Husbands in all traditional patriarchal societies, South Asian including, are largely possessive. They treat women a object, incapable of sexual desires n wants. This is what has been the traditional narrative, young genex is complaining against, apparently. However, things hv been changing lately.Modern urban women, I mention Indian here since my roots are from there only, hv been shaping the contors of sexual market setting. Modern woman hv quite effectively carved a space for her sexuality in traditional monogamous family system too. Traditional Monogamous marriage space is increasingly been encroached by dark feminine individual sexuality. We all know women too hv dark fantasy. I m professionally consigned in Marketing sector of a luxurious brand dealing with Lingries. Where I meet scores of new females daily, all young to old. Among all my female friends n clients that I hv cultivated I have noticed a deep desire to live fantasy. Having 1 or two bf apart from husband hs been kinda trending. Whn my colleagues revealed this to I was very hastitant. But it pays off dear. In last two years of this lifestyle, I hv discovered what I was missing in life. We women are wanderers, women do monkey jump from branch to branch if not morality shamed. My husband did protest against me getting close to males or befriending thm in non duty hours. But I hold my grounds, so much so that he has stopped taking offense out of it. I mean women hv to condition their husband about her innate sexual desires forcefully. And we independent women cn do it perfectly. Now I hv manage to make his accept its normal. I enjoy my relationship with young,old n still hv a husband permanently. However, I follow no bareback contact with bf. That liberty is for my husband. I will only recreat his genes. But still get pleasure from all windows. In a nutshell, it's possible to make room for ur sexuality in patriarchal societies too. You just need to take steps. Be open about it to your partner. Try sniffing his fantasy, males having threesome fantasy are easy to convince.