

I know there are a lot of cucks on here who are more "extreme" (for lack of a better word) in their desire for being a cuck. Not everyone of us feel that way though. Some just enjoy having our own private sex star and watching our wives gets us very excited and wanting to be with her as well. It's more like sharing.

 

[VegascplXXX]

This shows just how complex human sexuality truly is. We all try to put things in neat little boxes. We want to define everyone as Gay, or Straight, but we are all more like 50 shades. I've always thought that the definition of cuckold was simply a male who liked to see his female partner with other men. By that definition my husband is a cuckold. However, he is in every respect a take charge Alfa Male. He does play a submissive role when we have an MFM threesome, but that is only for the time we are playing. We have been active swingers for many years. He is in great shape and has no problem drawing female attention. I have No interest in a relationship with another man. I don't want to date or spend the night. It sometimes makes me jealous when he is flirting with other women. How can I possibly complain about that when I'm enjoying sex with other men.

I think the people involved in the relationship should set the rules that work for them. When you consider that traditional marriage has a failure rate of over 50%, what do you have to lose? Just because you tell your boyfriend about your BBC habit does not mean he will automatically become a Sissy Maid. Communication is the key. Assuming you are not going to give up your BBC habit, you and your boyfriend need to communicate. You need to decide what kind of relationship that you want. I respect my husband even more, because he gives me the freedom to enjoy others. He has the same freedom. I think in any solid relationship it has to be mutually beneficial. If it's one sided, you are headed for lots of drama.

 

[ridgelyfan]

it sounds like you don't respect your partner regardless. you're already cheating on him and lying to him. not sure that a sharing kink has any bearing on your respect level

 

[Justa_Blackman]

I do have a boyfriend, but he doesn't know about my BBC escapades. I know what I'm doing is wrong, but at the same time I find it thrilling

The thing is, I think he would be open to it, as he has "joked" about it before but I've never pushed on it. It did have me thinking though, I could never marry or be in a relationship with a man that wants to be a cuck. I just couldn't respect someone that views themselves as less than another man. Kink is one thing, but I think this is one of the few kinks that has too many unrepairable ramifications

My friend tried it with her bf too and she talks about him like he's nothing now, the respect and attraction to him has gone, and almost feels like the love has gone too.

Is that what it becomes? You end up staying together because of a mutual kink and home/financial stability etc rather than truly loving the person you're with?

Would love to hear some honest takes on this

He doesn't have to be a cuck to accept you being with other men.

 

[goodhubby]

I totally understand that, and an open relationship is something I could live with.

I guess I'm more talking about, I couldn't respect my man if he wanted to watch, or go down on me after another man was inside.of me. I like men to be masculine, for.me, that just feels very submissive and weak.

Luckily me and my wife were just the opposite. The more men that got into her pussie the more hots we got for each other. We fucked like mad every time she received other guys semen into her mouth and /or pussie.

 

[Mypete]

I wasn't a cuckold,but my wife started seeing black men without me and cuckolded me! I didn't take it too well and cuckolded her right back. She was very jealous of other women around me,so she didn't take it well. She really believed I was going to stay home and play Mr. Mom while she cuckolded me with black men. I told her that if she wanted to do her thing one night a week,so did I! She wasn't giving up her gig,so she reluctantly agreed to my terms! Her flings lasted a few months,I cuckold her back for years!

 

[PinkyBuck]

First off I think your relationship is already fucked and you obviously don’t respect him now since you cheat often

Not every cuck wants to be humiliated, caged, be treated like less of a man or is secretly gay

Why is it that if you bring home another girl and double team your man or watch him fuck her you are a kick ass girlfriend/wife and he will love you more but if he is open minded enough to accept it is hot to watch you fuck or double team you he is less of a man? I say it takes a real confident man to do either one of those things and not be an idiot after
Also hotwifing is something you do as a couple to turn each other on. I don’t think most ppl do it because he is a little wimp with a little cock. (Obviously there are exceptions) That shows up a lot on web sites from the incel’s who’s gf is a keyboard but I don’t think it’s the norm for real couples who like the hotwife lifestyle. I think there are a lot more stag type men in real hotwifing but the internet is dominated by the online fantasies of porn watching guys who’s wife’s don’t know or won’t do it if they have a woman at all

I agree 100%